Hu Linna, born in Beijing in 1987, has starred in the TV series "Meritorious Service" directed by Zheng Xiaolong, and her acting skills are highly recognized. In the play, Li Dazui, played by Hu Linna, left a deep impression, and the crying scene was explosive and very infectious.
People know Hu Linna because she is serious about filming and has superb acting skills; but what everyone does not know is that she is also the daughter of the famous movie star Ding Jiali.
In the interview, Hu Linna frankly said: "I don't want to be a star of the second generation, I just want to be a good actor who acts steadily." ”
In the second generation of stars, Hu Linna is indeed a more contentious one, completely relying on her own efforts and earning a lot of good resources.
But now at the age of 34, she is still single and says she "never wanted to get married for the rest of her life", which is regrettable.
In fact, the reason why Hu Linna is disappointed in feelings and marriage has a lot to do with her original family and her mother Ding Jiali.
01.
Hu Linna's birth mother is Ding Jiali, and I believe that everyone is not unfamiliar with this name.
Born in 1959 in Jiamusi, Heilongjiang, Ding Jiali came from a drama acting class, participated in many family dramas, won many awards, and is a first-class actor of the National Drama Theatre.
In last year's hit "An Jia", Ding Jiali played the mother of Fang Xiangjin (Sun Li) in the play, and the image of "vicious mother" made the audience hate it.
Although the role does not rise to the actor himself, because Ding Jiali's acting skills are too real, many netizens have substituted into reality, running to her Weibo to leave a message insulting: "You are a 'vampire mother' in the play, and you also abandon your own daughter outside the play, it is really 'human drama unity'!" ”
Looking back on Ding Jiali's half life, her life is very bumpy, her feelings are not smooth, and she is really pitiful. However, she gave up raising her daughter Hulina for personal reasons, and her behavior was also highly criticized.
When Ding Jiali was young, she did abortion for her first love, and the two did not end up. Subsequently, Ding Jiali met Hu Guangchuan and married him.
Soon, their daughter was born, and this child was Hu Linna, and Ding Jiali gave her a nickname: Duoduo.
Shortly after the birth of the child, Ding Jiali and her husband Hu Guangchuan had many conflicts, and after some quarrels, the two chose to divorce, and at this time, Duoduo had just reached the full moon.
Therefore, Hu Linna has no memory of her parents' happy and happy life with her parents.
At that time, Ding Jiali was young and ignorant, and she could not bear the blow of divorce. In order to quickly usher in her next marriage and bring herself new hope, she chose to give up custody of her daughter and continue to live alone.
In 1990, Ding Jiali married a university teacher. In 1991, their son Guoguo was born. Unfortunately, when Guoguo was full moon, Ding Jiali discovered her husband's infidelity, and the two ended up divorcing.
The unhappy marriage is like a magic spell, surrounding Ding Jiali, making her very broken, hiding at home and unwilling to see anyone.
This time, she chose to live with her son, and in order to get herself out of the shadows as soon as possible, she had to work hard.
In 1999, Ding Jiali participated in the drama "Madame Curie", and it was at this time that she met Sun Honglei.
Later, Sun Honglei and Ding Jiali got closer and closer, often chatting with Ding Jiali and coaxing her to be happy, and Ding Jiali also felt the warmth of a long absence.
Soon after, the two fell in love, when Sun Honglei was 29 years old and Ding Jiali was 40 years old.
In the past 3 years, Ding Jiali has taken good care of Sun Honglei, and there are rumors that Ding Jiali kneels down to a certain director in order to get resources for him, which is extremely humble.
Despite paying so much for Sun Honglei, Ding Jiali could not escape the fate of being abandoned in the end.
Since then, Ding Jiali no longer believes in feelings, and now she is 62 years old and still single. Looking back, what she is most sorry for is still her daughter Hulina.
02.
Hulina's tragic life began from the moment her parents divorced.
Hu Guangchuan was busy at work and had no time to take care of his daughter, so he entrusted Hu Linna to the care of his grandparents.
Hu Linna's grandparents are older and their bones are not very strong, and when hulina is pulled to the age of five, she is a little powerless.
As a result, Hulina was fostered to her uncle's house.
After coming to his uncle's house, the uncle's family was very unfriendly to Hulina and had an extremely indifferent attitude.
There are two children in the uncle and aunt's family, who are extremely dissatisfied with Hulina, who has been "forced" to come over.
When eating, uncles and aunts will pick nutritious dishes into their children's bowls, and Hulina knows that this is the common sentiment of people, so she never dares to say anything, only silently eating the rest of the meal. She knew that if her uncle's family got angry, she wouldn't even have to eat the leftovers.
