Text/July Chang'an
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There is a kind of man, who has no rich family foundation and no handsome appearance, but makes women love with their hearts.
His love is full of security; his love is as turbulent as the sea; his love gives women spiritual comfort.
That tacit understanding of the heart and the heart, the fusion of the heart and the heart, is the highest state of love.
This kind of man calls the "gospel" for women.
Men who make women fall in love with their hearts have mostly done these things.
01. Understand women
Women, what they want is very simple, is nothing more than to hope for a man who truly loves her, and then follow this man to create a happy life.
She hopes that men can understand their inner world, such as the other half of the soul, fused with each other, tacitly connected, every move, men will be considerate, a frown and a smile, men can appreciate.
Perhaps, you would say that there is no such thing as a "soul mate" in this world, and you are wrong.
In fact, in this world, there are still many men who understand women, they understand women's difficulties, face the woman they love with a sincere heart, no matter when, they will think in a different position, put themselves in each other's shoes to solve problems, so that the two hearts can integrate with each other.
Understand, like the spring wind, blowing a woman's heart, the warm flow of love gushes up a monstrous wave of love; understand, like a drizzle, moisturizes the woman's heart field, and cultivates a big tree that belongs to the heavens of love.
A man who understands women is very gentle, very careful, and very considerate, just like my friend, he knows his girlfriend very well, takes good care of him, takes care of it gently, just like taking care of a small seedling, making his girlfriend die for him.
Understanding women is a weapon that captures a woman's heart.
02. Spoil women
Spoiling is a kind of wholehearted care, which can indulge her little temper, tolerate her small shortcomings, and even satisfy all her vanity.
Like a princess, she held it in the palm of her hand and carefully cared for it.
This kind of man is most popular with women, they are careful, they are mature, they have responsibility, they can take on the responsibility of a man, hold up a happy sky for women, in this sky, let women roam freely.
However, spoiling is not bottomless pampering, everything is measured, too much.
This kind of pampering is limited to the aspect of love, so that women feel full of love, someone cares about her, and it is very concerned.
When Xiao Liu of the company was visiting the mall with his girlfriend, he saw that his girlfriend loved a diamond ring, so he wanted to help his girlfriend buy it, but he was opposed by his girlfriend, saying that it was too expensive.
Xiao Liu didn't say anything and left together.
Waiting for his girlfriend's birthday, Xiao Liu took out the diamond ring from his pocket as a birthday gift for his girlfriend, which instantly moved his girlfriend.
He said, "I love you, I will spoil you for the rest of my life, spend money for you, I am willing." ”
Many times, women do not need things that are too precious, but they need your true heart, spoiled with affection, spoiled with heart, will make women happy.
03. Accompany the woman
The man who will accompany the woman is the most intimate man.
Companionship is the appearance of the guard, is the Qingqing me and my language exchanges, is the two in the ordinary years of the ear grinding, is the use of a lifetime to love a person's performance.
No matter how romantic love is, it cannot withstand the affectionate companionship; no matter how vigorous love is, it cannot withstand the embrace of heart and heart.
To love a woman, you must accompany the woman wholeheartedly, and the man who will accompany the woman is worth the woman's everything.
Don't say that if the two feelings are long, how can they be in the twilight of the dynasty, and no matter how long the feelings are, if there is no guard of the twilight, how can they be perfect? How can you be happy?
Facing the distance of the vast world, the two look at each other, what kind of suffering is that?
Her cousin was divorced, she chose to live with her children herself, and she was still indifferent to how her husband persuaded her.
She said to her husband: "From the birth of the child to the present, what have you accompanied us?" Every day after work, I play with my mobile phone and don't even look at us. Even sometimes, the child is sick, ask you to accompany you to the hospital, you are not willing, such a man, what am I going to do? ”
Women need to accompany, need to take care of, need a dependence, if, without companionship, love, and what is left?
Women, all they desire is to have a man who loves themselves, a warm family; their wish is very simple, they only hope that the sweetheart can understand themselves, spoil themselves, and accompany themselves, so that they will walk with men to the end of their lives with their hearts.
If men can do this, why worry about women not to die and love themselves?
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