I love him deeply, but I have become his "love spare tire"

If a man is compared to a book, then when he is in love, he is a "hardcover book", and after marriage, he is a "paperback book". In love, in order to capture the hearts of women and let women be with themselves, men will always show the best and best quality in front of their beloved women.

Originality is not easy / Plagiarism must be investigated

The girl Xiaoli (pseudonym) confided that she had been with her boyfriend for half a year and believed that she knew her boyfriend at least about 70%. Her boyfriend's more straightforward and masculine personality is the type she appreciates more, and she also has a sense of enterprise, and she is also more filial piety. But usually every time I go out to dinner with my boyfriend, my boyfriend is always busy chatting about WeChat, once I inadvertently secretly looked at my boyfriend's WeChat, and found that my boyfriend chatted with girls about WeChat, in fact, Xiao Li also understood that she should not turn over her boyfriend's mobile phone, but her boyfriend's recent performance made Xiao Li very insecure.

Xiao Li feels that he is serious about 80% of this feeling, but as long as his boyfriend is free every day, he is almost chatting about WeChat. Boyfriends are usually busy at work. Xiao Li and her boyfriend basically meet once a week, and sometimes Xiao Li will comfort himself, feeling that as long as the two have each other in their hearts, they do not need to see each other every day and do not need to stick together. 

Dating for a year and a half / Feelings don't stand the test

In the blink of an eye, the two have been together for half a year, and the topics they usually talk about are also some simple and questioning topics about eating, drinking and having fun. The feelings are plain and flat without a little sublimation, about the future Xiao Li and her boyfriend have also talked, but not much, as long as Xiao Li talks about marriage, the boyfriend is always pushing, always saying that he is very busy. He also told Xiao Li that career is the most basic thing for men, and it is also to give Xiao Li a better life.

Once Xiao Li and her boyfriend went to Tongchuan to play with classmates, in the car accidentally saw her boyfriend use WeChat "nearby people" to add a lot of the opposite sex, and chatted with them hot, Xiao Li was in a very bad mood at the time, but did not show it, and then the boyfriend was aware of asking Xiao Li the reason Xiao Li did not say; on National Day, Xiao Li and her boyfriend ate in the car, the soup accidentally spilled on the body, at that time said to the boyfriend: "The clothes are dirty, you help me buy a dress to go", the boyfriend said: "I can accompany you, but the money is not.". As soon as the words came out, Xiao Li was stunned on the spot and turned around and got out of the car...

Aishan reviews

Although Xiao Li feels that her boyfriend's personality is more straightforward and masculine, it is the type she appreciates more, and she also has a sense of enterprise, and is also more filial piety. But these three points seem to have little to do with Xiao Li, half a year has passed, Xiao Li's current feelings for him are still like this, and this man and Xiao Li talk about the future together so little that you can ignore, the time spent on Xiao Li is not too much, I think the significance of maintaining it is not much.

Therefore, in fact, Xiaoli is just a spare tire for him and an embellishment of life. Through the above information, I don't think there is any need for Xiao Li to spend more time and energy on him. We often say that to see whether a man loves you or not, it depends on whether the man is willing to spend time and money for you, using his own strength as a reference; how much tolerance for you and how much content he has built with you; whether he has included you in his life plan, these points can be used as a reference.

Ai Shang heart language

After marriage, men will return to their most authentic and natural nature, after all, home is a place for people to relax and comfort. Therefore, there will be such a classic sentence in the marriage of men and women: when talking about love, you should open your eyes, and after marriage, you should open your eyes and close your eyes. However, if a man is not careful when he is in love, when he shows the "paperback", then I think there are the following possibilities: First, his love for you is not warm, at best you are only a "spare tire". Second, the conditions between you are very different, and he does not care about you at all. Three, you're just a fill in his current emptiness and loneliness.

I hope that each of us women will see the right person and marry the right person on the emotional road. Especially at the critical mouth of emotional choice, we cannot be confused, let alone act rashly. It should be a little more rational and a little more planning. Understanding the essence of the relationship between the sexes, seeing clearly the needs of their hearts, and calmly, calmly and rationally facing the wind and rain on the road of feelings, this is the state that a person with real emotional maturity should have.