HuLina knew that she was sending people under the fence, and in the face of such unfair treatment, she could only choose to suffer in silence.
How many times on the way to school, in the place where her uncle and aunt could not see, she could cry wildly and relieve the pain that was suppressed in her heart. After crying, wiping away her tears, she pretended to be indifferent and returned home.
Young HuLina couldn't understand why other children could live with their parents and grow up happily, but their parents didn't want her?
Hulina had never seen her mother before the age of 11, and her impression of her father was very small, she was like a little grass that fluttered with the wind, no one cared, and no one loved.
After Hu Linna understood things, she began to wonder about her parents, where they were, why they abandoned themselves mercilessly, and her heart was extremely eager to get the love of her parents.
One day, she looked up her mother's phone number at her uncle's house, and then she couldn't wait to run to the commissary and dial her mother's phone.
"Mom, I'm a flower, why don't you come to see me, you come to pick me up and take me home, I miss you...".
Ding Jiali was very distressed to hear it, but she also brought her son Guoguo, how a woman can take care of two children, she thinks that her daughter is at her uncle's house, maybe it is a better choice.
She could only perfunctory her daughter: "You obey, wait, wait a while." ”
03.
In 1999, Hulina was 12 years old. During the Spring Festival, Ding Jiali finally came to her uncle's house to visit her daughter.
Hu Linna looked at the woman in front of her, incomparably strange, she had never seen her since she had a memory.
Ding Jiali looked at her daughter who was already so old, she had never hugged her several times, and her heart was full of mixed feelings, she hurriedly said: "Duoduo, I am a mother." ”
Hu Linna was surprised and happy, ran over and hugged Ding Jiali tightly, and Ding Jiali's heart was full of guilt. The mother and daughter hugged and cried bitterly, and the uncle's family saw this scene and persuaded Ding Jiali to bring her daughter back.
Hu Linna hugged her mother and did not let go, saying: "Mother, you take me away, I will obediently listen to you." Looking at her daughter's innocent gaze, Ding Jiali nodded.
After dinner, Ding Jiali took ten yuan from her pocket, stuffed it into her daughter's hand, and said, "Duoduo, you take the money to buy toys." ”
Hulina was ecstatic, in all these years at her uncle's house, she had never bought anything she liked, and she took the money and ran to the commissary.
Holding the newly purchased doll, Hulina jumped home, full of joy, ready to start a new life with her mother. But when she got home, she found that her mother had left her and left.
Hu Linna did not want to believe it, her mother abandoned her again, she cried and ran towards the door, chased and chased, ran to the station, and did not see her mother's figure.
It was particularly cold and there were still snowflakes, so Hulina crouched at the station and waited, hoping that her mother would come back to pick her up.
It wasn't until her hands and feet were unconscious that she swept the snow over her body and walked helplessly toward her uncle's house.
When she mentioned this matter many years later, Ding Jiali still couldn't let go, she knew that she owed too much to her daughter.
In 2001, Ding Jiali came to visit Hu Linna again. In 2 years, Hu Linna has grown up a lot and wanted to understand many things.
She began to understand her mother's difficulty, did not cry anymore to go with her mother, just recounted the past, and then watched her mother leave.
For fourteen years, the mother and daughter had only seen each other twice.
In fact, Ding Jiali's residence and Uncle Hu Linna's house are only a few tens of miles apart, but this distance is difficult for both of them to cross.
Hu Linna wrote in her diary: Why doesn't my parents love me, I obviously have my own home, but I can't live there.
Due to the lack of love, Hulina was careful in everything she did, and over time she became inferior, sensitive, introverted, and often depressed.
From the time a child falls to adulthood, it is a blink of an eye. Soon, Hu Linna went to high school, and her grades have been relatively stable.
Once, Hu Linna's grades unexpectedly declined, and her uncle and aunt were very angry, blamed Hu Linna, and called Ding Jiali again.
In front of Ding Jiali, the uncle counted on Hu Linna, blaming her for not focusing on studying for a while, and her grades were not ideal.
As he spoke, his uncle lost his temper and slapped Hulina. Ding Jiali was anxious and angry when she saw it, and her heart ached, but she didn't say anything.
She knew that over the years, she had not fulfilled her responsibility as a mother, it was her uncle's family that had raised her daughter, they were educating their children, and they were not qualified to say anything.
Before leaving, she quietly said to HuLina: "After the weekend holidays, go to your mother's place, and your mother will take care of you and your brother." ”
This sentence, Hu Linna waited for more than ten years, but now she and her mother have a deep estrangement, although blood is thicker than water, but the company of the day after tomorrow is the most important.
