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There is an old saying: foreign monks chant the sutra.
In fact, is this really the case? I'm afraid not, but it's just because most people have a "sense of mystery" about things they don't understand, and they want to find out.
And, the mystery of women, too.
Just like the pipa girl who has not yet appeared in Bai Juyi's "Pipa Line", in the Xunyang River head of the maple leaf hagi flowers in autumn that night, she "began to come out with a thousand calls", and after coming out, she also "hugged the pipa and half covered her face", pulling a sense of mystery to the full, making people want to know what kind of girl would be out.
In fact, men can be moved by a woman in an instant, perhaps starting from the appearance, but most of them come from an inner "attraction", and this attraction is the woman's deep concealment, that is, her mysterious sense, attracting men to explore.
These "mysteries" of women bring them freshness, and the desire to challenge, making them want to conquer and want to make each other fall in love with themselves.
Therefore, many smart girls will bring some mystery of their own, and give themselves a layer of hazy feeling of "drunkenly picking the lamp and looking at the sword", so that men cannot be elusive and let them be full of expectations for themselves.
In fact, these mysteries of women, for men, are actually the "femininity" hidden in them.
-02-
Some people say that femininity is a woman's gentleness and thoughtfulness, sweetness and understanding.
But in fact, femininity is not only a characteristic of personality, but also their own cultivation. These cultivations make them have ever-changing and heart-to-heart tastes, and this taste will also make women have a "mysterious feeling" that makes people fall in love.
In life, a girl with taste, they will be happy to enhance their temperament and connotation, so that their lives are colorful and more interesting.
Just like a girl, watching celebrity gossip every day, and a person who is immersed in literature and history every day, chatting with them, you will find different interests, but also dig out the different soil in the depths of women's hearts.
Therefore, the taste of a woman is her daily management of time, the accumulation of life, and the condensation of interests and hobbies.
And a woman with a sense of mystery, on these foundations, sublimates her inner temperament, so that the more you contact her, the more you will find her inner talent and deep emotions, so that you don't just see her pale and gorgeous appearance.
When you have a deep understanding with her, you will explore from her bit by bit, and it turns out that she is such a person who can talk with you, give you inspiration in life, bring you peace of mind, and bring you beauty.
This, the "mystery" in her, attracts you.
-03-
It is said that femininity is a kind of feminine aroma.
Of course, this aroma certainly does not refer to the smell of perfume sprinkled on the body, but to the fact that when you are with a girl, you feel that she will emit a charming feminine breath from the inside out.
This breath, no matter how anxious and annoyed you are, after seeing her, you will immediately calm down, you want to be close to her, you want to talk to her more, you want to be with her more, you want to explore why she can attract yourself.
This kind of feminine fragrance is the mystery of women.
Life is always complicated, and there will always be some dissatisfaction in the days, but you find that she will always give you a warm smile and inadvertently dispel the irritability in your heart.
This "mysterious feeling" of women lies in her inner stability and steadfastness, no matter whether life is bitter or sweet, they will always maintain a quiet and indifferent posture, so that men feel that this woman is really not simple.
Two people together, in fact, is emotional complementarity, perhaps one is impatient, one is chronic, one is always windy, one is calm and sophisticated.
And the woman's "mystery" is the femininity of her body, which makes up for the man's character defect and gives him a new feeling.
-04-
There will always be people who say that if a woman is involved with money, she will have less "femininity" and more tackiness.
But a woman who makes men have a "sense of mystery", she must also love money, because people live, must have an economic foundation, in order to better build their own "superstructure".
A woman with a sense of mystery, even if she is contaminated with money, there will be a kind of femininity, she loves money, but she loves elegantly, loves frankly, and loves for granted.
She will make men feel that it turns out that a woman who loves money can be so cute, and that a woman who is financially independent and has an independent personality is so attractive.
A woman's love of money is the persistence of a better life, is responsible for her own life, she will also let herself dress up exquisitely, speak properly, in any occasion, can be grasped with moderation, so that men are ashamed of themselves.
This elegant and comfortable "femininity" is the mystery that men want to know.
-05-
Femininity is also a kind of emotion within a woman.
The triviality of pots and pans is the spice of life in her eyes, and the environment with a few clear windows is a favor to her life.
She loves herself and loves life, and she will take care of her ordinary days with sound and color, full of fun. Such a woman, no matter when and where, will not lose the color of life because of the passage of time.
Just like a painting, there is a Chinese painting charm of ink pastels, and there are also vivid oil paintings with strong colors.
This kind of charm, in the eyes of men, is the "mysterious feeling" he dreams of.
Her charm is varied, such as the deep valley lily, emitting fragrance, but also like peony blossoms, with its own wealth, in the depths of time, silent, enchanting, let men and her more contact, the more shocking, more fascinated.
Femininity is a kind of slowly moving heartstrings, flowing into the heart bit by bit.
A woman's every move, every word, is like "Liu Beisan Gu Maolu", so that men want to find out and understand her charm.
This mysteriousness, let the woman slightly pull her hair, a shallow smile, and even give him a pulse of affection, will make him move and make him fascinated.
-06-
Life is one encounter after another.
Some people, when you meet once, don't want to see the second side, and some people, you have a hasty glance and want to be with her forever.
The so-called "if you bloom, the butterfly comes", the purpose of the mystery itself is to attract people who can agree with your inner values, who are the same as your three views, who have common topics with you, and who can enter each other's hearts.
The women who make a man unable to let go are not necessarily how beautiful and excellent she is, but her inner temperament, or gentle, or delicate, or atmospheric, or feminine, or kind... In short, there is something "feminine" that attracts him, making him want to be with her and want to walk through the long road of life in the future.
Therefore, girls, no matter when and where, must maintain their own self and personality, both to be a strong person in life, but also to experience the leaps and bounds of time, both gentle and independent, but also have their own inner personality.
In this way, your interesting soul must be able to attract people who are deeply moved by you, and can also attract partners who are truly in harmony with you and have a unified soul.
Therefore, if at the moment, you have the right person in your heart, you may wish to create more femininity for yourself, let yourself be full of mystery, and let the person who makes your heart move, take the initiative to find you, take the initiative to come to your side, and let him look forward to you.
Author: The Frank Fox
Figure, network
May you find in my words the ordinary years, a strong affection! Thanks for your attention!