Generational education refers to the fact that children are mainly educated by the families of in-laws or grandparents.
One of the drawbacks of Chinese-style family education is intergenerational education. This has been particularly serious in the more than 30 years since the reform and opening up. What is the reason? The rush of young parents is one, and at the same time, the in-laws or grandparents are afraid that their grandchildren will be wronged, so they are too caring, which is also an important factor.
It is not that it is completely impossible to talk about intergenerational education, but intergenerational education is ultimately harmful to more and less beneficial. The harm caused by this is that the grandchildren cannot be properly educated and cultivated because they are spoiled. Second, the in-laws or grandparents feel very tired and the quality of life is not high. What's more, bringing grandchildren is not necessarily what all in-laws or grandparents like, but just conforms to traditional customs. The third is to dilute the sense of responsibility of the parents of the children. Know: Bringing grandchildren is not a legal responsibility of in-laws or grandparents! Young Chinese parents must know that your parents do not need to take care of your children to seduce you, in a word: taking care of your children is not a prerequisite for you to support your parents!
How to solve this problem? Intergenerational education is an inevitable historical phenomenon in today's reform and opening up in China, and it is also one of the pains of the so-called reform and opening up! In order to reduce the cost of the masses of the people, I believe that we must do a good job in the following three aspects: First, do a good job in running inclusive early childhood education. Second, strengthen the legal education of young parents and strengthen their responsibility for the education of their children. Finally, it is mainly necessary to implement the pension insurance work of the majority of the elderly, which is very obvious in rural areas!
2020.6.17
Tian Maohong, a native of Liye Town, Longshan County, Xiangxi Province. Senior secondary school teacher. He is a member of the Xiangxi Writers Association and the Photographers Association. This public account "more observation of society, not casual nonsense", please put forward valuable comments from friends!
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