Girls' disappointment in boys is often not a thought that arises at once, but an outbreak after accumulating again and again. Usually, after the girl and the boy fall in love, they have even been introduced to family and friends, so basically she has completely cared about you and accepts you psychologically. As long as it is not too much, it is generally just a quarrel and it will pass.
The feelings of two people are based on trust, and since they have chosen to be together, then choose to believe. Unwarranted suspicion will only accelerate his departure. I once asked a male friend of mine which moment was particularly disappointed in his girlfriend, and he told me that he knew that his girlfriend used WeChat to pretend to be another girl and tested him.
It is simply normal for men and women in love to have conflicts, but when some girls have conflicts, they choose to deal with them coldly - that is, we often call cold violence. Girls generally adopt the principle of three noes when using cold violence against boys - not to say, not to listen, and not to pay attention. Originally, after the contradiction occurred, as long as the two people communicated well, it was beneficial and harmless for the feelings of the two people.
Experienced girls should know that there is a cycle of changes in a man's attitude, and will not break up with you suddenly because you argue with him a few times, but will gradually become indifferent, in this process he is beginning to doubt whether it is really appropriate, and will want to see you change. However, often girls at this stage, because of the boy's escape, will become more intense to make trouble, want to control each other, and eventually form a vicious circle.
So it has led to people often say that love is easy, easy to keep together, everyone because of the future life is full of unlimited expectations, the bits and pieces of life are also dependent on two people to maintain each other, a good relationship is not a person's efforts can be maintained, or rely on two people. It's like a guy who is particularly devoted to love, but you have to find evidence that he doesn't specialize and doesn't love you. And this opportunity was created by you yourself. Then the original heart that was full of blazing desire to go to the end with you will only slowly cool down without the strength of love in the end.