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The four words "sober in the world" must have been heard by everyone, and they are used to describe those who live very thoroughly, see the truth of life clearly, and live a hot blood.
Each of us wants to be sober enough, but it's easier said than done.
The reason why many girls live unconsciously is often because they can't get rid of the word "love", the reason is that everyone understands, but when it is their turn, it is always difficult to control themselves and extricate themselves.
Even many girls with cold appearance and proud workplaces are often difficult to pass. Too many girls are trapped by love, too many girls believe in the man's "I raise you", give up their careers and futures, and end up with nothing.
We often envy some sober people in the world, always feel that they are always so dashing and decisive, will not be easily trapped by love, will not be easily tied up by anything, always able to walk in an orderly manner according to their own rhythm, they are strong in their hearts, and finally they all live as we want.
In fact, those who live soberly, they just understand one thing: that is, there is no one in this world to rely on, the only one who can rely on is ourselves.
Luo Zijun once thought that Chen Junsheng would be a safe haven for her life, living in the beautiful bubbles she woven all day and living a life that she thought was happy. When Tang Jing pursued material and spiritual independence day and night, she still felt that she was begging for food, and finally waited until the day she was abandoned, only to understand that love was easy to pass away, marriage was fragile, and only when she was strong was the most critical.
A woman's greatest sobriety often begins by getting rid of her dependence on men and knowing how to rely on herself.
In this world, no one is your eternal dependence
In this world, there is really no one who will be your eternal dependence, and you must recognize this in order to live soberly.
Some people think of their parents as their own, but forget that they will grow old.
Just like Jin Bo in "Xiao Min's Family", he was once the richest person in Jiujiang, his father was a manufacturer, deeply blessed by his father, life was smooth, and after his father left, life has been going downhill, and later he suddenly woke up and relied on his own strength to exchange for the life he wanted.
One of the biggest misunderstandings of women is to try to change their fate through marriage and pin the rest of their lives on men.
Similar to "women don't need to fight too hard, find a good person to marry it" such words are not uncommon, many girls think that as long as they marry a good husband, they can give up hard work and live a comfortable life, but they do not know that such a life has long been in danger.
When a man loves you, he is willing to be relied on by you, but love will disappear, it cannot withstand the erosion of time, as long as the time is long, it will immediately expose its true face, do not wait until the moment when he abandons you, only to wake up in a dream, realize that relying on men, after all, is just a passing cloud.
Good love is always a tie
The longest relationship in the world has always been evenly matched, don't think of love as a poverty alleviation game, love is very realistic, men are also very realistic.
When you are measuring men, he is also looking at you with realistic eyes, you are critical of whether men have a car and a house, and men are also looking at your conditions, whether they can be worthy of him.
Men never think that their other half is excellent, they will only think that women can't keep up with their own footsteps and embarrass themselves.
Love has always been how good you are, you will meet people of the same level as you, what kind of other half you want, first look at your own conditions, do not do "Cinderella will meet Prince Charming" such a beautiful dream, you yourself are not excellent, even the entrance ticket to the castle will not have, others will not look up to you at all.
Wang Manni in "Thirty Only", who works as a cabinet sister in a luxury store, raises her own vision, thinking that she can really meet people who take her to see the world, but she does not know that she is just a pawn in Liang Zhengxian's love game, and in the end she is exchanged for lies and deception.
What kind of person you are, you will meet what kind of person, don't fantasize about things beyond your ability, and end up empty-handed.
There are no shortcuts, only rely on yourself
In this world, there is never a shortcut, and all we can rely on is always ourselves.
Some people use beauty as a pedal and want to rely on posture to buy a better life for themselves.
Yi Shu's Xibao is such a person, in order to complete his studies, committed to a top rich man, and finally although he got a lot of property, he completely lost himself and was completely lost.
If you want to take shortcuts, the final result can only be self-inflicted, only rely on yourself, down-to-earth to pay, to work hard, even if you go slowly, but you can be long-lasting.
Women, relying on their youth and beauty to get things, after all, is only a moment, no one will always pay for your beauty. Relying on men for a life, although easy but not long-lasting, the other party said to abandon you, there will be no attachment. Get rid of the dependence on others, only yourself, is your lifelong dependence.
How sober you are, how lucky you are
How sober a woman is, how lucky she is.
Jane Ai in "The Sea of Stars" from a little girl who has nothing, to later create her own foreign trade company, her experience has never been good luck from heaven, but because she has a clear goal from the beginning, knowing that in this world, no one is her dependence, only relying on herself.
No matter how much setback he encountered, he never conceded defeat, and with his own efforts and stubbornness, he broke out of his own piece of the sky.
Fate has always preferred you who are working hard, and those who seem lucky are actually secret efforts.
Those women who finally live themselves into a ray of light are relying on their own efforts, step by step to work hard.
From the beginning, they have a clear understanding of themselves, know that there is no one behind them, quit relying on others, focus on their own growth, and rely on their own ability to change their lives.
Women who rely on men end up living a miserable life, while women who rely on themselves generally live well.