In 1986, when his parents divorced since childhood, Yi Nengjing, who was sent to the fence, met Haring Geyu Chengqing, and finally got free from the pain he had been suffering for a long time and fell into sweet love.
But for 14 years, Yu Chengqing has not disclosed his relationship with Yi Nengjing, who waited from an ignorant girl to the year of establishment.
In 2000, because of Yu Chengqing's family, the two could only secretly register for marriage in the United States, ending this 14-year long love run, but Yu Chengqing's parents did not come to the wedding, and two years later gave birth to their son Yu Enli.
However, in 2009, Yi Nengjing issued a divorce statement, ending her nine-year marriage with Yu Chengqing.
Yi Nengjing did not mention the reason for the divorce, but she broke the news that in fact, Yu Chengqing's parents did not like her, especially Yu Chengqing's mother never looked up to her.
She thought she wouldn't believe in love anymore until she met Qin Hao, a man 10 years younger than her.
When getting married, in the face of Qin Hao's solemn proposal, in the face of the romantic wedding ceremony, and in the face of the blessings of all the guests, Yi Nengjing truly felt the happiness of being a bride.
Especially the relationship with the current mother-in-law, like a biological mother and daughter, but also like a close sister, even if the son is 10 years younger than the daughter-in-law, even if the daughter-in-law has a son, the mother-in-law has never abandoned her.
The grievances suffered from the former mother-in-law have been dissolved by the warmth of the current mother-in-law.
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Yi Nengjing was born on March 4, 1968 in Taiwan, her real name is Wu Jingyi, her ancestral home is Jinan, Shandong, her father is Wu Min, and her mother Yang Shuwan is the daughter of The Chinese politician Yang Yuanding, she is the fourth in the family, and has three older sisters.
But his father Wu Min had a very serious patriarchal mentality at that time, and after seeing that his wife had given birth to four daughters in a row and had no sons, he directly chose to divorce and abandon the five mothers and daughters.
For a long time afterward, Yi Nengjing believed that her birth led to her parents' divorce.
After her parents divorced, the young Yi Nengjing was sent to the countryside to grow up, and five years later, her mother sent her to her sister's house in Hong Kong.
The sister accepted her sister with sisterhood, but her brother-in-law was unwilling to raise this "burden".
And the brother-in-law Chen Ruifang is the owner of the Taiwanese gangster Four Seas Gang, suffering from bipolar disorder, coupled with business failures, not only beat her sister violently, but also abused Yi Nengjing, and even forced her to eat dog food.
Years later, Yi Nengjing recalled that experience, describing herself as no different from the stray dog at the door.
Mother Wu found that Yi Nengjing was tortured beyond recognition, so she took her back to her side.
Later, Yi Nengjing's mother remarried to a wealthy Japanese businessman, Yi Neng Xiangguang, and her stepfather was very kind to their mother and daughter, according to Japanese tradition, she followed her stepfather's name and changed her name to Yi Neng Jingjiang.
Yi Nengjing once said: "My stepfather is very rich, and my mother is equivalent to marrying from the countryside to the royal family." ”
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Unfortunately, Yi Nengjing did not follow her mother since she was a child, and she was not close to her, plus because of her origins, she was often ridiculed by the local Japanese nobles, she still decided to return to China, and thus met her life's Bole, the well-known musician Liu Wenzheng.
In 1984, Liu Wenzheng ended his contract with PolyGram and founded Flying Eagle Records.
In 1985, Yi Nengjing said goodbye to her mother and returned to Taiwan, Yi Nengjing, who has been living a poor and miserable life, secretly vowed that she must change her fate and let herself live a happy and stable life.
Once because of work, Yi Nengjing came to a photo studio to take a photo, the boss saw that she looked beautiful, wanted to put her photo in the store as an advertisement, and also gave the conditions for taking photos, Yi Nengjing agreed.
After that, the boss put her photo in the window at the entrance of the studio, just as Liu Wenzheng came to the studio to run errands, he saw the photo of this fresh and lovely little beauty.
Just as his new company was in the preparatory stages, after asking the studio owner, he was determined to find the little girl.
After Liu Wenzheng met Yi Nengjing, he found that in addition to her beautiful looks, she also had good talent and musical talent.
At that time, Liu Wenzheng's company was preparing to form an idol group, which was in the stage of seeking talents, so he threw an olive branch to Yi Nengjing, and it just so happened that Yi Nengjing also had the intention of developing in this regard, and the two hit it off.
