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As the saying goes: "Virtual and virtual are real, virtual and real are combined, avoiding the real is virtual, and using the virtual to be realistic." ”
Everything has multiple faces, and starting from different angles will have different effects.
People in the world pursue the truth, and they don't know that there are many real things, and there are "false" things covered up. Let's say a wolf in sheep's clothing, the wolf is real, the sheepskin is a false coat.
Lao Tzu said, "The damage is not enough to be more than enough." ”
Use the excess to make up for the lack of places, so that it can be long-lasting. Blindly confronting others will not only be of no benefit to oneself, but will suffer heavy losses.
A truly powerful person is not bullying others with his teeth and claws, not showing his strongest points, but on the contrary, disguising himself as a weak person, and then taking advantage of his unpreparedness to defeat others and succeed.
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Shift the target and hit the west with sound.
During the Warring States period, the State of Wei attacked the State of Zhao and drove straight into the capital city of Handan.
The State of Zhao sent emissaries to the State of Qi for help. At that time, the State of Qi was preparing to deploy the non-commissioned officers to the city of Handan and fight the Zhao army to the death. However, Sun Zhen believed that it was not okay to be tough, and it was better to send troops to the Zhao Kingdom and attack the rear, so that it could not take care of each other.
This is the famous "encircling Wei and saving Zhao" strategy.
Later, many wars adopted such tactics. The two armies confronted each other, using the method of cutting off the supply of grain and grass and attacking weak cities to force each other to submit.
In real life, if we encounter a strong opponent, we can pretend to be entangled in the front, and then look for the rear of the opponent, where the weakness is, and then control it.
Let's say you negotiate with a client and the other person's attitude is unclear or even has the idea of giving up. You send someone to communicate with the customer's boss secretly, and if the boss can agree to cooperate, then things will be completed.
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Create chaos and paralyze opponents.
In life, people often take advantage of chaotic situations to get what they want.
Ordinary people only know how to use the chaotic situation, and the powerful people know how to create a chaotic situation and let all the "chaos" develop according to their own ideas. "Chaos" is also a matter of the palm of the hand.
During the Warring States period, zhao guo had a young general who was not very famous, named Zhao Hao.
Once, the Qin army attacked the State of Zhao and arrived at Yuyu. General Lian Po believed that this place was narrow and difficult to rescue; General Le Cheng and Lian Po had similar ideas.
Zhao Hao said: "Because the place is narrow, so the two armies are facing each other, just like the rats in the cave fight, whoever is braver, who can win." ”
In order to confuse the Qin army, Zhao Hao and his sergeants wandered outside Handan City for a long time, and reinforced the fortifications in the same place, looking very afraid of the Qin army.
Just when the Qin army relaxed its vigilance, the non-commissioned officers marched in a hurry and occupied the surrounding highlands, and although the Qin army was strong, it could not rush over and could only retreat.
In the Art of War of Sun Tzu, it is said: "Quiet is like a virgin, moving is like a rabbit." ”
Combine various actions, let the other side do not know the truth and falsehood, and then take advantage of its unprepared attack, it is easy to win.
In a peaceful society, you have to win in a certain area, and you also have to use some measures to paralyze the opponent and make the other party let down your guard, so that you can grow faster.
Let's say you find a place suitable for opening a breakfast restaurant, and when you are renovating the storefront, you can tell the surrounding shops that you just want to open a supermarket. In doing so, avoid the surrounding stores from following the trend and creating strong competition.
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Pretend to please and wait for the right moment.
I have seen a story: a fierce wolf saw a flock of sheep. Just as it was about to attack, it spotted that there were sheepdogs in the flock.
The wolf surrounded the sheep, looked at it, and then smiled and said, "As long as you drive away the dogs, I will give up the habit of eating sheep, and our well water will not violate the river water, and we will be at peace with each other." ”
At first, the sheep did not believe the words of the wolf. But there are some sheep, with soft ears, who think that wolves are very sincere and, for long-term reasons, should believe the wolf's words.
Coming and going, the flock split into two factions, arguing with each other. The shepherd was sad and slowly left the sheep.
It was very obvious that the sheep had been deceived.
In the "Augmentation of The Sages", it is written: "Human feelings are as thin as paper, and people's hearts are as fierce as wolves." ”
Many people think that a person who is as cruel as a wolf is a person who cannot be associated with, and a hateful person. As everyone knows, such a person also has many places worth learning.
The law of the jungle tells us that everywhere, there is a predatory behavior, if you do not create opportunities, continue to move forward, you will be eliminated.
Confusing your opponent with some fake actions and hypocritical words is like putting down the bait when fishing, making your ideal easier to succeed. Especially when dealing with villains, such a routine is necessary to learn.
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Seek perfection and wait for the opportunity to transform.
There is a saying that goes: "The path you choose, you have to walk on your knees." ”
Life can't be done as expected, and there are always times when you need to walk on your knees. Just like the Yue King, although he was the king of a country, he became a slave of the State of Wu and was called by others.
There is a law of success called the Golden Cicada Law.
The larvae of a cicada, which had to live in the dark and damp soil for several years and accumulated a certain amount of strength, quietly crawled out of the ground and metamorphosed into a cicada.
As a person, if he can survive the darkest hours, then he can usher in the morning sun, the warm wind of spring. "Wronging yourself" is actually a state of suffering, and it is not shameful.
In life, in order to do a good job, we often have to be in front of our opponents, soft and hard, accompanied by smiling faces, and saying hypocritical words. He pleased others and fulfilled himself.
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Zhuangzi wrote in The Getaway: "There is a fish in the north, and its name is Kun. The size of the carp is unknown to thousands of miles. Transformed into a bird, its name is Peng. Peng's back, not knowing its thousands of miles, flew in anger, and its wings were like clouds hanging in the sky. ”
Everyone wants to be Kunpeng and wants to be able to soar. However, we must be more soberly aware that the "Kunpeng" is an animal imagined by Zhuangzi and an ideal state. Zhuangzi just adopted the method of "realistic fiction" to stimulate people's fighting spirit.
If you want to become a powerful person, you should have lofty ideals in your heart, have reliable measures in reality, and take every step under your feet.
With Kunpeng in your heart and a road under your feet, no matter how much difficulty you encounter, you can persevere, you are very remarkable.
Of course, all "fakes" are for the purpose of achieving "real things", not to hurt others, let alone to make themselves villains. The original meaning of "false" is to grasp the balance of "virtual reality".
The super capitalist Rockefeller said: "People who are smart are fools, and people who know how to pretend to be stupid are really smart." ”
Learn to pretend to yourself, you look stupid, but you can always win.
Author: Cloth coarse food.
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The illustrations in this article come from the Internet.