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The old saying goes: Thirty and standing, forty without confusion, fifty knowing the Destiny.
When we are a few years old, we want to eat candy; when we are teenagers, we want to like toys; in our twenties, we long for a beautiful love; in our thirties, we want to have a successful career; in our forties, we expect family harmony and a happy life.
When people reach fifty, they have entered the year of "knowing the destiny of heaven", and their lives have basically been stable, and even if they want to change, the changes will not be great.
At the age of fifty, our lives have experienced bittersweet and bittersweet, and we have seen through the human feelings on the rivers and lakes. After half a busy life, we should actively enjoy life and live a more fulfilling and free life. Obey the destiny of heaven and do my personnel.
Fame and fortune are no longer the pursuit of people in middle age, and a smooth life is the greatest happiness.
There are clouds in the valley of the ghost: the land of many strife, the land of long profits, the land of no man, is the great harm of life.
Fate is in his own hands, and if you want to live a full life for the rest of your life, these three "dangerous places" should try not to go, and it is easy to attract disasters.
A land of contention
Zeng Guofan once said: Do not go to the land of contention.
A profitable thing that everyone scrambles to grab, which is obviously a benefit that everyone can see. Among them, there may be some drawbacks or traps, even if they really produce benefits, but they are just small profits, not enough for you to waste time and energy.
Once on a section of high-speed, some people sell box lunches are very profitable, everyone rushed up, the second, the third, all kinds of restaurants opened up, all sold box lunches, as a result, the diners of each store are not saturated, and finally the merchants have lost money. However, a businessman did not follow the trend, and opened convenience stores, gas stations, and charging piles on the highway, earning a lot of money.
There is also a great demand for masks at the beginning of the year, and many people have begun to prepare to buy mask machines and make masks. As we all know, the mask machine at that time was a printing machine in the eyes of everyone. When the mask machine is expensive, the ordinary one is as much as 200,000, and after the mask is made, the market is saturated. Mask manufacturers have no choice but to sell the machine at a low price, and a few thousand yuan is sold at a low price.
Therefore, the business opportunities that everyone can see must not blindly follow, otherwise, it is yourself who suffers losses.
Buffett's motto is: Everyone is afraid of my greed, and everyone is greedy and I am afraid. The day when people are in the clouds and never emerge, and it is the truth to do the opposite.
In 207 AD, the 46-year-old Liu Bei was displaced and homeless in the chaotic world.
Later, Liu Beisan asked Zhuge Liang to come out of the mountain and asked: Sir, if there is a dispute today and the masses are divided, how should I gain a foothold?
Kong Ming replied: The Central Plains are prosperous and rich, and the two most powerful families, Cao Cao and Sun Quan, are in contention, and we should avoid their sharp edges and seek to gain a foothold in small places with small competition, such as Jingzhou and Yizhou, and after the strength grows, it is not too late to compete with them.
After hearing Zhuge Liang's words, Liu Bei deeply agreed, and developed in Shudi in a down-to-earth manner, and only later formed a three-legged momentum.
The Land of Gyuli
The middle of the day moves, the full moon loses, and the prosperity of things declines.
This is an objective law that is universal to all things, and there is no one thing in the world that will be done once and for all, and there can be no thing that will profit forever.
The world is bustling, all for profit; the world is bustling, all are for profit.
Fame and fortune is the yearning of many people's lives, but in fact, the pursuit of fame and fortune is also a kind of greed, excessive pursuit of but loss of their own nature, life needs some thinness. A "greedy" word can meet people's psychological needs, but it will make people lose themselves, and even more ruined.
During the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, the State of Qin implemented a strategy of long-distance and close-range attacks, first attacking Korea and separating the Shangdang County of Korea from the mainland.
King Huanhui of Han was very afraid and wanted to cede Shangdang County to the State of Qin to make peace, Shangdang County Shou Feng Ting did not want to surrender Qin, the old owner King Han did not dare to ask him, Feng Ting directly dedicated the seventeen cities of Shangdang County to the Zhao State.
King Zhao Xiaocheng did not spend a single soldier, got seventeen cities for free, happily closed his mouth, in the future such a good thing although looking for me, how much to ask, those who come do not refuse.
Some people rejoiced and some people were sad, and the King of Qin was furious: Who moved my cheese? The God of War replied in vain: Zhao Guo snatched the Shangdang County that we had arrived at.
King Zhao Xiaocheng, because of his coveting of seventeen cities in Korea, eventually set himself on fire. The King of Qin sent the general Bai Qi to lead a large army to suppress the territory, and the two sides fought, which was the famous "Battle of Changping" in history, in which the Zhao state was defeated and the main force was lost. From then on, it was devastated until it perished.
King Xiaocheng of Zhao buried 450,000 elite soldiers of the State of Zhao because of a "greedy" word.
No Man's Land
No Man's Land means a place where no one lives. Today, it can also be likened to a business opportunity that no one looks at, or an industry that no one is involved in, or a challenge that no one has done.
As the saying goes, three stinky cobblers can top one Zhuge Liang, and others are not optimistic, which is basically a matter of certainty, so you must not be the first person to eat crabs.
Some people say: When Ma Yun first did the Internet, everyone was not optimistic, but he succeeded.
What I need to explain is that, first, Ma Yun was doing the Internet at that time, others may not be optimistic, but his team is very supportive of him, and the Internet abroad is already very developed at that time, which is precedent-
I admit that of all the first people to eat crabs, there must be success, but we have to consider the problem of probability, such a very small minority, perhaps one in ten thousand, more difficult than the pie in the sky.
When people reach middle age, there should be no fluke mentality in their hearts, think of danger in times of peace, judge the stakes, and have small and cheap and eat big losses.
Everyone knows the Guinness World Record, and in order to constantly break the record, a man abroad challenged something that no one had ever done before, that is, to challenge the longest time that a person can be buried alive in the ground.
During the challenge, his estimated time was 12 hours, and when the challenge reached seven and a half hours, the crowd found that he was silent, and the accompanying people were not at ease, so they dug him out, and the whole person did not even have a breath left.
As the saying goes: the gun shoots the head bird. Whether in life or career, people who are exposed are the most likely to attract disasters.
After middle age, we should be a wise and knowledgeable person. We must pay attention to these three dangerous places, and we must not argue with the world, with profit, and without dispute with nothing.
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