In the same year, Liu Wenzheng gathered three beautiful girls with different characteristics, Sunshine Jian Lang Qiu Haizheng, beautiful Wen Jing Fang Wenlin and lively and playful Yi Nengjing to form a girl group - "Flying Eagle Three Sisters".
Yi Nengjing officially debuted with the help of this idol group, and she also changed her name from Yi Neng Jingjiang to Yi Neng Jing.
Soon the group released their first album, which caused a great response in Taiwan, and the three of them became famous.
Immediately after that, Yi Nengjing wrote his own lyrics with the help of Liu Wenzheng and released his first album "With You".
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Before Yi Nengjing prepared to debut, because she was too young and needed a guardian's signature, Liu Wenzheng found her biological father, and the relationship between father and daughter was somewhat relaxed.
When the father left, he also seriously explained that Liu Wenzheng was going to take good care of his daughter.
When Yi Nengjing recorded the song "Daddy Don't Say" from her debut album, her biological father died in a car accident, although the relationship was not good, but after all, blood is thicker than water, not to mention that her relationship with her father is in the repair stage.
Yi Nengjing, who has never felt the warmth of her biological father since she was a child, is eager for someone to give her warmth and love in the face of her father's death.
At this time, Yi Nengjing's career was in an upward period, and the flying eagle three-sister combination was popular, especially attracting the pursuit of many male compatriots in Taiwan.
The lively and cute Yi Nengjing has many admirers, and one of them is the later Haring Ge Yu Chengqing.
The two people know each other because of music, often together to compose lyrics and arrangements, and slowly Yi Nengjing also has a secret affection for this sunny and handsome brother, although Yu Chengqing is 8 years older than her, but the appearance of Haringo still brings a warm ray of sunshine to Yi Nengjing's gray life.
Unlike Yi Nengjing's suffering, Yu Chengqing's family is prominent, and his parents are all figures with heads and faces.
Yu Chengqing's father was a top executive in Taiwan Province of China, and his mother, Zhang Zhengfen, was a famous figure in the Peking Opera circle.
Yi Nengjing and Yu Chengqing, like Cinderella and prince in love, originally belonged to two worlds, but they came together because of love.
However, due to the huge gap in family background, this love has experienced many ups and downs, and Yi Nengjing has been surrounded by various gossip from the beginning.
Moreover, Yu Chengqing's family is also firmly opposed to this relationship, especially Yu Chengqing's mother, who directly called Yi Nengjing a "little singer".
Because Yu Chengqing does not like to show love in a high profile, coupled with Yu Chengqing's mother has always opposed the love relationship between the two, this relationship has not been made public.
The two didn't even have a public official group photo, but Haringo would carefully collect the bits and pieces of the two, and he would keep the movie ticket stubs of each date, the letters written when they exchanged feelings, and various things that left his and her memories.
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In the 6th year of love, Yi Nengjing proposed that the work was too tired to get married, but Yu Chengqing refused, and he said to Yi Nengjing, you are just trying to avoid work, not really want to get married.
To this end, Yi Nengjing also quarreled with Yu Chengqing and went to the United Kingdom to study alone.
But fortunately, after Yi Nengjing returned to China, the two reconciled, and after that, their careers and feelings were very smooth.
In real life, Yi Nengjing faded the disguised side, exposing the fragile, temperamental, and insecure side to Yu Chengqing, who did not live up to her sincerity, just like the knight who protected the princess, cutting thorns for her.
In 1999, 31-year-old Yi Nengjing was diagnosed with a uterine tumor, and the doctor said that if the situation was serious, surgery might remove the uterus, resulting in inability to have children later.
Yi Nengjing was in great pain, but her boyfriend Yu Chengqing did not abandon her and firmly said: "No matter what, I will marry you!" It doesn't matter if you don't have children. ”
Fortunately, the final examination result was benign, and after Yi Nengjing recovered, although her body was very weak, it did not affect her normal life.
And Yu Chengqing also fulfilled his promise, a year later, the two ended a 14-year love run, secretly licensed to marry in the United States, Yi Nengjing, who has been insecure, finally has a home of his own.
But at this time, Yu Chengqing's mother still did not accept this daughter-in-law, and even when the two people were officially married, no one from Yu Chengqing's family attended the wedding.
Yi Nengjing gave birth to a son, she thought that this son could become a link to ease the relationship between her and her mother-in-law, but who knows did not let her position in the Yu family change anything, she is still the despised "singer".
After the birth of the child, Yi Nengjing spent more time taking care of the child and gave up other work, but she published an essay essay "Life and Death Last Words".
