It is said that having a child is the most likely to aggravate the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, when the nurse pushes the mother and the child out together, it is the mother-in-law who looks at the child in a joyful way, and only the mother-in-law will be distressed that the daughter will shed tears, which seems so out of place in a group of people.
The focus of family attention is different, but also the common sentiment of people, there is nothing to blame, but some pregnant women will be grumpy because of this, thinking that their mothers hurt themselves, and their mothers-in-law are not mothers.
On December 22, according to netizens, the day after the caesarean section of a pregnant woman in Tongren, Guizhou, her relatives brought together pots and pans, and in the ward, they stirred up the hot pot and counted their mothers to eat the most. People can't help but laugh: don't say that the mother-in-law is not a mother.
It turned out that the mother had just undergone a caesarean section, had a urinary tube, and had no exhaust, so she could not eat, so she could only drink water and eat a little light liquid food.
Just added a baby, the family is very happy, the mother's parents, husband, brother and sister-in-law have come to visit.
Naturally, they could not come to visit empty-handed, but they did not prepare red envelopes and gifts, but brought pots and pans, lamb, vegetables, hot pot spices, dipping sauces, and all the things needed to eat hot pot were brought.
The mother was wondering what they were going to do, and after the family saw the child, they got busy and even made a hot pot, and told the mother that it was sour soup beef hot pot.
How big the smell of the hot pot is, the hospital room is instantly overflowing with fragrance, kissing father, mother, husband, sister-in-law, in front of the mother-in-law began to eat.
The sister-in-law saw the mother swallowing the saliva and lovingly took the meat from her bowl to smell, not worried at all that she would erupt at any time.
The mother was indeed angry, but she couldn't bear it, she couldn't get angry, in that group, the one who took the lead in eating the most was her own mother, what could she do?
This is the second day after the operation, the effect of the anesthetic has passed, when the knife edge is in pain, there can be no major emotional ups and downs, otherwise the wound will be more painful. So the mother put up with her temper and said nothing.
Although he didn't speak, he had already written down the "Yuezi Vendetta" and carefully looked at their expressions one by one, so that they would be proud first, and they would all return it in the future.
It can be seen that the family usually loves to joke, will feel that the opportunity is rare, at this time do not tease the mother is not a waste of opportunity?
So she knew that the mother could not eat, and she had to eat hot pot in front of her, so that she could only stare at them, and she could not get out of the hospital bed to beat them.
Some netizens commented that this family is talented, and this look is undoubtedly biological.
Some netizens also said that if it is replaced by in-laws, it is another story.
Probably because it is the mother's family, it will not misunderstand other meanings, nor will it remember revenge, so it will be so unscrupulous.
Whether it is a joke or not, the family's approach is a bit inappropriate. Because the caesarean section needs to recover for a week, the knife edge can be less painful, and before that, a cough, a laugh, a big tantrum, etc., will cause pain in the wound.
If the family wants to accompany the mother more and does not want to waste time going out to eat, you can order food in the hospital, or bring some food that does not taste heavy, do not deliberately make the mother hungry.
In fact, no matter whether the in-laws or the mother-in-law's family, as long as they treat each other sincerely, they are all close to each other. Sincerity is exchanged for sincerity, and no one's heart is not hot.