In the face of strong countries, there are only two ways to solve, defeat them or seek perfection, when facing the northern steppe peoples, the central plains have a low winning rate, and most of the time they are in the perspective of the weak. In order to save themselves, they have to pay a certain price, that is, they are criticized for their relatives.
The policy of peace and pro-family is to maintain the rule of the country at the expense of women, and those women who marry far away from other countries are destined by heaven in the future, especially the women who marry Mongolia as far away, most of them have no heirs, and finally can only die alone.
The suffering of marrying far away
For the princess, the far marriage must be the fate they least want to accept, stay in the Central Plains, even if they fall down, the second half of the life will not be too bad, but the far marriage is completely different, even if the respected Princess Wencheng, after the long marriage is also lonely, not to mention those princesses who married to Mongolia.
Although Mongolia is strong in combat effectiveness, but the overall is very backward, not only poor living conditions, but also retains a lot of ancient simple customs, it is conceivable that the princess who married here will live a hard life, and even some princesses, after coming to Mongolia, directly choose to commit suicide.
According to records, most of the princesses who married into Mongolia did not have any heirs, and even if they occasionally had children, they basically died prematurely, which not only involved the reasons of the surrounding environment, but also the influence of a Mongolian vice.
As a condition of peace, Mongolia does not have much good looks for these princesses who marry from afar, and will not treat them with courtesy, not only to wash and cook to take care of their husbands, but also to endure the violent temper of Mongolian husbands, many princesses, even perennial wounds.
For Mongolia, if the princess is treated preferentially, it also means the attitude towards the Central Plains, so Mongolia has always maintained the habit of abusing the princess, just to remind the Central Plains region and let them know their weak position, which lasted until the Yuan Dynasty.
But this does not affect the princess's fertility, Mongolians have always believed in having many children and grandchildren, an ordinary Mongolian woman, basically have more than five children, from a young age to a princess with high-quality living conditions, naturally will not lack fertility, so the problem of this matter, or from the princess herself.
The princess's insistence
Marrying Mongolia is not something that princesses can decide, they are victims and do not have the right to choose for themselves, but there is still one thing, they firmly hold the initiative, that is, procreation. In ancient China, although most pharmacies did not prescribe abortion drugs, princesses naturally knew how to have abortion and how to contraception.
After marrying far away, they will try their best to contraceptive themselves and make them unable to have children, and the environment of the Mongolian steppe makes the fertility of Mongolian men decline, so after contraception, the probability of princess pregnancy is very low, and even without active contraception, it is difficult to conceive a child, which is why Mongolians have never been able to expand the population.
For this problem, the Mongols have also made a lot of efforts, but the biggest problem has not been solved, although the steppe is suitable for grazing, but not suitable for planting, the imbalance of nutrition makes many mothers unable to have normal births, and it is impossible to raise children smoothly.
Under such simple conditions as the savannah, abortion is also very simple, even if they are pregnant, they have to do farm work, and the princesses who were originally weak in physique are easily miscarried naturally under the tiring farm work, and if they add some special drugs such as saffron, they will directly lose their children.
If the Mongols attach great importance to the princess, after pregnancy, let her raise the fetus until childbirth, the princess also has countless ways to let the child die, in front of the cruel woman, it is naturally not difficult to have no heirs.
In this regard, the Mongols also think of ways, for example, before the princess gives birth, restrict her movements, let the nurse take care of the princess, wait until the princess gives birth, the first time to snatch the child to raise on behalf of, but even if this is done, most of the children also died early, in the Central Plains, there are many Mongolian descendants, but in the Mongolian region, it is rare to see people with blood in the Central Plains.
Bad habits in Mongolia
In addition to subjective will, a major bad habit in Mongolia is also the main reason why princesses are determined not to have children.
In order to ensure the prosperity of the population of the steppe, Mongolia has maintained a bad habit for many years, after the death of the father, the father's wife is all inherited by his own children, at one time to ensure that each woman can have more children, perhaps in the eyes of the Mongols, this is the fastest way to breed the population, but for the Central Plains, it is a serious violation of ethics.
The day before, the princess still looked at him like a child, and then she might have to accept the fate of becoming his wife, but also to give him children, if this matter was known to the Central Plains, not only her, but also her family would be insulted and ridiculed by others, even if they could not resist such a fate, they would choose to resist with infertility.
In addition, the Mongols' obsession with women is also very large, when the two tribes have a war, women are the first resources to be taken away, in ancient wars, especially steppe wars, more women means more people in the future, more warriors are the foundation of their foothold.
Every tribe would snatch women and then force them to marry the men of their own tribe and have children, which was a very normal behavior for steppe women. Even if they love their husbands, they will accept this fate, but the princesses from the Central Plains cannot accept it, they are independent individuals, not a reproductive tool.
For various reasons, the princesses who are married far away basically do not leave any heirs, let alone bring the culture and technology of the Central Plains into Mongolia, and they always adhere to the belief in their hearts that the Central Plains will eventually take revenge and hatred, and in the process of revenge, they naturally do not want their children to become the object of death in battle.
Time has passed, the once powerful Mongolia also had a day of forced peace, that is, the Qing Dynasty, due to the strength of the Qing Dynasty, Mongolia has also become one of the subordinates of the Qing Dynasty, in order to survive, the Mongolian region began to frequently adopt a policy of peace and affinity, Cixi came from the Mongolian region, one of the most powerful families.
Unlike the women of the Central Plains, Mongolian women did not refuse to have children after marrying into the Qing Dynasty, because this could strengthen their families, although Cixi did not leave children, but the family behind Cixi continued to grow and develop.
As a tool of political marriage, those princesses who are forced to marry have too much helplessness, even if they are born noble, they cannot choose their own future, and their life after marriage is even worse than that of ordinary people.