People who really read the Dream of the Red Chamber can hardly dislike Lin Daiyu.
When I first read the Red Chamber, there will always be people who think that Dai Yu is mean and small, crying and crying all day, whether it is a girlfriend or a wife, she is not the best candidate.
However, since the author has placed her at the top of the Twelve Books of Jinling, she is obviously the most important and cherished figure in the eyes of Cao Gong, just as he also loves Xiangling, who is at the head of the sub-book, and Qingwen, who is also the head of the sub-book.
The three women in the first place all have one thing in common, pure kindness, living authentically, and at the same time they are all the most miserable people with the most miserable fate. As a bridesmaid, Daiyu's different performances in different environments are enough to make people love her more and more.
First, when I first entered Jia Province, I was sensible and knowledgeable
Some people have always said that Dai Yu is angry, does not understand people's feelings, cries at every turn, or loses his temper with Bao Yu to the people under Jia Fu, and scares this and that, and there is no temperament of everyone at all... Then he must have ignored Dai Yu's entry into jia mansion this time.
Facing his grandmother, facing the two aunts of King Xing, facing the two sisters-in-law of Feng Feng, facing the three springs... Is there a hint of disrespect in Lin Daiyu? No! Whether it is her words and deeds, or her random response, she behaves very decently.
It can be said that Lin Daiyu, who has just entered Jia Province, pays attention step by step, always cares, refuses to say a word, and takes one more step, which perfectly shows us a style of everyone's beauty - Zhishu Dali.
For Daiyu, when she first arrived at her grandmother's house, on this day she had to see many relatives in Jia Province, in such an environment, although Dai Yu was a little girl who had just arrived, she had already learned how to be an adult in the face of so many elders in Jia Province.
Lady Xing left the meal, Dai Yu said a decent and not losing measure, not only indicating the reason why she could not stay but not making Lady Xing too embarrassed, and Lady Wang's repeated resignation of letting her sit on the seat also reflected Daiyu's good upbringing and etiquette... Every detail reflects Daiyu's understanding of etiquette.
For Daiyu, whether facing her grandmother or two aunts, this is equivalent to a more formal occasion in Jia Province, the masters and slaves, but they all stare at it with a pair of eyes, and in such an occasion, Daiyu is also completely a lady's temperament.
Not to mention Daiyu's humility to the first position of the left head at Jia Mu's dinner, the careful use of mouthwash, and the response to Jia Mu's questioning...
Second, the humor of the Grand View Garden period is interesting
In addition to the formal occasions such as the first entry into Jia Province, Dai Yu needs to be sensible and polite, if the environment is switched to the Grand View Garden, what will Dai Yu look like when she gets along with her sisters day and night?
If nothing else, it is said that after Liu Grandma er entered Jia Mansion and returned home, Xi Chun wanted to take a leave of absence because he was drawing a picture of the Grand View Garden, so Li Yi summoned all the members of the poetry club again.
At this time, Daiyu revealed a side of her life, which can be said to be humorous and versatile, playful and cute. She joked that Grandma Liu was a female locust, and she quipped that the paint list that Bao Chao had opened for Xi Chun was a dowry, and everyone laughed.
In this environment, Dai Yu does not need to make rules when facing the elders like when she first entered Jia Province, and when facing the next person, she needs to put on the money of Miss Qianjin, she needs to be careful at all times, she just needs to be happy.
Horizontal and vertical everyone is a sister, there is no you high and low, there is no need to have too much courtesy and courtesy, especially everyone is not the first day to know, so they are more casual and casual, so Dai Yu is more open.
When she was with her sisters, Dai Yu could be said to be a talented girl with quick thinking and quick exports, and when She was in YuanChun Province, she had to show her talents and cheat for Bao Yu; when she visited the ChunQi Poetry Society, she suggested that each person take a number and write three excellent poems in a row; Lu Xue'an Lian poems, she was not willing to fight Xiangyun after people...
Who says Dai Yu loves to cry? When she was with her sisters, Dai Yu was more happy than sad, and she even had a talent for humor that no one else had, and many of the materials were handy and locally sourced, which was both new and interesting and funny.
It can be said that The Daiyu in the sister group is simply a carefree, humorous and funny, cute and playful elf, and also a lady who everyone likes, and is an interesting soul who is one of the best in a thousand miles.
