"Yanxi Raiders", a woman's Qing Palace drama, is actually about how to please the Qianlong Emperor at that time. And one of the women inside, Wei Yongluo, was deeply fascinated by QianlongYe after she was only spoiled once, why did Wei Yongluo have such a skill? There are mainly the following reasons, which may be something that many women can't do.
The first reason: to keep love fresh, and constantly inject freshness into feelings
Many women feel that they have entrusted their bodies to each other, and the other party will be responsible for the end of their lives, no matter what they become in the future, black or white, fat or thin, anyway, how happy they are. Or her man can tolerate it in the beginning, but over time, the man loses his freshness and will go looking for new goals. Let's not say that men are not too scummy, women themselves are not doing a good job, and what right do they have to ask others?
And look at our Wei Yongluo, after receiving a favor from Qianlong, she always looks for opportunities to show her different sides, such as building a pergola where Qianlong passes, putting some Kong Ming lanterns to attract Qianlong, and even willing to pretend to be a wine seller to enter Qianlong's vision, the reason why she did this is to increase Qianlong's impression of herself and give herself the opportunity to get Qianlong's favor again.
Perhaps for the current girls, there is no need to spend as much effort as Wei Yongluo to please their own king, but it is still possible to make some small changes.
The second reason: learn to label yourself and make yourself stand out
Modern people, whether it is career or love, need to pay, but how to pay is the right way? This requires a lot of skill. And the most important thing is to position yourself and label yourself.
Wei Yongluo had always paid great attention to such behavior in the process of getting along with the Qianlong Emperor. She would do something to make Qianlong Ye think of herself as soon as she saw something.
For example, raising gardenias, and then intentionally or unintentionally hinting at Qianlongye many times, so that it continues to deepen in the impression, and finally when Qianlongye thinks of gardenias, even asks about the fragrance similar to gardenias, he can think of himself.
In the real feelings of men and women, there should also be such a move, constantly do something, deepen the impression in the boyfriend's heart, so that no matter who he encounters or what will immediately think of you, and then take you as the starting point, so that you have succeeded for a long time.
The third reason: understand and encourage your lover more, he will cherish you more
Andy Lau has a song that sings like this: "In the rush, I suddenly look back, look at the past years, all that I have worked hard to get, and do not stay in the blink of an eye." But you are always behind me, under pressure and sorrow, even if you are sweating and tasting hardships, you still accompany me forward. ”
After Wei Yongluo became empress, she has always guarded Qianlongye's side, even if it is a late night of ice and snow, she will accompany Qianlong's side, help him share his worries and worries, and send a lot of warmth to the Qianlong Emperor who is in the political whirlpool. Men, even the emperors who are high above, have times when their feelings are fragile, and women are the best comfort. Wei Yongluo knew this very well, so he often used his own actions to touch Qianlong's heart, so why should such a woman ask for it?
In real life, there is no shortage of such great women, willing to become the women behind their own men, and use their lives to protect their men, their families, their children... Even if the life of two people is a bit flat, and even if they have to go through a lot of storms, they will not change their original intentions. Such a woman will naturally get the loyalty of the man and the understanding of the family.
Some people may think that Wei Yongluo is just the heroine of "Yanxi Raiders", a dramatic character, and there will be no such existence in reality.
So let's take a look at how the prototype of Wei Yongluo's character has been evaluated in history.
Historically, Wei Yongluo was empress dowager, the third empress of Qianlong, the biological mother of the Jiaqing Emperor, and the daughter of Wei Qingtai, the third duke of Cheng'en.
In the Records of Emperor Gaozong of the Qing Dynasty, the Qianlong Emperor called it "the Noble Emperor Wei of The Shu'er and the Jiuxian Sect." Long Bong Female Proverbs. The ritual is the dzong. Rin is careful and stern-winged. Be diligent. ”
To be able to get such an evaluation from the Qianlong Emperor was already very remarkable, and naturally he was named a noble concubine, became the third empress of Qianlong, and gave birth to the Jiaqing Emperor, such a historical merit made his historical position in the Qing Dynasty quite prominent.