The ancients have a good saying: near Zhu is red and close to ink is black, that is to say, when things are close to cinnabar, they will turn black, in fact, people are the same, what kind of people around you will become what kind of people you will become after a long time, this is the impact of the objective environment on a person, and it should not be underestimated. In fact, a person's real happiness is that there is no unnecessary worry, and the most tiring thing is to work hard and work hard, every day is so hard, it is a happy thing to be able to relax, so people who have a fixed heart know that many things are a disaster.
How can we avoid these evils and then usher in happiness? In fact, this point has long been said by the ancestors, that is, try not to go to these two places, you will be blessed with more misfortunes, if you often go to these two places, it is easy to cause trouble to yourself.
The first: the land of contention. The ancients had a saying: Do not do what is long-term profit, and do not go to the land of contention. That is to say, as long as it is a place where benefits can be easily obtained, you don't go, everyone is grabbing this interest, you don't go, first of all, the competition is too fierce, so the profit is naturally less, if it is not good, it may also cause trouble for himself, for example, after Liu Bang opened up the Han Dynasty, he had a total of three famous wives: Lü Hou, Lady Qi, Bo Ji, at that time Zhao Guo was a good place, distributed to Lady Qi's son, and even wanted to make King Zhao the prince, after Liu Bang's death, Lü Hou began to deal with Lady Qi and her son.
Later, when Zhao Guo was empty, he was fought over by many people in the Lü family, but they did not end well, Bo Ji's son Dai Wang has been in a desolate Dai Guo, no one cares, when Lü Hou proposed to let him go to Zhao Guo, his mother stopped him, saying that it is a place that everyone wants to go to, once you go, it may involve the interests of many people, and it is harmless to yourself, have you forgotten the lessons of King Zhao? So the daiwang broke off this idea, and finally Lü Hou died, and he became emperor.
So everyone thinks that the place is good, they all think that they can get a lot of benefits, but the huge crisis hidden in it is also real, but it is ignored by many people, why the ancients said that the time and place are favorable, and put the time of day in the first place, is to let you seize the opportunity to shoot, when everyone goes to seize, this place is not worth much, and it will cause trouble.
The second: the land of right and wrong. This place is also very terrible, that is, there are arguments, places with more troubles, if you want to stay away from this place, you should first stay away from people and things that are right and wrong, and there are also teachings in the "Disciple Rules", let us stay away from those occasions where there are fights, and there are improper occasions, or we are asking for trouble, just like there is a group of people fighting, you should not be the onlooker, otherwise it will hurt you, or splash dirty water on you, and it is too late to hide.
So make friends is also to be careful, staggered, may be a lifetime will be wrong, the impact is also very large, do not listen to the old man, suffer losses in front of you, in order not to let yourself suffer losses in the future, for the old ancestors of the bitter mouth, we still have to keep in mind, these two places try not to go.
Do you agree with this statement?