Text: Shi Yi long affection
Not every emotion has a destination, I will interpret your heart.
"A word of love, do not know what to do, do not know where to live."
I only know that if you fall in love with someone, you will rejoice in your heart and suffer from gains and losses.
Some people just inadvertently look back, they will remember it in their hearts, reluctant to forget, reluctant to give up.
The heart is always looking forward to it, looking forward to falling in love with him, looking forward to being with him, looking forward to having a happy ending with him.
But not all expectations will be answered, some people will still be separated even if they love each other, some people will always accompany you, and loving you will not be able to withstand time after all.
In the affairs of the world, nothing is immutable, and feelings are even more so.
Some people, you wholeheartedly give him all the precious things, but people may not accept, may not cherish.
So to your people, no matter how much you love, don't dwell on it anymore.
Your unrelenting efforts have touched yourself, but you can never touch a person who does not love you, and a vague entanglement will only hurt yourself in the end.
Always ignore your feelings and don't take you to heart
People who truly love you will always make up their minds to stay with you for the rest of their lives.
Even if life is very hard and the road ahead is difficult, he will not let go of your hand.
To identify you is a lifelong commitment, no matter where he is, he will always put you in his heart, worry about you, and miss you.
He will never ignore your feelings, and he will never ignore your words and deeds, which is the proof of love.
However, a person who does not love you, with sweet words of love for you, is full of perfunctory actions.
In the bits and pieces of getting along with him, you can feel that he doesn't care about you and doesn't care.
He never takes what you say to heart, he doesn't care if you're sad or not, and even when you need him, he always finds excuses to shirk it.
A person who treats you like this can only show that his love for you is not deep enough, his love for you is not true enough, don't dwell on it when you understand, and there is no need to please it anymore.
Always speak coldly to you, talk hurting you
The world knows: "A good word is warm in three winters, and a bad word hurts people in June." ”
A heart-warming word, like the warm sun in winter, can always make you feel warm, and a harsh and mean word will always deeply sting your heart.
The person who loves you will feel the sadness in your heart and heal your wounds for you.
He will not be angry at you for a moment, he will not cover your mouth, nor will he vent his emotions to you because he is irritable.
Because of deep love, I can't bear to hurt, afraid that you will be sad, afraid that you will be sad.
But for someone who doesn't love you, every word he says will make your heart ache, maybe once or twice you think he's unintentional, but after a long time you understand that he just doesn't care so much about you.
Therefore, even if he knows that there are some things that should not be said, he will still say them without any cover to hurt you.
Even many times, just because of some things, some contradictions, he will deliberately speak coldly to you, no matter what you say, he is a look of ignoring it.
It is said that a person's attitude of talking to you often reflects how deeply he loves you, a person who often speaks coldly to you, in other words, does not love you.
Never take the initiative not to bow your head, not afraid to lose you
When you like someone, you will become cautious in your words and deeds.
Not because he's weak, not because he's incompetent, it's just because he cares about you and is afraid of losing you.
So no matter what happens, he will tolerate you, spoil you, even if your willfulness and unreasonableness touch his bottom line, he will break the rules for you.
Where he is, you will always be a preference and an exception, he will take the initiative to approach you, contact you, and will also put down his face and ask for your forgiveness when your relationship is in trouble.
But in the world of feelings, there are always people who don't know how to cherish you and are not afraid of losing you.
As the saying goes: "What you don't get is always in turmoil, and those who are favored are fearless." ”
People who don't love you accept your efforts for granted and ignore your presence.
When you think back to when you were together, most of it was you who were giving, most of it was you who took the initiative, and he almost never took the initiative to you and did not bow to you.
You think he loves face and can't put down his posture, but in fact, he just doesn't care about you and is not afraid of losing you.
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Author: Shi Yi Changqing, a southern girl who loves words and lives hard, every word has its meaning of existence, hoping to give you strength and help you be strong.
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