Introduction: In the minds of most girls, perhaps the greatest ideal is not what a career success or success, but at their best age, meet their crush.....
I have to admit that whether a boy chooses a wife or a girl chooses a husband, it is a very test of IQ and emotional intelligence.
Choose the right person, he will pull you back from the abyss to the earth; choose the wrong person, even if you are in heaven, you will be dragged back to hell by him!
When a girl chooses a boy, she must not choose based on his identity, status, and economic income, which are some very superficial criteria.
First, see if he has a sense of responsibility
A person with a sense of responsibility is trustworthy, and a person without a sense of responsibility, the more successful he is, the easier it is to throw away his other half easily.
A boy with a sense of responsibility is like giving you a reassuring pill, no matter how many ups and downs there are in the years to come, you will firmly believe that the sunshine is after the wind and rain.
This kind of boy will give you a belief, a firm belief that will be whiteheaded to old.....
Second, look at his big heart
Whether a man has a broad mind or not determines his worldview and values, and also determines whether he has an inclusive heart.
To give a very simple example, when you marry this man, what good qualities do you hope your children will inherit from him in the future?
I think that in a hundred years, the wealth we leave to our children is not a house or a car, but a broad mind and a heart that does not care about gains and losses.
Third, look at his vision for a long time
Sometimes the boy's poverty is only temporary, don't deceive the teenager to be poor!
Don't look at the current boy is poor, other boys send girlfriends are 99, 999 roses, and he only gave you one, so you feel wronged.
But as long as he is a long-term person, and you accompany him through this hard life, he will surely repay you twice in the future.
So, thirty years of Hedong, thirty years of Hexi, don't bully the poor!
Girls must also know how to "invest", and the icing on the cake will never be better than sending charcoal in the snow.
epilogue:
People's life is too long, so when choosing their lifelong partner, you must polish your eyes, and you must not make a hasty and easy decision.
Finally, I hope that all the cute little fairies can find their own wishful thinking and walk happily in this world together!