Two days ago, a parent posted such a photo in the group, through which we seem to see two families, two educational methods, on the same subway but taken in different directions.
According to common sense, it is obvious that the mother on the left is older than the mother on the right, but it is impossible to distinguish the age difference between the two at a glance. The mother on the left has a more relaxed look, and the right seems to be more hopeful about the future.
But the difference can be seen in the four children. The one on the left is reading children's books, and the one on the right is looking at the phone. A family's children are subtly enjoying reading, while a family's children are being hit by mobile phones. Is it that the family on the left can't afford to buy a mobile phone? Obviously not, it should be the parents of this family who are more conscious of letting their children stay away from electronic products, and use words and books to replace the attraction of mobile phones to children.
Of course, it is not that the children on the right will not succeed when they grow up, but from the perspective of childhood education, the road will be more difficult and tortuous.
This reflects not only the reality of family education, but also the reality of life: a family is living, a family is surviving. The environment is different, and the learning atmosphere and environment brought to the children are also very different.
If it is really like netizens said, one is entertainment management, and the other is learning management. The helpless reality is that every family will choose the family education method that their family can afford.
Some netizens joked: the children of rich families are reading cartoons, and the children of poor families are learning with mobile phones. Is this possible?
However, it is foreseeable that if the families on the right do not change the way of family education, the gap in children will become farther and farther.
Mobile phones and games have had too much impact on children in recent years. In addition to allowing children to master the skills of a certain game in the game, they can only become heroes in the virtual world and gain a sense of achievement and identity. Back to reality, these are difficult to get public acceptance.
And the biggest loss can only be academics. Children who are addicted to games will lack the concept of time, and when they get home, they will think of playing games on their mobile phones, even when writing homework, I am afraid that they are still recalling what operation errors were made in the game just now.
Families with poor conditions will be at a significant disadvantage in future family education, and the quality of tutoring and counseling institutions is generally not as good as that of wealthy families. If you don't start with the details of your child's education, then the cold door is too difficult to get out of your son.
Ordinary parents condone their children to play games, rich parents force their children to work hard, Bill Gates once said in an interview that their children only let their children use mobile phones at the age of 13. As for the parents in the photo, the 5- and 6-year-old children seem to be addicted to mobile phones.
For the wealthier families, they have more money and time to strengthen the cultivation of the next generation, look at the training of those children now: equestrianism, golf, baseball, piano, yachting... These children are either learning or on their way to learning.
In contrast, in ordinary families, parents are busy with their lives and neglect to manage their children. But we really have to understand that the money earned in addition to life is actually for the future of children, even if they can't send them to those high-fee training classes, they can lead by example, accompany their children to read books, read newspapers, and let them develop the habit of learning.
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