When you find that you can't catch up, you may be chasing the wrong person

Hello everyone, your morning brother, suddenly appeared ~

Today is strong, Brother Chen has come to clear the mines for everyone again, there are always some old brothers, with girls in the middle of the place, unpleasant.

Just say you don't believe in love, you talk about you, you want to eat, you go to that restaurant, you have to plunge headlong into...

Yu, I don't swear ah, today to talk about, what kind of girls, it is best not to chase.

#1 Unclear location of the girl

In fact, not to mention some girls, in the big stage of real life, it is really what kind of cow, ghost, snake god can be encountered.

Our little brother should understand this reasoning anymore, but why, in the end, met those girls who were not clear about their own positioning, people said you can't do it, you really think you can't do it?

You are very considerate to her, she says you are too clingy and don't like it; you are tolerant of her, she says that you are a person who has no principles and does not like it; you empty your wallet for her, and she says that you have no house and no car, and you don't like it.

On the contrary, she, in the company to bring tea and pour water to see the face, but also dislike you riding is not a brand electric car; their own education in college and secondary school, but also dislike you did not study graduate school, their height of 1 meter 5, dislike your leg length 85.

With a salary that will be over three figures, it is not necessary to be tired and tired to squeeze into the circle of petty bourgeois literary and artistic independent young women, the first place in the yin and yang weirdness, and the positioning is not clear to the first-class performance artists.

You are still, you are still self-reflective, am I really too clingy, too unprincipled and too licky?

Don't I say, you believe everything other people say, your family and good friends say you are very good, why don't you believe it?

You have learned nothing from her, but you are about to join the association. I look at how many such brothers there are, bullet screen buckle 1, Wang Daqiang, just say you, still stunned?!

#2 Silly White Sweet Girl

I'll tell you a true story of mine, a friend of mine, really a friend of mine, I met a girl at an event, but cute and lively.

At that time, they were divided into a group, and then the girl added my friend's WeChat, and then after that, the girl always asked my friend to go out to play, my friend thought it was very good, and made a friend.

But after a long time, I found that this girl had to find my friend to help me with big things and small things, and originally there was nothing to help between my friends, but when my friend asked her for help, she said that there was something wrong and a business trip.

My friend thinks, I take you as a friend, you take me as a tool person.

In fact, I don't blame this girl, this kind of girl has been well protected since she was a child, so she habitually asks for help when she encounters things, because from childhood to adulthood, someone will always stand up and solve it for her.

You want to treat my same-sex friend is already like this, then when such a girl finds a boyfriend, as a boy, at the beginning you will feel that boys, it is reasonable to stand in front of girls in a big package to cover the wind and rain.

But after a long time, don't you want this person to be able to face the problem with you? But she just doesn't have the ability to do that.

#3 Girls who love to go around in circles

"I didn't want to go there to eat because before... I just don't want to go anyway. ”

"There are some things you don't have to ask, I'll tell you later."

"I think your friends don't seem to like me, so I won't participate, there's no reason, it's just feeling."

When you meet such a girl, she is also willing to tell you some of her inner thoughts.

At first you thought you knew her well, but after a long time, you found that you didn't know anything about her, because she was always hiding her heart, and it was difficult to open her heart.

How she treats others, she will actually treat you.

This kind of girl is likely to be an avoidant attachment personality, of course, most of them only have this tendency.

I know that some brothers are going to say, ah, but she is also quite pitiful, I can't see death and not save ah, I think I can help her change.

Let me give you a few examples of the characteristics of an avoidant attachment personality: avoid interpersonal relationships from the beginning, or unconditionally accept the opinions of others.

Despite their need to communicate in life, most people still keep a certain distance from those around them. In a rich emotional world, it is difficult for them to have in-depth emotional communication with others.

Also, the fear of revealing one's inner feelings, showing shame, crying, or not being able to answer questions.

They are affectionate with acquaintances and will be intimidated by any change in habits and routines in their lives. In order to avoid situations that cause anxiety, they often look for excuses.

Of course, if you think you can do it, it is also, after all, the song is also sung, happiness will be contagious, please be generous, comeon ~

#4 Girls with a lot of malice towards the same sex

Some girls you will find that there are almost no same-sex friends around her, but there are many friends of the opposite sex.

It's not that she's a scumbag or something, she just can't see other girls better than herself, and if nothing else, she's jealous of others.

Well, simply stick into the pile of boys, and be a group pet can satisfy your vanity. Always flaunting yourself as different from others, emphasizing your difference.

This kind of girl, everyone can affectionately call her: Mona Lisa's sister, Jinimasha.

You have to say what is this, I guess I have to give you from ancient times, there are not many bb, but you have to ask, then why can't I be with such a girl? Well, that's pretty much it

Preventive injections can be given to you in advance, but don't panic, after all, good girls are still a lot, but we haven't met them yet.