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Not long ago, a couple of students at the same time to protect the information of Shanghai Jiaotong University brushed the social network, the first time the whole network envied, high value and high IQ, together to run the future.
But later, there was a reversal, because one of the protagonists, the social platform of the little sister, exposed the family background, and the little sister's clothes were often thousands or tens of thousands, which was the living expenses of the children of poor families for a year, and these two were the recipients of inspirational scholarships.
The first condition of inspirational scholarship is family poverty, followed by good character and good character.
In the face of controversy, some netizens told the truth: Perhaps, there are no poor students in the whole class, and since there are no poor students, it is judged according to the character.
Is it possible that a poor student without a major?
Indeed, the better the undergraduate school, the worse the chance of poor students in the class.
This is also the reason why Liu Qiangdong's poor genes in the People's Congress cannot be sent out.
The "art examination" of countless people once again shows that the opportunities for poor children are getting less and less
In addition to the culture class, there are many exams according to the strengths, and art and dance, these are not to say, just to learn the cost of art and dance and other specialties, it will cost hundreds of thousands, or even millions, even if the children of poor families are interested, there may not be many opportunities, because parents do not have money for their children to learn.
Everyone said that Lang Lang was born in an ordinary family, which was also an ordinary family in the city, and his parents saved him money when he was young to learn the piano, and at that time, poor families could not afford it.
In fact, even if children in rural areas really have the talent to play the piano, parents will not know, because children will not have the opportunity to touch the piano.
The same is true of the art examination in recent years, first of all, from the aspect of information sharing, rural parents do not know that there is still an "art examination".
In recent years, the art exam has attracted much attention from children who have debuted from an early age, or have signed a contract with a company before the exam.
Some netizens released the top ten of the Nortel Art Examination, of which there was no performance experience at all, one was Sun Yushu, who was the fourth, and the other was Bao Hongyu, who ranked tenth, and the two people were not from the bottom of the countryside, and the two children almost covered their faces and cried when they learned of this result.
The enormous pressure on this can be imagined.
It is said that it is rare to meet vegetarians in the art examination, and these children who have debuted are actually starting from vegetarians, but vegetarians are different from poor people, who patronize and support their families, and the registration channels are not known.
From the family point of view, it is fair, so don't think about letting the child ascend to the sky one step at a time
Looking at these open information, it is inevitable that some emotions will arise, some opportunities are too many to count, and some are completely invisible to a little hope.
Friends have recently worried about their families, and her little nephew will take the college entrance examination immediately, but the little nephew spent three years in the epidemic and basically did not study well.
"Although it is said that you can survive without taking the college entrance examination, you have to repeat your brother's path and make money by working hard, but you don't recognize any way to do it, your children didn't study during the epidemic, and their grades plummeted."
I said that if I didn't admit to fighting again, I would let the child review it, and she sighed and said that it was only like this.
Parents in the city pay enough attention to their children's learning, as intellectuals parents pay more attention to the habit formation of their children, under the guidance and education of these parents, children have internal driving force from the inside out, positive and self-disciplined.
Not only that, but parents in the city can provide some good resources for their children to ensure that their future is worry-free.
What about the children in the countryside? Parents have already gone to great lengths just to support their families, where is the extra mind to pay attention to their children's learning? Even if you pay attention to the child's learning, because of the limited knowledge and the limited pattern, it is difficult to achieve scientific guidance, the most commonly used set is the pressure method, constantly putting pressure on the child, trying to increase the pressure of the child, so that the child can learn spontaneously.
Then there is the resource gap.
For example, a friend worries that her little nephew won't go to college and will repeat the old path in the future, becoming the same person as her brother, and she herself has found a good way out for her children.
Her husband is an engineer, and if the child has no other way out, let the child go to the company in the future and find an errand.
In fact, she has strengthened the guidance and education of her children, she said that she has no expectations for children, but she attaches great importance to the drive of children's internal drive, attaches great importance to the cultivation of children's concentration, and her children's learning ability and other aspects are very good.
Her child and her brother's child are no longer on the same starting line, and the height of the starting line is decided by her and her brother.
Her brother was playful as a child, had no interest in school, did not think about living in a big city, and from an early age she aspired to leave the countryside and live in a big city.
Now that she has opened up a new way out for her children, and her brother is still standing at the beginning, if the children want to open up a new way out, they have to start over and walk the path she has walked.
The hope of the children of the people at the bottom is still in the parents, giving the children good guidance, not expecting the children to ascend to the sky one step at a time, first expecting the children to take a step, and the future will be better and better.