In the primitive period, the matriarchal society occupied the main position of the society, since the Zhou Gong system, it began to enter the patriarchal society, in the patriarchal society, the woman is following the father before marriage, after marriage, the husband is the mainstay, so once the husband and the father break out of contradictions, how should the woman choose?
The problem is the same as "the girlfriend and the mother fell into the river together", but how you choose is wrong, save the mother, you will get the girlfriend's unhappiness, save the girlfriend, you will be beaten up in the reputation of filial piety, so saving or not saving is extremely embarrassing.
In 2000, during the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, the patriarchal society had not yet fully formed, and women's rights were still very large, and they had certain choices. Ji Zhong was a famous politician and strategist of zheng guo, during the reign of Zheng Zhuanggong, he served as a qing doctor, and was deeply favored, and after the death of Zheng Zhuanggong, he supported three monarchs successively.
After Zheng Ligong took the throne, the sacrifice of Zhongquan fell to the opposition and monopolized power, Zheng Ligong was more like a puppet emperor, Zheng Ligong wanted to get rid of Cai Zhong, but the whole court, are Cai Zhong's people, it is very difficult to get started, but Cai Zhong has a son-in-law named Yong Gui, Yong Gui has no status in the family, Although Cai Zhong monopolizes power, he is very harsh and very dissatisfied with Yong Zhong.
Zheng Ligong co-opted Yong Gui and promised him that as long as he could kill Cai Zhong, he would let him serve as Zheng Guo's doctor, and Yong Gui was wavering for a while, after all, he was his father-in-law, so Yong Gui was confused and consulted with his wife Yong Ji, and Yong Ji was also very surprised after listening to it.
She was also in trouble for a while, on the one hand was the father and the husband, she did not know how to choose, she asked the mother: which one of the father and the husband is closer, the mother said to her: everyone can be a husband, the father has only one, how can it be compared?
After Yong Ji wanted to understand, he told his father about this matter, Cai Zhong was furious, so he first killed his son-in-law Yong Gui, and also put his body on the side of the pond to show the public, Zheng Ligong knew that the catastrophe was coming, so he carried Yong Gui's body and fled from Zheng Guo, Zheng Ligong was still humane, and found him a place to bury him at will.
When he was buried, he was very angry and said to Yong Jie's corpse, "Major matters are discussed with women, and death deserves", as for Yong Ji was called "filial piety" by later generations, Cai Zhong also supported Zheng Zhaogong's ascension to the throne, after Zheng Zhaogong's death, Cai Zhong did not dare to welcome Zheng Ligong back to China, so he changed the brother of Zheng Zhaogong to be a prince, and was known as Zheng Ziqi in history.
Although "everyone can be husband" is now a derogatory term, but in the circumstances at that time, this sentence is not wrong, in the pre-Qin period, the concept of clan is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, the father and Yongji have blood relations, the husband is not, the father is only one, but thousands of men in the world can become husbands, so naturally choose to stand by the father's side.
However, after entering the feudal society, the status of women plummeted, and there was even a saying that the daughter who married out spilled water.