There are many such people in life, they have a kind personality and help others, just because some bad words, so sometimes they are easy to be subjected to various conspiracies and calculations of others, and they are because of their good nature, they do not know what to do, nor do they know how to deal with it, most of the time they choose to swallow their anger and eat losses, this kind of person is defined by society as "honest people".
Should honest people suffer? Of course not, when it is calculated by the villain, you can learn and use this trick of the ghost valley, you can effectively face those calculations, and no longer suffer losses, this trick is recorded in the book "Ghost Valley", "the elephant is like its deeds, the comparison is more than its words", which is combined with the so-called "elephant comparison technique".
Before going into detail about xiangbishu, let's tell a small story that took place during the Warring States period. In 370 BC, the original king of the Chu state, King Chu Su, died, and his younger brother succeeded to the throne as the new king of Chu, that is, the famous King Xuan of Chu in history. When King Xuan of Chu ascended to the throne, he made great efforts to govern, so that the strength of the Chu State gradually became stronger, and it became a powerful country in the Seven Heroes of the Warring States.
In particular, King Xuan of Chu reused a minister named Zhao XiYi and made Zhao Xi Yi the highest official in the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, holding the authority of a country, presiding over state affairs at home, presiding over wars externally, and taking charge of military and political power. Zhao Xi was a man of extraordinary ability, who managed the affairs of the Chu state in an orderly manner, and his military strength became increasingly strong, which caused the envy of the northern princes, who all claimed to be afraid of Zhao Xi if they were not afraid of the king of Chu.
King Xuan of Chu was also influenced by this remark, so he summoned his courtiers to discuss the issue, saying, "The northern princes all say that they are only afraid of Zhaoxi, what do you Aiqing think of this?" Most of the courtiers did not dare to answer this question, because they did not know what King Xuan of Chu really meant, whether they felt that Zhao Xi Was meritorious or that they were dissatisfied with the authority of Zhao Xi Qi over themselves. I couldn't guess it, so I didn't dare to answer.
At this time, a man named Jiang Yi replied, he said: "The fox walks in front of the tiger, the beasts see the tiger and dare not come closer, but the fox says that it is because of his own merits, and now the reason why the northern princes say that they are afraid of Zhao Xi, in fact, they are afraid of the great king you, Zhao Xi is just a fox in front of the tiger, the big king you are the tiger that really makes the beasts afraid!" ”
Jiang Yi's remarks used a very typical "elephant comparison method", figuratively comparing King Xuan of Chu to a tiger, slapping his ass, and comparing Zhao Xi to a fox, and making a secret irony without a trace. Of course, in this story, Jiang Yi is the villain who calculates people, but the method he uses is very instructive, if we learn in life, with the way of people to treat their bodies, naturally we can eat less and lose a lot.