Third, the sensitive girl when Bao Dai coexists
If the environment is narrowed down again, what is the situation when Dai Yu leaves the sister group and coexists with Bao Yu and the two of them? She will be a sensitive girl who "you don't guess the girl's mind".
Bao Dai has been together since childhood, eating at a table and sleeping in a bed, and its close relationship is very comparable, and it is also the fate of the former alliance of Mu Shi, so that Dai Yu's little sex will always only have a seizure in front of Bao Yu.
The feelings between Bao Dai can be summarized in eight words, that is, the original text said "the destruction of the gap without worry", the more you care, the more you will be contradictory, and the more you care, the more critical you will be. Therefore, the relationship between Bao Dai in the early stage is constantly contradictory in misunderstanding.
For Daiyu, all her insecurities come from Baoyu, who is messing around in the inner world, she is devoted to Baoyu, and her feelings are tied to him, but Baoyu is not only a sister around her. He also has Sister Yun and Sister Bao.
Therefore, when facing Baoyu, Dai Yu is a sensitive and suspicious little girl, and she is Lin Sister who is jealous of acid. Therefore, she often tested Baoyu with words like what kind of qilin, what gold and jade.
Baoyu is the golden phoenix of Jia Province, favored by Jia Mu and Lady Wang, and is also the younger brother of the mother of the noble concubine Yuan Chun, and is the future popular heir of Rong Guo Fu, surrounded by pearls, the most lively and infinite. And Lin Daiyu is just an orphan girl under the fence, what does she have? She had nothing.
Because of this, Dai Yu was more sensitive and more anxious, seeing that the relationship between the two treasures was getting closer, she couldn't help but be sour, and when she saw Bao Yu Xiangyun getting closer, she couldn't help but be jealous. At this time, Dai Yu is not a talented woman, not a young lady, she is a little girl with deep affection in her feelings.
Baoyu is a busy person, especially in the relationship between men and women, he will always annoy the sensitive Lin sister, and because of this, most of Daiyu's tears are always flowing for Baoyu.
It can be said that Lin Daiyu, when facing Baoyu with feelings, is no longer the miss Qianjin who understands things and etiquette, nor is she the humorous and funny Xiaoxiang concubine, but a little girl who is passionate but insecure.
Fourth, the sad spring and autumn when one person is alone
Daiyu's truest feelings are only fully revealed when she is alone, and only at this time is she truly sad and sad.
The burial of flowers is Daiyu's one-man show. "Nong is laughing at the flower people who buried the flowers, and he buried Nong in the year to know who it is." "Try to see the spring flowers gradually falling, that is, when the red face dies" "Three hundred and sixty days a year, the wind and the sword are strictly forced." Dai Yu used the flower metaphor to write about her loneliness and loneliness in Jia Province and lamented her fate.
When Dai Yu is alone, she will always "think wildly", she is independent of the flower shade to see the Yihong Courtyard after Baoyu was beaten, thinking of her own life, she can't help but be sad from it, and she has already been full of tears.
Just like seeing Baoqin and others come to Jia Mansion to run to their relatives, although Dai Yu is also happy, but when she thinks of her own life, everyone has relatives, only she is lonely, no relatives, and she can't help but weep again.
Baoyu has parents and brothers, even Baochao also has a mother and brother, and what does she have lin daiyu? She had nothing, she was alone, she was confidant with the autumn wind in the Xiaoxiang Pavilion, she was a neighbor with the thousands of green bamboo in front of the window, and she turned her melancholy into countless poems and condensed into tears.
On that rainy night in XiaoxiangGuan, Dai Yu knew that Sister Bao could not come, so she wrote "Autumn Window Wind and Rain" full of sorrow. Dai Yu always sighed to herself like this, sitting alone in front of the window, shedding tears in the wind, and her illness gradually became a major trend, but her parents died early and sent people to the situation under the fence, let alone Lin Daiyu, replaced by anyone, it is estimated that they can't live by themselves, right?
Even with Jia Mu's favor and Bao Yu's care, they could not accompany her every day after all, leaving the lively circle of Jia Fu, leaving the sisters' frolicking Youth Grand View Garden, and wanting to come to Daiyu alone for a lot of time, how did she spend these days? Presumably, only the Purple Crane Snow Goose and her parrot knew.
Author: Xi Si Shao, this article is to read less of the original works of the Red Chamber.