If you talk about who is the happiest in "Dream of the Red Chamber", this person is undoubtedly Jia Mu.
Born in one of the four major families, the Shi family, and married to the Jia family, who is also a Hao family, from the big lady of the family to the lady of the commandment, the life of Jia Mu, honorable and graceful.
In the Grand View Garden, Jia Mu is the most cohesive. One is that she has the highest grades, and the other is that she has a good personality. It is said that the elderly Jia Mu, do not worry about everything, there is a granddaughter-in-law FengJie to assist the daughter-in-law Mrs. Wang to take care of family affairs, she only needs to live in simplicity every day and spend her old age in peace.
Jia Mu no, she likes to be lively and likes to talk and laugh with her grandchildren. She was younger than Lady Wang, who ate and prayed buddha, and the selfish and cold Lady Xing was even less than her easy-going wisdom. Two daughters-in-law, wearing aristocratic shackles and indifferent masks, people can't like it.
Jia Mu is more humane, warm and kind. She is like a cute child, sometimes ignoring the barriers of the inherent class and the shackles of aristocratic status, with affinity and grounding. All the children and grandchildren, the servants and servants, liked her.
If Jia Mu and Lady Wang Xing'er have similar personalities, Sister Feng will not relax in front of her like a child. Sister Feng and Jia Mu have similarities, cheerful, articulate, Jia Mu said that when she was young, she was more than Sister Feng.
On the pattern of talent, Sister Feng is Xiao Zhi, and Jia Mu has a big plan. Sister Feng is smart, but she is unpopular because of her greed and viciousness. Sister Feng only wanted to grasp everything in her hands, Jia Mu had achieved from her granddaughter-in-law that she had a granddaughter-in-law, and she had experienced great winds and waves, and she must be able to cultivate to the old naughty child's return to the truth.
Treating the little Daoist who had broken into a small disaster in the Qingxuan Temple, everyone scolded, Sister Feng slapped her, and Jia Mu saw that the little Daoist was still a child, and pity him, although he was a child of a small family, he was also the treasure of his parents. And ask Jia Zhen to give the child silver two, don't scare him.
To the old village woman Liu Grandma, Jia Mu is also hospitable. The Lord Yake came to be diligent. After entering the Grand View Garden, without being treated coldly, Jia Mu and everyone gave gifts of clothes and silver, and only then did Grandma go to the Grand View Garden for the second time to send vegetables and vegetables freshly picked in the field.
Come to think of it, Grandma is worried in her heart, the Hao family's table water sign is not the same for a month, will you be able to see these ordinary vegetables? Jia Mu was overjoyed and said that she liked these things. Like is true, perhaps also in order to reassure Grandma, I feel that it is not in vain.
Preventing Sister Feng from pouring wine into grandma, the grass is wet and slippery, and letting the maid help grandma to prevent falling, although it is a small matter, it also reflects Jia Mu's thoughtfulness and thoughtfulness.
Pity the poor and cherish the old, kind and transparent, with great wisdom of Jia Mu, when she was young, she was not an old-fashioned big lady who did not smile, she was a young and lively girl. The Fuwo, who was flattered and teased by Sister Feng, was a small pit that Jia Mu played with her sisters in the Pillow Pavilion when she was young, fell into the water, and bumped her forehead.
This scene is familiar. Xiangyun was drunk on the stone, probably in the same vein as the delicate and lively life of his aunt when he was young.
I always feel that Jia Mu alone brings together the cheerfulness and cuteness of Xiangyun, the long-sleeved good dance of Feng Jie, and the pattern talent of exploring spring.
Jia Mu and his wife have deep feelings, Zhang Daoshi mentioned that Bao Yu looked like his grandfather, and Jia Mu remembered her deceased husband who had died many years ago and burst into tears.
Jia Mu is a clear stream in the aristocratic circle, and the life of gold and jade for many years has not solidified her into a noble lady who sits on the right side and is indifferent and ruthless. For life, she will always have a heat, or even a childlike heart.
Therefore, she is old, unloading the burden of governing the family, only like to be with her children and grandchildren, she wants to return to her old age, to be her young self, accustomed to the disputes of the Hao clan, she wants to give her heat and goodness to life, the same nourishment, to her children and grandchildren.
The four granddaughters who were born out of the house were raised by their side from childhood, and when they saw Grandma Liu humbly say that she was an old waste, she said that she liked to talk to the old man of Jigu. Enjoying snow poems with grandchildren, listening to flutes with the sound of water, decorating the Baochao house, and coloring the Daiyu window screens, such a Jia Mu not only has enthusiasm for life, but also has the outstanding appreciation and elegant taste of aristocratic women.
Jammu also has times when she gets angry. Hearing that there were servants in the Grand View Garden who gathered to gamble, accusing Tanchun of not informing, Jia Zheng beat Baoyu badly, angrily rebuked Jia Zheng and claimed to move back to his hometown, Aunt Zhao Ma Daoba did it behind her back, Baoyu was as angry as a gossamer, Aunt Zhao suggested that Baoyu do the aftermath, Jia Mother took a bite of Aunt Zhao, and scolded her for being a bastard wife with a rotten tongue.
Jia Yu wanted to marry Mandarin Duck as an aunt, Mandarin Duck cried and complained, cut off his head and invented Zhi, Jia Mu was angry and warlike, scolding, "I have such a reliable person left, they still have to calculate." Seeing that I treated her well, you were naturally angry, and you got rid of her, so that you could fiddle with me! ”
Several times of anger can also be seen, although Jia Mu is old, Yu Wei is still there. Jia Mu Enwei attaches equal importance to it, and is not blindly pleasant. To be able to run the family for decades, not only must have the heart of a bodhisattva, but also have thunderous means. Half of the stars and moons that can win the support of children and grandchildren are because of the highest generation, and half because of Jia Mu's high moral standing.
Jia Mu shed tears for Baoyu Daiyu's awkward quarrel, saying that the two people "are not wronged and do not gather", the Mid-Autumn Festival family banquet saw a small number of people, and heard the flute sound silent, and wept. At this time, Jia Mu was not a distinguished and prominent Lady of commandments, she was an ordinary grandmother and grandmother who loved her grandchildren, and was an old man who had survived decades and hoped that the family business would always flourish.
From miss Houmen Shijia of golden branches and jade leaves to Mrs. Jia jia of the hao family who has a high lifespan, Jia Mu's life has gathered Fu Shoulu. It was her destiny and her blessing.
Author: Fairy Tale, Northern Woman. This article is an original work of the Red Chamber for less reading.