In the book, yu Chengqing confesses: "In my lifetime, I must live one more day than you." I will bury you, let you feel at ease, not suffer from loss, and then I will accompany you again. ”
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However, perhaps Yu Chengqing's low-key love is not what Yi Nengjing wants, perhaps the two are busy with work and gathering less and more, or perhaps Yi Nengjing can't stand the pressure from her in-laws' family, and the feelings of the two people are still slowly fading.
Coupled with the "hand-in-hand storm" between Yi Nengjing and Huang Weide in 2008, Yu Chengqing chose to believe in his wife, although Yu Chengqing believed in her, but her mother-in-law was convinced of the news events, and then she did not have a good face for Yi Nengjing all day.
In 2009, nine years after their marriage, Yi Nengjing announced her divorce from Yu Chengqing through the Huayi brothers.
Custody of his son Yu Enli belongs to the Yu family.
Afterwards, Yi Nengjing also said that when a woman wants to end a 23-year marriage, it must not be an impulsive and hasty decision, and that love between the two is not enough to support the family, and she does not want to lose herself because of this.
She did not mention the reason for the divorce, but broke the news that her ex-mother-in-law never looked up to herself, perhaps because her origin was not good, plus she had stayed in the Wind Moon Place before, and there had been some scandals.
However, later Yi Nengjing also mentioned in the interview that Yu Chengqing was a generous person, and the two people were still friends.
Once in order to wait for this paper marriage contract, Yi Nengjing waited from an 18-year-old girl to the year of establishment, but this 20-year love is still over.
Yi Nengjing was physically and mentally exhausted, and she thought that she would not believe in love anymore.
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Qin Hao was born in 1978, a full 10 years younger than Yi Nengjing, and when Yi Nengjing got married in 2000, Qin Hao was still a "literary and artistic youth" who had just graduated from Chinese opera, of course, at this time they did not have any intersection.
However, when Qin Hao was 9 years old, she liked to listen to a quiet song very much, and her album never fell.
The first time the two met was in the "Rock Hero" crew, and he was very excited to see his childhood idol Qin Hao, and after the excitement, he found that his feelings for Yi Nengjing seemed to be more than the impulse of fans to see idols.
After confirming his feelings, Qin Hao launched his pursuit of Yi Nengjing, but when he proposed to Yi Nengjing with a rose in his hand, he was rejected, on the grounds that he had divorced and the two people were still 10 years apart, which was not fair to Qin Hao.
Although Qin Hao was rejected, he did not give up, and he impressed Yi Nengjing with sincerity a little bit.
However, Yi Nengjing and Qin Hao were 10 years apart, and such a large age gap should logically be opposed by Qin Hao's family.
Yi Nengjing thought that she would be harassed by her mother-in-law again, and she was even ready to be cold-faced.
But the truth is that the mother-in-law and Yi Nengjing get along very well, and the two people are like real mother and daughter, and they are also like sisters who are close to each other.
Moreover, when Yi Nengjing first returned to her hometown in the northeast with Qin Hao, her family liked her very much and was very kind to her.
Soon their daughter Xiao Mi grain was born, and Qin Hao's family was very happy.
Especially the mother-in-law was happy like a flower, she helped Yi Nengjing arrange for Qin Hao to take care of all the housework, and personally made all kinds of delicious food for her daughter-in-law, afraid that she had suffered a little grievance.
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Yi Nengjing herself is also very kind, has been keen on charity, in 2008, after the Wenchuan earthquake, Yi Nengjing raised 12 million yuan of materials for the earthquake area, personally donated 150,000 yuan, and funded 200 students in the earthquake area.
Some people say that charity in 2008 was to whitewash her "derailment".
However, Yi Nengjing is not only the initiator and founder of the "Jingxin Book Fund", but also participated in a series of love activities such as fundraising for children with autism, funding poor teenagers, and saving sick children.
She even signed an organ donation agreement for her posthumous organs early on, and more rarely, she adopted ten orphans who had lost their parents to the disaster.
In 2006, Yi Nengjing won the Most Popular Charity Award, in 2012 he won the Charity Star Award, in 2013 he was listed on the China Charity Celebrity List, and in 2019 he was awarded the "Annual Public Welfare Contributor" award by the "123 Easy Fundraising Charity Ceremony".
Yi Nengjing, who has experienced ups and downs since childhood, has finally met her happiness now, and now that she is more than fifty years old, she is still like a young girl, not only because she is well managed, but also because she has been favored by Qin Hao's family as a princess.
The grievances suffered by the former mother-in-law were warmed and dissolved by the love of the current mother-in-law and the love of her husband, and I wished Yi Nengjing that she could spend the rest of her life with her lover in a white head and happiness.