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In a way, to love someone is to hurt someone. Because you love her, you want her to be happy and happy, and if she doesn't have a good time, you will be sad and even more distressed.
The person who doesn't love you, no matter what you live, he will be indifferent.
Because at this time, he did not see you as a part of his life, and everything about you had nothing to do with him. Although he will approach you and pretend to love you in order to achieve some of his own goals, you will not feel this kind of love at all.
Many times, to know if a man really loves you, don't have to be tempted, just ask your heart.
You can feel his concern and heartache for you, it means that he has moved the truth; if you not only can't feel it, but feel insecure, often suffering from gains and losses, then it means that he is just playing a trick.
In general, a man loves you to the extreme, often from the heart of the heart of your heart, he will take the initiative to do the following three things for you, especially the second point is extremely obvious.
One: I can't bear to let you live hard, I just want to try my best to protect you
The man who hurts you from the bottom of his heart will not be willing to watch you suffer, he will try his best to protect you, not let you be bullied, and not let you experience the wind and rain.
Just like Gu Tingye in the TV series "Do You Know If It Should Be Green Fat Red Skinny" to Sheng Minglan, they met at a very young age, when Gu Tingye witnessed Minglan's mother being framed, and began to do his best to help her.
After growing up, Gu Tingye witnessed how many hardships Minglan had gone through in order to survive, so he secretly vowed to marry her home and protect her with his life.
He said to Minglan: "In the future, I will be the oldest in the pile of men, and you will be the oldest in the pile of women." ”
Minglan was deeply moved and agreed to his marriage proposal.
After marriage, they love each other as always, every time Minglan is bullied or harassed, he will always appear at the first time, with him, the evil person will not have the opportunity to hurt Minglan.
Loving a person is like this, he can't bear your hard life, just want to do his best to protect you, and the man who doesn't love you, except to bring you wind and rain, nothing else.
Two: If you quarrel, you will take the initiative to give in, and if you are sad, he will be distressed
Sometimes, two people in love quarrel, and the person who bows his head first is not necessarily wrong, but more afraid of loss.
When Peng Yang and his girlfriend Wang Hui got along, they rarely quarreled, but once, they had a serious disagreement on one matter, when Peng Yang's tone was very poor, and the two people quarreled.
As a result, Wang Hui was very angry, and ran out in the middle of the night, without even bringing a mobile phone, so Peng Yang could not contact her at all. He was in a hurry and looked for many places to find her.
She was standing alone on the overpass near her home, crying very sadly, and at that moment Peng Yang's heart was completely broken, and she regretted arguing with her girlfriend. Since then, Peng Yang has secretly swore in his heart that he will not let his girlfriend cry so sadly in the future.
Later, no matter how Wang Hui lost his temper, Peng Yang would pay great attention to his tone, preferring to be wronged himself rather than quarrel with his girlfriend.
In love, Wang Hui has always been spoiled by her boyfriend, and people around her are envious of her. This year, they successfully entered the palace of marriage and lived a happier life.
The highest level of love a man has for a woman is not only to meet her material needs, but most importantly, to know how to hurt you. Only in this way will he be willing to tolerate your shortcomings, and when arguing, he will also take the initiative to give in, and he does not want you to be unhappy.
Three: Reluctant to make you sad, and getting along with the opposite sex will take the initiative to keep a distance
Some men already have an object of contact, but they are still very casual when they get along with the opposite sex.
Their attitude towards their partner is always very perfunctory, and such behavior is mostly indicative of not loving enough. Even if the other person can give you a comfortable living environment, this love is only short-lived, and when he appears next to a more attractive woman, he will be ruthlessly separated from you.
The highest level of love a man has for a woman, in fact, there are only two people, that is, heartache.
Because I love you to the bone, I will be very careful to manage each other's feelings. When getting along with the opposite sex, know how to keep a distance from each other and will never do anything to hurt each other.
Before Zhou Ming knew Sun Yun, he had talked about a four-year relationship, when he also paid his heart and always hoped that they could get married quickly.
However, the ex-girlfriend wanted too much, and she did not love Zhou Ming so much, so she rejected his marriage proposal. In the end, the two people broke up, they wanted a different life and were doomed to have a happy ending.
A year later, Zhou Ming met his current girlfriend, Sun Yun.
The life that Sun Yun wants is very simple, they are ordinary people who need to work their own, so she is willing to work hard with Zhou Ming. Sun Yun also knew that Zhou Ming had an ex-girlfriend who had been dating for a long time, when they broke up peacefully and would still be in contact.
Sun Yun did not force him to delete the other party's contact information, but Zhou Ming did a good job, and since he was with her, he had not contacted his ex again.
When the ex-girlfriend took the initiative to call Zhou Ming, he would directly open the hands-free, and Sun Yun could hear it clearly.
If a man knows how to keep a distance from the opposite sex, it means that he cares a lot about your feelings and will work hard to care for your love. Zhou Ming's approach made Sun Yun very relieved, and he was also convinced that he was a man worthy of trust and trust.
A man who loves you will hurt you, and if he doesn't love you, no matter what you live, he will be indifferent. Love and unlove are in action, in your inner feelings, please be sure to recognize, so as not to pay wrong.
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