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Divorce means the end of the relationship between husband and wife, and from then on the bridge returns to the bridge road. However, after Chen Yanan and Zhu Xiaowei broke off their marriage contract, they were moths that continued to emerge in waves of uneven waves.
Recently, Chen Yanan broke out the "black material" of the coat sister-in-law in an interview video, and the rhythm of the coat brother's family stinks in minutes.
Chen Yanan took out his mobile phone in the video, and the recording content released was the matter of Henan donations that the sister-in-law of the coat talked about. "The people of Henan have nothing to do with me." In the recorded video, the words spoken from the mouth of the coat sister-in-law are indeed "ugly" enough. However, they still have not missed the money and materials donated, in contrast, what is even uglier than the coat sister-in-law is the person who reopened the old account in front of the media to disclose the secretly recorded audio - the former daughter-in-law Chen Yanan.
There are three "ugly" of it:
First, for a family that was still a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship at that time, a daughter-in-law could secretly record the "family ugly" and save it, which in itself was not the work of a kind-hearted family and relatives, but the enemy who was "in the enemy camp and in the heart of the Han" who was lying down and tasting the courage, it was terrible to think.
Second, using the celebrity effect of the father-in-law to help their own public welfare behavior, they have a good reputation and are not grateful, but they also crossed the river to tear down the bridge, and then bit the former mother-in-law after divorce, which is really difficult to understand.
Third, when there is no divorce, "fry" the husband, and constantly publicly accuse her husband Zhu Xiaowei of being incompetent and not seeking progress on the Internet, emphasizing that he has always been making money in live broadcasting to support his family, as if he is "marrying" very wronged. Divorced, and began to "fry" the mother-in-law, for that poor traffic, the back road is not going to be wanted. After the marriage is divorced, they still bite each other and hold on, how can such a person make others look up to them?
In the previous interview, Chen Yanan had no scruples about accusing the coat sister-in-law, saying that when she arrived at home, the coat sister-in-law ignored her and made her heart cold. But I never asked myself: What mother-in-law in this world would be full of joy and applaud a daughter-in-law who "denigrates" her son on the Internet all the time? Not fighting with her directly is already saving her enough face. Looking at the "identity" of the daughter-in-law, it is not good to tear the face directly.
Chen Yanan not only did not see the good and received it, but persistently cried with netizens everywhere.
Unfortunately, the progress of things is not as good as she expected, not only failed to win everyone's sympathy, but instead changed to more netizens' "cheers" and directly "bitterly criticize" her for being too heavy, after the divorce, Chen Yanan's actions made netizens confirm the previous speculation: her marriage motive with Zhu Xiaowei is not pure, just to use the celebrity effect of the coat brother to attract traffic for himself.
"As long as you can be famous, the way you are famous is not important, and the result is good." Perhaps, this is Chen Yanan's "beautiful expectation" of hastily marrying Zhu Xiaowei, who did not know much and did not reach the legal age of marriage.
Unfortunately, the unscrupulous way of dealing with things that "rogues don't ask about provenance, as long as they become famous", Chen Yanan has been screwed up.
Clear-eyed people can see that Chen Yanan chose to break out the "black material" action of his former mother-in-law's coat sister-in-law after the divorce, and he wanted to destroy the reputation of the coat brother's family.
At first glance, it seems that Chen Yanan is exposing the unknown "ugly" side of his coat sister-in-law to the public, but instead, smart netizens have further seen Chen Yanan's ulterior motives in this wave of "shrewd" planning and drainage, and have sighed: The Zhu family's resignation is really right, who dares to want this kind of daughter-in-law? This kind of bad-hearted person who can't get it and destroy it, even if he is a friend, no one dares to do it, right?
Carrying the banner of "justice", he added bricks and tiles to the satisfaction of his own selfish desires, but he did not expect that one accidentally hit his feet by the bricks and tiles.
Although, from Chen Yanan's point of view, she is also a "poor person". Originally expected to marry into the "rich", using the reputation of the father-in-law can open the brilliant door for their own self-media career, from then on, they can attribute the results to their own "efforts" and "ability", and be the "queen" of self-reliance that everyone envies. But I didn't think about it, one move was careless, and I lost everything. The Zhu Xiaowei, whom she had ignored from beginning to end, eventually became the one who woke her up from the dream.
Everyone needs face, and Zhu Xiaowei is no exception, but Chen Yanan, as a wife, has let him face the camera facelessly and express his heart freely again and again. What husband is willing to spend his whole life with such a woman who looks down on him?
Since things have finally developed to the point where no one wants to be the same person again, divorce should be regarded as a relief for both parties. The main road faces the sky, each half way. The past love of the past, let it slowly fade with the wind.
Especially for Chen Yanan, for the high traffic brought by Zhu Zhiwen to himself in the past, express a polite gratitude, perhaps netizens will also have a tolerant attitude and continue to support you to bring goods live. However, you have made a self-destructive act of "insufficient human heart and snake swallowing elephants", which is really lamentable: shrewdness is too much.
Chen Yanan only knows that netizens are good at "sympathizing with the weak", but he does not understand that netizens in the new era are more "advocating justice".
After the recording file was exposed, netizens did not jump out at the first time to accuse the coat sister-in-law, but unusually unanimously expressed their doubts about Chen Ya's character and determined that she was a woman with a dark psychology. After the divorce, he also bit the coat brother's family and used the previous chat recordings to disgust the Zhu family to keep their heat unabated.
Seriously, it's quite pitiful Chen Yanan, but there is no way to give sympathy, because, the road, she came out by herself.
They have been divorced for so long, and they still have to pull out the matter of the former mother-in-law again, how unwilling is this marriage and divorce?
It seems that the coat sister-in-law has suffered a lot of damage because of her exposure, but Chen Yanan's practice of "injuring the enemy eight hundred and losing one thousand to herself" is really too unwise, and it is really time to read "Sun Tzu's Art of War" again.
Chen Yanan thought that publicly exposing the "ugly" side of her coat sister-in-law in front of netizens would make others praise her for "killing her relatives with great righteousness" and sympathize with her for the difficult days she had had in a family that was not kind. She regarded netizens as "puppets" that she could carry in her hand at any time, thinking that if she pulled the small rope, everyone would follow the script she had thought of, but the result was that she could not bear but also irreparable all kinds of unfavorable remarks and actions against herself.
In order to maintain the heat, they are divorced and must continue to force the relationship with the coat brother's family again to drain themselves. This kind of behavior, there is really no way to make others look up to her.
Divorce can not afford to be divorced, in order to achieve their own goals unscrupulous, do things without a bottom line, no lower limit, is really disgraceful.
A bite back at the end of the road will only make more people see the viciousness of its wolf ambitions.
Chen Yanan, the girl, has put all her happiness in the second half of her life, she has lost her own way back and ruined her future. I only hope that she can wake up a little sooner and stop clinging to one mistake and making more mistakes. You know, many times, it is not necessary to harm others to benefit themselves, but it is easier to lift a stone and drop it on their own feet.