There is a saying on the Internet that many parents have pinned their ideals on their children. For example, parents know that they did not study well, so they hope that their children will study hard and go to a good university in the future, and they are not allowed to have other ideas. In fact, I don't quite agree with this statement, because most parents only hope that their children will live well in the future and have greater choices about life, rather than the so-called "realizing their dreams for themselves".
But it's really hard to explain, because many parents do pin their hopes in their children, and although they love their children more than they do, many are unwilling or unable to understand. There is only one way for parents to prove themselves, and that is to become excellent themselves. This is proof of this, our Great Demon King Deng Yaping.
Deng Yaping was born in a sports family, her father Deng Dasong is a table tennis singles champion in the five provinces of central and southern China, and her mother is also a senior golfer, and the family intends to train her and her brother to become table tennis players, which can also be regarded as some hope for her. However, Deng Dasong is not a forced education, but a style that begins with taking her to observe the game and slowly cultivates her interest. Under the influence of the ear, Deng Yaping did fall in love with table tennis.
Under the guidance of her father Deng Dasong, Deng Yaping in her childhood already had a strong and stubborn personality, and she got up at six o'clock every day to train. At the age of 9, he won a golden trophy in the National Amateur Sports School Divisional Competition. Deng Dasong recommended her to the Henan provincial team, but although she defeated her teammates one by one, she was still "dissuaded" on the grounds that she was small and not conducive to further development. In fact, this can also be understood, after all, receiving the ball needs to move, and long hands and long feet do have inherent advantages.
Deng Dasong did not force her to choose whether to study or play. Deng Yaping did not accept defeat, and she chose to continue playing. Isn't it short legs? Increase the speed of running, others run one step, she can always run two steps. To this end, she tied sandbags on her legs, wore a 25-pound sand vest to practice her steps, hit the ball at least tens of thousands of times a day, the real winter practice three nine, summer practice three volts, than the practice of martial arts harder. Just as the so-called kung fu does not live up to the hard work, when she was 10 years old, she won the championship in the national junior competition.
Later, he entered the national team and was again questioned for his small stature. The national team is not the same as the provincial team, the masters are like clouds, and Deng Yaping can only train harder. The team customized a table for her, half a width than the normal table, and she used this table to practice, and also asked two coaches to accompany her, practicing at least 40 minutes more than others every day. It is with such tenacity that she dominated the world table tennis world and won 18 championships.
In the sports world, she is already a super celebrity, and it can be said that the future is bright, but she decided to go to Tsinghua to study a year before she retired. When she reads, she is also serious, with ideals and goals. In fact, she had already started to make up lessons while training a few years ago. She was not satisfied with her bachelor's degree from Tsinghua University, and spent another seven years, successively getting a master's degree from the University of Nottingham and a doctorate from the University of Cambridge, and the year she got her doctorate, she was 35 years old.
In fact, at the same time, she did not delay her career, she served on the International Olympic Committee, she also worked as an executive, and she also became an adjunct professor at the university. She has experienced almost all the "success" that ordinary people dream of. Of course, she also has a happy little family, a sensible son.
Some people may think that she will definitely let her son play the ball too, but she did not. She completely allowed her son to develop freely. Her son loves to play games, and she supports it, even taking the initiative to help her son practice esports clubs. Unfortunately, the son could not stand the training in the club for more than ten hours a day, and he gave up, and Deng Yaping did not accuse her son of being afraid of hardship. Her son went to play table tennis himself and won a small prize, and she was proud of it.
Although Deng Yaping herself has realized all her ideals, it actually takes courage and a good attitude to let her son develop freely, but she has done it.