Text/Little Snow Mom
Name is the first gift from parents to their children, but also an important title that accompanies the child's life, parents want to give their children a good name, but not all parents can take it well.
Some parents are prone to good intentions and bad things, thinking that they have given their children a good and meaningful name, but they have made jokes, which has brought certain troubles to the growth of their children.
Dad's surname was "Come", the name given to the dragon and phoenix fetus, and the nurse laughed out loud after listening to it
There is a father with the surname "Come", his wife gave birth to a pair of "dragon and phoenix fetuses", which can make The father happy and bad, how many people hope that there is a "son and a daughter" in the family to make a "good" word, and they have it all at once.
But at the same time, the father is also thinking together, since it is a dragon and phoenix fetus, the name that I thought before is not good, we must take a pair of names that are related and have a good meaning, so that we can be worthy of this happiness.
After thinking about it for several days, My father finally came up with two names that he thought were very good, the son was called "Lai Wanzhou" The son was called "Lai Wan Tang", the second word of which was the same, and these two names were particularly literary, which was very meaningful at a glance.
After thinking about the name, the nurse rounded the room and asked, and Dad was happy to share that he had obtained two names. But I didn't expect the nurse to laugh after listening to it, what is going on?
It turns out that these two names are too harmonious like "to bowl porridge" and "to bowl soup", suddenly people feel like going to the breakfast restaurant to order food, come dad was also laughed at the nurse's explanation, embarrassed to say that he did not expect this layer, it seems that this good name is no way to give children to use, otherwise it will be easy to make big jokes in the future.
In fact, there are many cases in life that take this name with a harmonic sound, at first the parents did not notice, and then noticed that it was a little late, like a father with the surname "Dai", who named the child "Dai Naizhao" and the result was a harmonic "wearing a milk mask", this nickname made the child often teased at school, affecting the child's personality growth.
These three "minefields" with names, parents must avoid
First, it has the same name as "celebrity", and the name has become too big
Every parent has expectations for the future of their children and hopes that their children will become talents in the future, so they take a celebrity name, or a more powerful name, and hope that their children will be "as their names are".
But sometimes it is not necessarily a good thing to achieve too much fame, for example, there is a child named "Li Bai", the teacher who memorizes ancient poetry in chinese class will not recite, the teacher also hates iron and steel, and criticizes the child for "getting a name, how the gap is so big, it is really blind to this name."
When the child encounters this situation, he will resent his own name, which was originally the name that motivated the child, but he did not expect to bring too much pressure to the child and hurt the child's self-esteem.
Second, the name has "harmonic" and "ambiguous"
In life, we often encounter some people with harmonic sounds in their names, such as "Lai Yuejing" harmonic "menstruation", "Sha Renfan" harmonic "murderer", although these names are no problem from the literal point of view, but it is easy to be misunderstood.
If you give the child this name with harmonic ambiguity, the students in the future class will take the nickname joke, do not underestimate the harm of the nickname to the child, it is easy to destroy the child's self-esteem, affect the child's interpersonal communication.
Third, the name is too strange and the strokes are too complicated
Some parents do not want their children to have the same name, when taking names, they will specifically find some strange and unpopular names, preferably most of them do not know, so that the child's name appears cultured.
But in fact, the name is too strange, many people do not know, in the future others can not call out both sides will be very embarrassed, and the strange words are generally very many strokes, for children just began to practice writing their own names is also very unfriendly.
Therefore, when parents give their children a name, they must consider it carefully, and do not choose a name casually, after all, a good name has a very great impact on the child's future.
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