In retrospect, our generation may not have understood what love was.
I remember when we were little, boys would bully girls in school. Almost everyone, children, teachers and parents, explains this is that he may like her. We do express our love or love through such behavior.
Of course, for children, the word love is too heavy, and liking may be more accurate. We are really keen to tease the girls we like. The problem is that this has become a school tradition and a conventional way for people to express their likes.
Even to this day, I can still hear some parents say to their children (girls) that if he is bullying you, then he must like you.
But when we really and truly think about this question calmly, isn't that a very childish or even contradictory statement? When we are young, we express our love through so-called bullying, bullying and even some soft violence. So in adulthood, is domestic violence also a kind of love?
Some people may say, is it too much to go online? But this is the trajectory of our growth, if we don't know how to express like or love when we are young, then when we reach adulthood, will we also regard control, bullying, and violence as love?
Isn't the claim that women like bad men derived from that?
But it is gratifying that today's children seem to know better how to express love, and we will discuss with our children in life what love is, or instill the concept of love. Happiness, joy, kindness, more positive words and positive behaviors are happening in our lives.
So we should abandon bad traditions, such as bullying those we like on campus. Our children should not live such a life, and should not use such behavior to express their love or like. It has nothing to do with whether we are in precocious love, it has nothing to do with whether we are precocious, it is human nature, this is how we look at love and liking? How to deal with joy and happiness?
So if possible, please teach our children not to cover up or decorate their love and likes with negative behaviors, and we should act more actively.
In the new era, we have too many options, shyness or mis-expression of like this feeling, is not our first choice. We can take control of our own lives, and so can our children. Teach children to love, not to use bullying to represent like.
In fact, when we say goodbye to an era, like our childhood, like our era that is not good at expressing love, our children will usher in their time.