In a person's life, there will be many difficult things to choose, not all things have a perfect solution, it is indeed deeply powerless, and even overwhelmed. For example, between a boyfriend and a girlfriend or a couple, in order to test her position in her husband's heart, the woman likes to repeatedly throw out such a question: If I and your mother fall into the water at the same time and can only save one, which one will you choose to save?
Encountering such a tricky problem is a very headache for every man, and it is simply an unanswerable sending proposition. If you save your wife, you will definitely be spurned by others, leaving behind a name of filial piety, and you will also feel guilty for a lifetime, and you will never be able to forgive yourself. However, if you choose to save your mother, your wife will inevitably think that she does not love her, and it is very likely that she will turn her face on the spot, resulting in emotional discord, and even some unreasonable wives will make a big fuss and propose divorce.
The world's anthem, as good as it is, does not live up to the qing, encounters difficult and does not have a perfect answer to the problem, racking their brains will not help. Has your girlfriend or wife ever asked the question of "which one to save by falling into the water"? Don't be clever, and don't try to be reasonable, because at some point, women don't listen to you. If you really encounter the problem of your wife and mother falling into the water at the same time, don't be too alarmed, as early as two thousand years ago, the ancients used an idiom to give the answer.
The perfect explanation is given by a woman whose last and last names are unknown, but whose husband Matsuri (also known as Matsuri) is not simple, and her daughter Yongji is also more famous. During the Spring and Autumn Period, Zheng Guo's strategist assisted five kings in succession, and he could be described as an extremely popular subject, and the abolition of the monarch was not a problem. After the death of Zheng Zhuang, the chancellor headed by the sacrifice foot, The prince who supported the prince to inherit the throne, was known as Zheng Zhaogong in history.
The practice of sacrificing feet offended the Duke of Songzhuang, because Zheng Zhuang had a concubine from the Yong clan of the Song Kingdom, and the concubine's family was unusual in the Song Kingdom, and she gave birth to Gongzi Tu for the Duke of Zhengzhuang. Duke Zhuang of Song intended to let gongzi suddenly inherit the throne of Zheng Guo, but the premise was to depose Zheng Zhaogong, and only sacrifice could do this. Since the key to the problem was found, the Duke of Song Zhuang sent a letter to the sacrificial foot, promising him a rich gift, on a very simple condition, so that the sacrificial foot would come to the Song Kingdom. The sacrificial foot was moved, and resolutely agreed to song Zhuanggong's invitation and drove there happily.
The "History of the Zheng Family Twelfth" records that Duke Zhuang married the daughter of the Song Yong clan and gave birth to Li Gongtu. The Yong clan was favored by the Song. Song Zhuang's public hearing of the sacrifice of Zhong's standing was to induce people to induce the sacrifice of Zhong and insist on it: "If you do not stand up, you will die." "And he clings to his offers. Sacrifice to Xu Song, and Song Meng. Suddenly return, stand up. Zhaogong overheard that The Sacrifice Ofaka was a brother to Song, and in September, he suddenly came out of Benwei. 己海, suddenly to Zheng, Li, is for Li Gong.
After arriving in the Song Kingdom, the priest found that the situation was not right, and what awaited him was not the delicacies of mountain treasures and seafood, nor the generous gifts prepared by Song Zhuanggong, but a Hongmen feast. Song Zhuanggong waved his hand, asked the guards to immediately control the sacrificial foot, and told him: "You only have two ways now, either abolish Zheng Zhuanggong and establish Gongzi Tu as king, or I will put you to death." Exactly how to choose, you look at it, don't challenge my tolerance. ”
As the saying goes, a good man does not eat the immediate loss, in line with the principle of "staying in the green mountains, not afraid of no firewood", the sacrifice can only agree to the request of the Duke of Song Zhuang, and the prince suddenly succeeds in taking the throne, known in history as Zheng Ligong. Despite sitting on the throne, Zheng Ligong had no real name, and the power was still in the hands of the sacrificial foot. It was intolerable and intolerable, and Zheng Ligong decided to assassinate the sacrificial foot and entrust this arduous task to his confidant Yong Gui.
Yong Gui was not only Zheng Ligong's confidant, but also the son-in-law of the sacrifice foot. If someone else had asked Yong Gui to kill his father-in-law to sacrifice his feet, he would certainly not have the answer, but since it was arranged by Zheng Ligong, the loyal Yong Gui had to do so. Yong Jie prepared wine and good food for his father-in-law to eat, and found reliable soldiers in advance to tell them about the plan to assassinate the sacrificial foot. However, this matter happened to be overheard by his wife Yongji, who was very conflicted in her heart.
If the father is informed of her husband's plan, then yonggui will undoubtedly die; if he does not inform his father, the father will be killed by Yonggui. Yongji quickly found her mother, and then asked, "Father and husband, who is closer?" Her mother said to her, "The father is only one, but everyone is a husband." This means that there is only one father and more than one husband, which is the origin of the idiom "everyone can be a husband".
After listening to the answer given by her mother, Yongji suddenly became enlightened and understood what she should do. Without further ado, he told his father about her husband Yongjiao's conspiracy to sacrifice his feet, and the sacrifice feet broke out in a cold sweat, and after calming down, he immediately sent someone to catch and kill his son-in-law Yongjiao. Through the idiom allusion of "everyone can be husband", let us know a truth, when husbands and fathers can only choose one, the ancients would not hesitate to choose their father.
In the same way, when the wife and mother fall into the water and can only save one, they should save the mother. What do you think about that?