Self-confidence plays a very critical role in a person's growth, many small things in life, language, we only need to pay a little attention, can be well used to help children build self-confidence.
Make your own choices:
Take your baby on a weekend and ask for his opinion, but don't ask, "Where do you want to go?" Instead, ask, "Do you want to go to the zoo or the aquarium?" Giving him the scope of his choices and letting him make his own choices will increase confidence in himself.
Don't laugh at:
When your baby has just learned to speak, the pronunciation is not accurate. Don't laugh at him, don't deliberately emphasize it at the time, and teach him at another time. During your baby's language learning period, your ridicule will cause him to lose confidence and interest in learning languages.
Take your baby's questions seriously:
Ask questions, listen patiently, and if you can't answer them, tell him honestly. Let him know that no one can do anything, dispel his awe of others, and thus increase his self-confidence.
I need your help:
Use a deliberative tone to let your baby do what he can. For example, "Bring the newspaper to mom, okay?" "Let the child know that being needed is the best way to improve his self-confidence."
Space to showcase your work:
Have your baby post his graffiti on the most eye-catching wall in the home; make a display shelf for your baby on the cabinet to display his little creations. A sense of honor can best stimulate children's self-confidence.
Own Territory:
Give your baby a room, no conditions, you can give him a part of the room, let him have a free play, unfettered little world. Because having his own "territory" makes him feel proud in his heart, which will make him more confident.
Tolerance is the soil of self-confidence:
Instead of always blaming your baby for being messy in his room or on the table, teach him to clean up his scattered toys and do them with him.
Don't compare your child to others: Don't say to your baby, "My sister can already count, you can't, you're stupid!" "Even if he's really worse than other kids." Always comparing a child who is stronger than him with him can most thwart a child's self-confidence.
Little Devil Is Home:
Take the baby to the supermarket, hand over the pending payment to him, and let him hand it over to the cashier. He wouldn't do the math yet, but at least let him know that money could buy things. Gradually letting the child master the pocket money and letting him take charge of the family will increase his self-confidence in life.
Let your baby choose their own clothes:
Buy clothes for your baby and let them choose their own colors and styles. Maybe you don't like the color he chooses, but don't deny his vision. The child's opinion being respected is the beginning of his self-confidence.
Get along with friends:
Watch his favorite cartoons with your child, discuss his favorite characters and lines with him, and express interest in his point of view. Equality of getting along and communicating is a ladder to give him self-confidence.
Do what you can:
Let the baby wash his own small socks and handkerchief independently, even if it is not clean. Your child's confidence comes from your approval of him in every little thing.
Encourage acting specialties:
When your baby recites poems, tells stories, and sings, give him a pat on the back to echo it. Exercising his courage to perform calmly on stage is to exercise his self-confidence.
Let your baby play with his peers more:
Let the baby get close to the strange child and actively encourage him to interact freely with people of all ages. Developing his social skills is actually cultivating his self-confidence.
Help your baby develop a detailed plan and remind him to perform:
For example, help your baby make a practice plan, and negotiate time with him when making a plan. Remind him as he executes: "Baby, it's time for us to practice, right?" Get him into the habit of doing things as planned. Only by doing things with confidence can we be confident.
Don't arbitrarily stop:
Baby play with coke bottles, shoe boxes and other waste, do not arbitrarily stop him. The child likes to explore what he is interested in, and if you stop his interest, it will dampen his confidence to explore.
Solve the difficulties yourself:
Children encounter difficulties in fighting tangrams, and children should be encouraged to find ways to solve these difficulties. When you really can't think of a way, you can point out from the side. Overcoming difficulties can make him more confident.
Specific commendations:
When dealing with your child, often look for specific reasons to praise, encourage him with praise, but do not praise the child emptyly. It can be said: "The baby knows that he is urinating, and he has made progress." Don't say, "Baby, you're so smart, mom likes you." Specific praise gives him confidence, and empty praise makes him arrogant.
Valuing Commitment:
Originally, I didn't want to take him to McDonald's, but I casually promised him to go, but I promised but didn't fulfill it. Your untrustworthiness has caused him to lose self-confidence and trust in you.
Play to the positive aspects of personality:
If the baby is acute, he exercises the speed of his work; if he is chronic, he exercises his organization. Forcing him to change his disposition will make you lose confidence in him, and it will make him lose confidence.
Teach him to recognize his looks from an early age:
For example, tell him that although he is not a big eye, the small eyes are very good as long as they have a god. A lot of unconfidence often stems from disapproval of your appearance.
Provide your child with books and materials to support him in doing what he dreams of doing:
Let the child recognize his own talents and abilities, and he will be more confident.
Try to get your baby out of dependency in life:
Go to kindergarten on time and try to wake him up with an alarm clock instead of his mother calling over and over again. Only children who can take care of themselves can be confident in the situation of not being dependent.
From elementary school to sightseeing:
When traveling with your baby, tell him about the animals, plants, geography, allusions and other knowledge he encountered. To be well informed is to be confident.
Don't abuse:
Verbal abuse not only hits the child's self-confidence, but also makes the child have a rebellious psychology.
Help your baby analyze:
The baby suffered a setback, and analyzed the experience with him in a relaxed tone, and the next time there will be no same mistake. It's especially important to regain his self-confidence.
The Power of Role Models:
Parents follow reasonable standards of behavior, and parents who are respected are not respected in society, which is the most damaging to children's self-confidence.
Mom and Dad can compare and see how many they have done, and those who have not done it should be written down, which is a super practical little method!