Speaking of the affection between parents and children, sometimes parents feel that they have paid a lot, but the children in the family do not understand things, learning is not good, and there is a distance over time; but some families, even if the children are not biological, can be very obedient, learning is good, the young age also knows how to filial piety to parents, let people feel that the family's birth environment is actually not important, things are man-made, the key is still the need for parents and children to understand each other, strengthen communication.
Recently, an incident occurred in Jining, Shandong Province, showing netizens a qualified mother, a son who understands things and is filial piety, the key people's mother and son are not biological, although it is the stepmother's love for the son is better than the mother, and the son also repays the parents with practical actions, proving that the two are closer than the parents.
18 years away to marry Shandong, the stepson is only 3 years old, and now the son's first scholarship of 6,000 yuan is excellent
One of the protagonists of the matter, that is, the role of the stepmother, is not easy and remarkable. At that time, Ms. Zou's hometown was far away, and she married thousands of miles away, and her stepson was only 3 years old at the time. Did not expect that after forming a new family, and the child got along for 18 years, now the child went to college, after the winter vacation home, it brought good news to the mother, won the scholarship of 6,000 yuan, the bonus is not a lot, such a harvest, for the son is a new growth, is the honor of hard work, at the same time, for the stepmother, it is also a kind of satisfaction. My efforts have not been in vain, but also in exchange for a better life and hope today.
My neighbor is also married from afar, and there is also a boy in the family, but whether it is the boy's grandmother or relatives, she is not very welcome, living for more than 6 years, but the boy always regards her as a stepmother, and the relationship between the two is also distant. Sometimes she herself will feel very helpless, although her affairs are an example, but after many distant marriages to form a new family, especially if the husband has children, the relationship between husband and wife, the emotional cultivation between parents and children, is particularly difficult, the harm caused by the original family and the child's spiritual thoughts will take a long time to smooth out.
The son gave golden earrings to his stepmother, bought gifts for his family, and was more filial and filial to his own children than his own children
Another protagonist of the matter is the excellent son, under the cultivation and education of his mother, he did not lose his mother's love, but on the contrary, he got more affection and love. The first time he won the scholarship, it is still 6,000 yuan, which is of special significance to his son, and it will also be a new turning point in his life, and some children may first think of buying something for themselves, buying clothes and shoes or mobile phones, etc., but he first thinks of his mother.
Through the reaction in the video picture, the stepmother did not know in advance, when the son took out the gold earrings, the mother was very excited and moved, after all, the price of pure gold jewelry is also relatively expensive, looking at the mother likes it, the son is also very relieved and satisfied. After the scholarship to buy gold jewelry, the rest of the money, the son bought gifts for other people in the father's family, very hearty and know how to take care of the family, for himself, see the happiness of the mother and father, can make the family happy and happy, he will also feel that the son grows up, can be filial piety to the parents.
Some netizens said that this son is really stronger than his own children, I also agree with such a point of view, I hope that parents in the world can compare their hearts to their hearts, use reasonable ways to guide and educate their children, understand and trust each other; also hope that as children, they can appreciate the difficulty of parents, whether they are biological or not, taking advantage of their parents' youth, how filial piety to them, you say?
What do you think?