04.
Soon, Hu Linna was in her third year of high school and was about to face the college entrance examination, and she began to look forward to college life.
By watching her mother's TV dramas on TV, Hu Linna also developed a strong interest in acting, so she called Ding Jiali and told her that she wanted to study acting and take the art exam in the future.
But Ding Jiali had no time to take care of her daughter, so she advised her: "You study hard and go to an ordinary university." ”
Without the support of her mother and her own boarding in her uncle's house, Hu Linna did not have the courage to defend her dreams, so she had to follow the steps and finally entered an ordinary college.
After graduation, Hu Linna looked around for a job, and eventually joined a film and television media company to work in video editing.
After work, she did not want to return to her uncle's house, first, she did not want to face her uncle's impatience, and second, she did not want to cause trouble to her uncle and aunt.
Of course, she also did not want to live in Ding Jiali's house, and no matter how hard the conditions were, she would rather rent a house outside alone.
In 2005, Hu Linna rented a cottage of less than ten square meters, with little room for anything but a bed and a table.
At that time, Hu Linna's salary was only three thousand yuan, and in the big city of Beijing, there was very little left to go to the rent, so she never dared to visit the mall.
At that time, Ding Jiali also paid little attention to her living conditions, the pressure and grievances at work, she had no one to talk to, and she stayed in the rental house after work, silently shedding tears.
In the winter, she had no money to pay for the heating, the room was freezing cold, Hu Linna could not do it, bought several pairs of thick men's cotton socks, all worn on the feet, and wrapped in several layers of clothes, before barely staying overnight.
On Chinese New Year's Eve Night in 2012, Hu Linna bought a piece of tofu and made herself a simple meal in the rental house. Looking at the lights of thousands of homes outside the window and the reunion of the family, Hu Linna couldn't help but cry.
Although life is unfair to her, she is always trying to live, and Hulina still hides her dream of being an actor in her heart. She didn't want to be famous by her mother, so she put in more effort than anyone else.
On May 31, 2013, Hu Linna starred in the movie "Ji Dongbing Mother", in which she played a female hygienist of the Eighth Route Army.
Although it is a humble small role, Hulina is very happy, which brings her one step closer to the profession of "actor".
Later, Hu Linna successively starred in TV series such as "E-sports Killing Machine", "Life and Death Game", "Knife Tip Dancer" and so on, and the drama path became more and more extensive, and also let the audience see Hu Linna's seriousness and efforts.
Once, Hu Linna, alias Tintin, appeared on the variety stage of "I Am Not a Star" and told her own bitter story.
For fifteen years, Ding Jiali has been immersed in her feelings, she has been ignoring the young Hu Linna, until later she lost more and more, only to find that the most precious things have always been around, but she has never cherished.
When she woke up like a dream, she found that her daughter had stumbled into adulthood and could never return to her arms.
After Hu Linna finished telling her story, Ding Jiali appeared on the stage. People were surprised that her mother was the famous actress Ding Jiali.
Ding Jiali rushed up and cried with her daughter.
She said bluntly in the show: "Now I am particularly remorseful, I am too selfish and selfish, ignoring the feelings of my children." ”
Now, Ding Jiali faces her past and decides to do her best to make up for her daughter for the rest of her life, and Hu Linna also said that she has forgiven her mother and hopes to get along with her.
With the efforts of Ding Jiali, the relationship between mother and daughter is gradually improving, there is no previous estrangement, and Hu Linna's personality has become cheerful.
Later, Ding Jiali also starred in the TV series "Old Chinese Medicine" with her daughter, paving the way for her daughter's development in the film and television circle
Hu Linna did not study acting professionally, so the foundation is relatively poor, Ding Jiali slowly corrected every action for her, hoping that her daughter can show the best side.
Hu Linna also finally realized how happy it was to have her mother take care of her. However, this warmth came too late, and now at the age of 34, she is still not married and does not want to believe in love.
The feelings between husband and wife, from the moment they have children, should realize that they have an incomparably sacred responsibility on their shoulders.
In the just-released "Manslaughter 2", the parents of the worms did not hesitate to sell houses and borrow usurious loans for their children, and even in the end, Lin Zhilang paid for his son Xiao Worm.'s
In reality, there are not so many births and deaths, as long as parents care more about their children and have more sense of responsibility, they can make their children grow up happily.
Parents divorced, the most hurt is the child, but the child is always the most innocent. Whether it is a star or an ordinary person, you must be cautious when making a choice, and protecting your child is the most important.
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