Author: Hu Yang Yingyue
In our real life, one day, there will always be such a person who will break through all your bottom lines, even including your dignity, or break through your reverence for morality and law, let you give up everything for this person, become fearless, and even take your own life for this person, just to please this person, just to make this person live happily and happily...
However, when we put down all our bottom lines and dignity to love someone, we suddenly find that it was just too early or too late, the wrong time met the wrong love of the right person, because the order of appearance is different, when we meet the person we really love, we have no qualification to love or the other party already has a family...
It turns out that we just love one person lonely: there is a kind of love, although two people are deeply in love, but they can't be husband and wife, because they met too late, because when they met, they both had families...
Perhaps, this is the so-called love of middle-aged people: we have passed the age of hearing about love, but there is still a dream about true love in our hearts, hoping that we are the lucky person, hoping that we can find a true love of our own - however, when we are lucky enough to meet the right person, when we are lucky enough to find the love we want to find in our hearts, we find out:
The so-called love we are pursuing, what we are pursuing, turned out to be a kind of heart-rending pain, a kind of unforgettable thoughts, although we and the people we love are in love, but we can't come together, we can't be husband and wife, because we can't live too selfishly, because we can't just consider our own feelings, because we have companions, although we don't love, but there is no fault lover, because we have a family behind us, more because we can't give up our children...
There is a kind of true love, after falling in love, loneliness and loneliness accompany the rest of your life - because you have truly loved someone, so no one has been able to enter your heart since that person left; because you have given all your love to that person, so after breaking up with that person, there is no longer the motivation to love, and there is no courage to be loved...
In this red dust, not all people who truly love each other can come together. Even, on the contrary, in the passage of time, the more people who love each other, the more they can't be together...
Often, people who truly love each other, after they are separated, love deeply, hate deeply, either become the most familiar strangers or become enemies, and few people turn this love into a spiritual affection to continue to the end.
In fact, true love, really love a person, not to be a husband and wife can also love deeply for a lifetime: hide the person you truly love in the softest corner of your heart, accompany yourself for a lifetime, do not have to worry about whether this true love is loyal and unfaithful to yourself, and do not have to worry about whether this love will deteriorate with the extension of time, a lifetime of worrying about the person you truly love, a lifetime of thinking about the person who has hollowed out his heart, so that the time of past love becomes a gentle river, With yourself, for the rest of your life... Isn't this the truest and most affectionate love?
If you don't want to be a husband and wife, you can also love deeply for a lifetime!