Medical technology is more and more developed, whether you want to observe the state of the baby in the belly of the pregnant woman, or want to see how the pregnant woman's own conditions are, basically a look at a quasi, can not escape the machine and the doctor's "fire eye golden eye".
Of course, it can also be understood that some women want to hide their "past history", especially when there are some secrets that they do not want their mother-in-law or husband to know, they may also hide something from the doctor during the obstetric examination, but they may not be able to hide it from the doctor.
The child was the first child, but the doctor asked "when was Dabao born?"
Xiaoding in Hubei has been pregnant for three months, and the most recent obstetric examination was done by her mother-in-law with her, when she did not expect that the doctor directly asked her during the obstetric examination, "When was Dabao born?" This stunned both her and her mother-in-law, after all, it was her first birth, but soon she reacted again, she had miscarried before, so the doctor may have asked about it.
But the mother-in-law did not know about her miscarriage before marriage, and for a moment she was in a dilemma, and the mother-in-law first said, "Dabao is still in her belly." ”
The doctor saw that Xiao Ding's face was embarrassed, so he nodded, and then looked for other topics. And when he wanted to check later, he took Xiaoding's mother-in-law out, "To check in detail, the family is waiting outside." ”
After waiting for Xiaoding's mother-in-law to be outstanding, the doctor will check while understanding Xiaoding's miscarriage, and then tell Xiaoding that her uterus has been affected by the previous curettage, coupled with the fact that it has not recovered well, so it is thinner than the uterus of ordinary pregnant women, and it must be well cared for during pregnancy, otherwise it is easy to have problems.
Xiaoding is full of gratitude to the doctor, after all, she does not want to leave a bad impression in front of her mother-in-law, fortunately, the doctor is very reasonable, so that she does not fall into embarrassment.
Women who have had a miscarriage, these "marks" are obvious
Perhaps some women do not know, if a woman has miscarried, the doctor can see through some parts of the body, if you try to hide, it is actually in vain.
Usually, women who have had a miscarriage or who have already had a baby have large differences in cervical opening. The cervical opening of an unpregnant woman is more rounded, like a human navel, with greater elasticity. However, women who have given birth to children, their cervical opening will show a "one" shape, and there are more folds or other shapes, in short, not as "beautiful" as the infertile women, which can be clearly observed during examination.
The pelvic structure of the infertile woman is good, except for the acquired fracture, etc., and the pelvic floor muscles and the muscles near the pelvis are generally well elastic in the infertile women, so the pelvis is relatively tight. However, those women who have given birth to children, their pelvic floor muscles and other muscle groups will become relatively loose, then the pull on the pelvis is relatively small, and naturally it will change.
There are also many women whose belly will become very loose after giving birth, and will also leave a lot of faint human stretch marks. The belly of the unpregnant woman is relatively tight and the skin condition is relatively good. Some people may feel that even the mother's belly can regain firmness with exercise.
In fact, this is not the case, because even if the mother exercises hard, the skin fibers have been destroyed before, so it is still quite difficult to restore the original firmness, and the recovery speed is not as fast as other pregnant women.
Of course, some pregnant mothers do not really want to hide it, but sometimes it is inconvenient for the family to disclose it at the scene, I believe that the doctor can also understand the difficulties of pregnant mothers, and will also choose to ask at the right time, which will not make pregnant mothers too embarrassed, so there is no need to worry too much.
For women who have had a miscarriage, these aspects should be cared for more carefully
As we all know, miscarriage has a great impact on the female body, if there is no diligent care after abortion, it is likely to cause irreversible damage, such as the uterus becomes too thin, the fallopian tubes are blocked, uterine ectopic and so on, these problems may cause female infertility, the situation is serious and even need to remove the entire uterus, which can be seen in its harm.
Therefore, after a small birth, we must rest more and never work too early. You know, small births are even more harmful than normal births, and recuperation after small births is more critical than confinement. Whether it is eating or sleeping, be more attentive.
The most important thing is that female friends must adjust their emotions, not because of a small birth is too sad, otherwise it will affect the recovery, after all, the regulation of emotions is extremely critical to the stability of endocrine, if the endocrine system is unstable, the recovery of "small confinement" will become more difficult.
Conclusion: Still want to emphasize that women must protect themselves, to put themselves first, men who really care about you, will also consider for you, not only estimate your feelings, but also take on all the responsibilities for you, this is the real man.