In the TV series "Know It or Not", even if Minglan's mother is not high-status, she comes from a family of readers, and from a young age, Minglan understands that when the situation is stronger than people, what is the reason for saving her life. Even Lin Xiaoniang, who is "working in her heart", strives as hard as possible for her daughter to fight for a good life and future.
It can be seen that "parents love their children, then they are far-reaching", they try their best to give their children good things, a good future, hope that they can become a dragon into a phoenix, but children of different families, their growth, learning and future development are different, want to cultivate children with success, parents can look at these families.
Children from these families may grow up to be well-established and parents can read it
Education is the foundation of people, a child with excellent academic performance, very polite to others, lively and cheerful, etc., almost most of the elders will praise, a large reason is inseparable from the parents, so the basis of education is the family, excellent family style, the harmonious coexistence of parents, often cultivate more filial piety of excellent children.
Parents should believe that knowledge can change their destiny, develop the habit of students loving learning, attach importance to their education in all aspects, and cooperate with the school's educational philosophy and behavior, which can also achieve the desired effect.
Secondly, optimistic and positive families may also educate children with outstanding performance, mentality is the core of a person, and the quality of a person's mentality can affect the emotions of those around them.
Parents' mentality is not good, children are more sensitive, can be felt at the first time, they will subconsciously become cautious. But active families, they are relatively lively, the nature of learning will also be high.
The third parent continues to learn, improve their own at the same time, but also subtly affect the child's enthusiasm, enhance their interest in other aspects of learning, as long as they are interested in learning, and serious learning, over time, the child's performance will naturally improve.
Next is the emotional stability of the family, most of the children have basically provoked the parents to be angry, and even been "mixed doubles" or "yelled" has been, they think that this can discipline the child's bad habits, in fact, the parents are angry, it will cause psychological shadows to the child.
The last is respect, the word respect is not only for the elders, but also for the children, put the children in the same position as themselves, respect their ideas, the children will naturally learn to respect others.
In terms of education, parents should not put all the burden on the school and teachers, and the education of the family cannot be ignored, so that they can develop a good character and correct concepts in the future.
Ways to make children excellent, parents can pay attention to these points
When a person has a watch, he can accurately say the time, but when he has 2 or more watches at the same time, the time of each block is different, it is difficult to accurately judge the correct time, which is called the clock effect.
It means that in a family education, there should be only one set of education models, there are more ways of education, parents do not have the same opinion, there will be contradictions in educating children, they can even look at people to do things, so if you want to educate excellent children, unified views are very necessary.
The second is to help them set small goals, put some small requirements on students, when they complete, the next time they appropriately raise the requirements, they will make progress again and again, and the affirmation and encouragement of parents will greatly increase their confidence, so that they will be interested in learning.
Secondly, we should reduce some negative words and change a tone that can communicate better and make them more acceptable, so as to help children improve, in fact, there is a famous experiment that explains this meaning very well. Put some people together and ask them to think of anything, but not like a white bear.
It is conceivable that after the end of the experiment, almost all people have the image of "white bears" in their minds, saying that it is impossible to think, but sometimes people's brains are like this, the more you do not allow anything, the more she will think in that regard, which is called the "white bear effect", which is the same in the stage of educating children.
Most students will basically have a rebellious psychology, the more you emphasize, tough, the easier they are to resist, rebel against you, but you try to transpose the "don't lie down to read, not good for the eyes" with "sitting and reading, good for the eyes", this positive statement, they should be able to easily accept some so that they can develop the right study habits.
I would like to say
Family education has always been the top priority in the entire education system, a good family atmosphere, positive attitude, parental harmony, etc. can subtly affect the child's life. Find their shining point, accept their shortcomings, and you will find that the child's growth is getting better and better.
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