Those who can go to Tsinghua Peking University are all dragons and phoenixes among people, and the best among students. If you find that a person with a messy textbook and sloppy people also wants to enter Tsinghua Peking University, how will you feel?
It is estimated that even his own mother felt incredible: just like this, I still want to take the Qinghua Peking University, is this not a joke?
My son's school bag was "a mess", but the target was "Tsinghua Peking University", Mom: I can't believe it
A young mother shared her son's school routine: opened her son's school bag, I couldn't bear to look at it directly, it was a mess, textbooks, homework was scattered.
The title page of the textbook has been reduced to half a sheet, and the textbook has been scratched, and it is completely impossible to distinguish which is a note and which is a graffiti. A whole school bag was messed up into a pot of porridge, and my mother said that she couldn't read it anymore.
However, what was surprising was that the mother actually found her son's grand ambition in the chaos - to be admitted to Tsinghua Peking University, which made her herself unbelievable.
The mother said that her son usually belongs to the kind of mischievous, the schoolbag textbook has always been a mess, usually not obedient at all, who can think that he actually wants to take the Qinghua Peking University, can not believe his eyes.
This mother's unspoken meaning seems to think that her son is not worthy, learning is not good, and her ambition is not small. Seeing this, netizens also began to follow their mothers to start "complaining".
A netizen joked that this may be the reality of "reading tens of thousands of volumes", studying too hard is to turn the book bad, maybe in the future can really be admitted to Tsinghua Peking University.
Some people laughed and said that it turned out that everyone had the same goal when they were young, and when they were studying, they didn't know other schools, and they had heard about Tsinghua Peking University. At that time, I also struggled for half a day to choose Tsinghua Peking University, until after high school, I didn't know how many pounds I had, and now I was tightening screws in the factory.
However, some people also think that "why sweep the world without sweeping a house", primary school students should cultivate good learning habits from an early age and keep the learning environment clean, so that they can study more intently, rather than finding self-comfort in the "dirty mess".
However, some parents have appeared to say that their children's school bags were messy when they were young, and as a result, the college entrance examination was admitted to Wuhan University. Some people say that children with chaotic school bags are rich in creativity, and maybe they can really become a big tool in the future.
Einstein's desk has always been very chaotic, but it has not prevented him from becoming a genius; Steve Jobs's office has also been a mess, but it has not affected him from creating the "Apple Empire".
Einstein once famously said: If a disorganized desk means a messy brain, what does an empty desk mean?
It can be seen that for the situation of children, parents also need to look at it rationally, do not recommend blind suppression, and do not advocate positive promotion. As for the relationship between some people's disorganized environment and creativity, there is indeed evidence.
A scientist once did an experiment that showed that in a clean learning environment, people's behavior will be more controllable and friendly. In a chaotic learning environment, people's creativity will be stronger and they will perform better.
From the perspective of personality, people who like cleanliness may prefer order and rules, and people who can tolerate chaos will look more free and more creative.
Of course, this kind of experiment has many uncontrollable factors, and the scientific nature has yet to be considered, and it cannot be too absolute. However, the lesson that can be given to us is that the environment often affects behavior, and parents can provide different learning environments for their children according to different learning environments.
Where children need to follow the rules, the environment needs to be clean and tidy. Instead, you can relax a bit and unleash your child's gift for creativity.
For the mother who complained that her son's school bag was too messy, she also needed to teach according to her aptitude, specifically understand the true meaning behind her son's behavior, and then decide whether there was any need to intervene.
Not all chaos represents nonsense, and not all orderly represents rules, and everything needs to be divided into two, depending on how you guide scientifically.
epilogue:
Do you have "bear children" like this in your family? In other words, will you discipline him?
(The picture of this article comes from the network, invaded and deleted.) ）