We all know that the management of love is not an easy task, it requires us to work hard for it, we need to find the right way, and learn to use skills.
Some people just blindly bury their heads in hard work and never consider whether it is right or not to do so, whether it is useful or not.
Therefore, even if they do their best, the cost performance of the final investment is still not high, but they just let themselves work hard.
And some people, they hardly spend too much effort, but they don't know why, they can be successful in the relationship between the sexes.
Psychology proves that women who make men irresistible have a little "means".
They will use male thinking to fall in love with men, and will never be passive in love
The way men think is rational and the way women think is emotional.
Emotional thinking can easily make people fall into love too quickly and ignore its own problems, so women tend to sacrifice a lot more easily in love.
The so-called know oneself and know the other, win every battle, and want a person to be "obedient to his own destiny", he needs to think about the problem from the perspective of the other party and exchange roles.
Therefore, we may as well try to use male thinking to fall in love with men, and those women who are at ease in the relationship between the sexes are precisely because of this approach.
So, how do you use a male mind to fall in love with a man?
The most important thing is to stay sober and sane, and not to lose yourself by getting too involved in a relationship.
Divide the time into ten parts, the best way to deal with it is to leave seven points for yourself to run your life, and the remaining three points for running love.
In this way, we will spread the risk and will not suffer from gain and loss because of one person.
Mary Warsteincraft said: "Independence is the greatest happiness in life, the basis of all virtues, even if I live in a barren land, I have to reduce my needs to achieve independence." ”
Love is an emotional game, we are enthusiastic, the other party is cold, we do whatever we want, the other party naturally cares.
They will never let their love be said easily
The concubine in the TV series "Yanxi Raiders" believes that she loves the emperor so deeply, that she has done so much for the emperor, and that she has put the emperor in the most important place in her heart.
But why, Wei Yongluo obviously didn't do anything, he still couldn't compare to her?
Concubine Xian was not willing, she did not understand that she had paid so much, she loved the emperor far more than Wei Yongluo, but in the end she still lost so completely.
At this time, Wei Yongluo told her that since Concubine Xian loved the emperor so much, why did she say it?
In feelings, whoever says he loves first loses.
What is not obtained is always in turmoil, and those who are favored have no fear, and this sentence naturally has its own truth.
After we have determined a thing, we will no longer bother to consolidate it, because the matter has been completed, we have lost the driving force, and naturally we will not bother to spend our minds any longer.
But for those things that are uncertain, the inner driving force is always there, always thinking about what to do to make it a definite thing.
As a result, the emotional cost is paid, the time cost is also paid, and the woman's position in the man's heart is naturally extraordinary.
Shakespeare said, "The love that is pursued is good, but the love that is not pursued is even better." ”
We must learn to be reserved, we must learn to "disguise", and we must learn to love someone again.
Because everyone in the world is like this, what you don't get is the best.
They never skimp on praise for men, and their mouths are sweet and hard
Yuan Hong in the variety show "Happiness Trio" was considered a model husband by the guests outside the venue because he took care of Zhang Yunyi's living and was responsible for each other's three meals a day.
But no one knows that Yuan Hong did not have a good time in the kitchen at the beginning.
When cooking for the first time, Yuan Hong did not know how much salt to put, making the taste of scrambled eggs salty and bitter, but even so, Zhang Yunyi did not say a word of criticism.
Instead, he encouraged Yuan Hong, the first time he cooked so well, he will definitely get better and better in the future.
Under the encouragement of Zhang Yunyi, Yuan Hong's confidence doubled, and slowly, he became the man who went out of the hall and got out of the kitchen today.
If we pay attention, we will actually find that men are more narcissistic, they are more inclined to like women who are interested in themselves, and praise is a good way to express interest.
And in psychology, once a person is labeled with a certain label, he becomes the person who is labeled by the label.
Therefore, we should not skimp on our own praise, but praise men more and affirm men more.
Bi Shumin said: "Love is afraid of silence. Too many people think that love to the depths is speechless. In fact, love is a difficult emotion to describe, which needs to be expressed and transmitted in detail. ”
The ear is a shortcut to the heart, say more sweet words, more stirring men's hearts, under the positive psychological hints, men naturally can not resist women.