Today I want to share with you an idiom story. The word "man" must be known to everyone. Now the meaning of this word is actually not good, it is a derogatory word to describe women badly. But when this word first came out, it did not disparage the righteousness of women, so let's take a look at its story now.
This word comes from the "FifteenTh Year of the Duke of Huan". During the Spring and Autumn Warring States period, zheng guo, under the leadership of the spring and autumn overlord Zheng Zhuanggong, was very prosperous, but unfortunately fell ill and died suddenly, and the throne was inherited by the crown prince, known as Zheng Zhaogong. However, due to the civil strife in the country, he was forced to leave the country and flee. In collusion with the Song Dynasty, The Prince of Song was suddenly established as the Duke of Zheng, but the power of the state was always held in the hands of the Emperor.
Zheng Ligong was afraid that the power of the sacrifice was too great and would be unfavorable to himself, so Yong Gui went to assassinate the sacrifice. Because the daughter of the priest is the wife of Yong Jie, she is called Yong Ji. But this matter was overheard by Yongji, so she did not know whether to help her husband hide it, or to tell her father, the tangled Yongji went back to her mother's house and asked her mother: Choose one of the father and husband, which is closer? Her mother said, Father
There is only one, but the husband can be anyone. After hearing this, Yongji told her father about her husband's plan.
After the matter was revealed, Yong Ji naturally could not live, and Yong Ji was also scolded by the world for a thousand years. In fact, the original meaning of this word is to show from the aspect of traditional filial piety that a woman should choose a father between her husband and her father, because there is only one father, which is not a derogatory term that indicates that a woman's style is inappropriate.