I saw a very interesting blind date on the Internet.
The man and the girl went on a blind date, about in a fancy restaurant.
After the two sat down, Dong Lashi talked for 2 hours, drank several glasses of boiled water, and the girl couldn't help asking: "Is it time for us to order food?" ”
The man pretended to be generous and said to the girl, "Order, you can order whatever you want." ”
The girl picked up the menu and ordered 2, and then asked the man what he wanted to eat, and the man smiled and said, "I'm not hungry, I'll eat a little of the food you ordered in a moment, just do it." ”
The girl felt that it was inappropriate, so she said to the waiter, just ordered the dish, the same two.
The waiter asked who pays the bill, please check out the bill first, the girl picked up the wallet originally wanted to check out, looked up to see the man with the waiter to make eyes, meaning to let the waiter find the girl to ask for money, she was not happy, decided to tease the man.
So he said to the waiter: "We don't order enough food, we need to add some more, can you wait a while and come again?" ”
When the waiter left, the girl said to the man: "Since you are eating, you must eat happily, you can rest assured, I will pay." ”
The man was ecstatic to learn that the girl paid the bill, and quickly called over to the service desk and ordered the specialties of the restaurant.
The dish came up, the girl got up to go to the bathroom, the man nervously followed suit, the girl smiled and pointed to the bag: "You can rest assured, my bag is still here." ”
The man smiled, saw the girl walk away, let go of her cheeks and drank heavily, and after a while, she swept the dishes on the table like a cloud, and the girl came back surprised: "Ah, it turns out that you are so hungry, are you embarrassed to eat just now?" It doesn't matter, coming out to eat has an advantage, that is, it can't be wasted, and if you can't finish eating, you can also pack. ”
The man nodded, "Yes, pack." ”
While the man was focusing on the packing, the girl whispered to the waiter, "I've left beforehand." Then quietly left the hotel.
The boy wanted to eat a bully meal, did not expect to be put by the girl, angry and unwilling to pay, he called the girl, the girl did not answer, returned the message to: "I did not eat, you check out by yourself." Then blocked the other side.
It's so relieved, blind dates can not be generous, but also do not cut the rope, and want to go to the hotel to fill the façade, and do not want to pay a penny, how is it possible.
After watching this video, many netizens below left messages.
Some netizens said:
"I went on a blind date with a man, he took me to a high-end restaurant, I was very happy at first, I felt valued, and as a result he ordered two dishes, a mixed cucumber, a fried tofu, I didn't want to eat, the tofu was still half left, he let the waiter pack, I looked at this posture, offered to propose AA, to the evening, he sent me a message, said that he looked at me, kissed several times, I know best, hehe, it turned out that all he cared about was money."
The situation encountered by this girl is almost the same as in the video, the man obviously has his own blind date rules, but he refuses to bear even a meal. Is it also AA?
The cost of living can be AA, but he can't replace a woman giving birth to a child, it's really insecure, meet such a boy, or stay away.
"I am a man, but also talk about my experience, once went on a blind date, originally thought that only the girl came alone, as a result she brought 3 girlfriends, ordered a table of dishes, this is also counted, originally wanted to use the meal time to get to know each other well, the result of the girl and the girlfriend in the whole chat, did not say a few words to me, I found an excuse to come out and check out and left, very failed."
I would say that this man did not fail at all, it was the girl who failed, and missed an opportunity to meet a good boy in vain.
Out of the blind date want to let the girlfriend check, can also understand, but also to distinguish the primary and secondary ah, you do not communicate with the man the whole time, then out of what to do, rubbing rice?
Some netizens also said:
"I also encountered such a strange thing, just met, the man said that his family is very rich, the uncle drove a Mercedes, he followed the uncle to start a business, there are millions in hand, like to drink red wine, walking around the roadside twice, the red lady suggested to the meal point, while eating and talking, he took us for a long time, into a noodle restaurant, asked for two bowls of noodles, when the checkout, he shouted that I came to me, but the body was very honest, standing there did not move, and when I closed the account, he bragged how many assets he had, I directly said goodbye."
Haha, so interesting, the family is very rich, just don't want to pay for a bowl of noodles.
Compared with wealth, in fact, girls pay more attention to character, and being a down-to-earth person is much more useful than playing those false tricks.
Besides, we see if people have money, there is no need to listen to you, but to see your words and deeds, as well as dressing up, obviously the ability is average, you have to punch a swollen face and be fat, are you not tired?
Some netizens said:
"The people you meet, compared with me is nothing, when I was dating was the big sun, I proposed to drink a cup of coffee, you can also sit down and communicate quietly, the man said to go to the park, he likes girls who love sports, my sweat has flowed down, just said to drink coffee I invited guests, he immediately agreed, in the chat, he talked about the drawbacks of buying a brand, said that if his girlfriend proposed to buy a brand, he would kick the other party away, I saw nothing to talk about, he proposed that there was something, he learned that I drove here, Let me take a moment and say that I still have to go to the next blind date, I agreed, who knows one did not pay attention, he gave a lipstick on my car to shun away. ”
Laughing, lipstick men will not use, may be for the next blind date girl as a gift.
The paragraph really comes from life, and seeing the spit of these netizens makes us eye-opening.
Blind dates are like a mirror that illuminates a person's strangeness.
Some people may be real, and some people are wary, worried that the blind date will not be successful, and they will waste money.
We are not afraid to speculate on others with malice, we can only control ourselves, and when we encounter inappropriate people, we must stay away in time.
So what should we all pay attention to when we are on a blind date.
First, don't be greedy.
The first time you meet, you can simply drink a cup of tea or coffee, the cost is controlled within 100 yuan, there is no burden on each other's hearts, and you can also AA when you pay the bill, so if it is not appropriate, you will shoot two pieces when you go out, and no one owes anyone.
Second, be sure to be in a crowded public place.
The world is very big, there are always people beyond your imagination, meeting in public can have a sense of security, to avoid encountering problems, they have no way to ask for help, especially girls, but also to have a sense of protection, in the depth of each other's understanding, do not go to each other's home alone.
Third, observe the other party's attitude toward others.
The details can see the character, and to see whether a person is unreliable, it depends on the way he handles things.
If he talks to the waiter with arrogance, he may also have machismo in normal times, and if he only drinks water and does not order food, it means that he is usually a very picky person.
When you meet such a person, there is no need to provoke the other party, find a reason to leave, because the other party's pain point may be very low, in case of being stabbed, it will be more than worth the loss to find you trouble.
After saying so many strange blind date experiences, you may be amused, and I want to tell you that such strange things are only a minority, and most people go on blind dates with a sincere attitude and are eager to meet a love.
Maybe we have all had failed blind dates, but you still have to believe in love, give yourself one more chance, and you may meet a partner in the second half of your life.
What do you think about that? Can you accept the AA system on a blind date?