Before giving birth, every woman is very free, and after giving birth, she is held inwardly and physically.
Children's happiness and unhappiness, especially illness, first affect their hearts. It can be said that once a child is sick, the first person to be crushed is the mother, and in the children's clinic of the hospital, the mother can be seen everywhere holding the child anxiously.
Really, sometimes when it comes to children, many mothers have an IQ of 0.
Case
Wang Yun's daughter is 4 years old this year, the only child in the family, and the couple is particularly fond of this daughter.
Before her daughter coughed and caught a cold, and then gradually developed a fever, Wang Yun was so anxious that he immediately took her to a small clinic nearby. The doctor said that the child already needed to be admitted to the hospital for treatment, and recommended going to a large hospital.
After hearing this, Wang Yun was particularly anxious, afraid that the child would make a little mistake, so he quickly entrusted the child with hospitalization according to the instructions.
Later, one day when the doctor was on a round, he chatted with Wang Yun twice, saying that the reason why the child was always sick may be caused by the lack of trace elements, and he could arrange a check-up for the child.
Wang Yun thought that money is a small matter, and the child's physical health is the most important.
Ben also promised to test the child for trace elements, but the doctor said that not only hair tests were needed, but also blood tests.
At that time, Wang Yun was a little distressed about the child, so she called her nurse friend, she was very angry after listening to it, and immediately told Wang Yun: "Don't listen to what he said, this is a blatant pit money, trace element detection has long been stopped, specifically to deceive you heartache children." ”
After listening to his friend's words, Wang Yun carefully inquired on the Internet again, and found that it was indeed so, so he rejected the doctor's suggestion, glad that he did not let the child suffer this crime in vain.
Trace elements are a big pit that almost many mothers have stepped on
Many mothers encounter children's problems are easy to care about and chaotic, and often fall into traps and pay "IQ tax".
In fact, the detection of trace elements in young children has long been stopped by the National Health and Family Planning Commission, and it has been 7 years now.
Moreover, the document specifies that such trace element detection is a gimmick, and the detection of trace elements must not be carried out for children under the premise of non-diagnostic treatment.
Trace elements are indeed very important to children, but through simple hair and blood tests, it is not possible to calculate which trace elements are missing in children, and the results are not referenceable, because trace elements are present in various cells such as children's body skin and organs.
Moreover, regular large hospitals have basically cancelled this examination, and if someone tricks you into doing it, it is mostly "bad intentions".
Some mothers may have seen the "finger clamping" trace element measurement machine in the mother and baby store, which is even more nonsense, it is the "pit" set by the merchant "persuasion" to buy the specified items.
Sometimes the mother is too concerned about the child, she will fall into it, not only spending money unjustly, but also making the child suffer in vain, and must know how to reject such threats and sales.
How can you judge for yourself what kind of trace elements your child is missing?
However, parents should also have a general grasp of their children's physical condition, such as whether they lack any nutrients, so that they can have a direction when adding complementary foods.
However, under normal circumstances, as long as the baby's meat, fruits and vegetables are balanced, there will basically be no such problems.
More common is calcium deficiency, usually manifested as night sweats, slow teething, etc., partial picky eating should consider iron deficiency anemia, loss of appetite, slow growth, then consider zinc deficiency.
If there is no big abnormality, there is no need to worry about such a problem, ensure that you eat less and eat more meals, and make a lot of complementary foods for your child every day. For example, when making porridge, in addition to lean meat, minced green vegetables can also be added.
In addition to trace elements, the following tests parents should also be treated with caution
1. Intelligence examination
Every parent wants the baby to be smart and witty, and in some educational institutions and medical clinics, there will also be programs related to testing the child's intelligence.
The way that large hospitals test children's intelligence is the Merriam-Webster intelligence scale, which is actually more scientific.
Like some small informal hospitals, although there are intellectual examinations, they are usually very complicated, and the test price is not cheap.
In fact, if the child is all normal, there is no need to do the so-called IQ test, there are intelligence problems another.
2. ADHD examination
ADHD is a disorder that is particularly pronounced in children.
In life, some children like to jump up and down in public and run around, and parents feel that their children may have ADHD, take them to go for examinations, and even use drugs directly to limit their children's behavior.
In fact, it is normal for children to be active in the process of growing up, which is a stage of growth, not necessarily ADHD, it may just be lively.
If parents take their children to check and then indiscriminately use drugs, it will affect their health.
When faced with children's problems, parents should be cautious, and others should listen to what they say, but they should not fully believe it.
Especially for some tests, parents should stay awake and ask themselves if there will be results after doing it. Is it accurate? If you need to take medicine later, would you like to give it to your child?
Usually you can also read more authoritative books on parenting, don't fall into other people's pits, losing money is a small matter, affecting the health and psychology of children is a big thing.
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