In addition to eating a mouthful of melons in recent materials, I did not expect that I also learned a new knowledge of psychology - "NPD narcissistic personality"
There may be people who do not know what the personality type is, so we must first popularize the MBTI16 personality test with you. Many people will write personality in the self-introduction of social software, and the Douban group also has different personality groups, which is convenient for finding people of the same kind or soul.
Among these 16 types of personalities, the INFP personality is a personality that is easily chosen by scumbags.
This personality is considered a "healer" and "mediator" in the population. Their empathy and understanding ability is very strong, sensitive and delicate, can perceive the small emotions of the people around them, very perfect, but also very inferior.
"INFP cares a lot about whether others like themselves", "It's easy to get hurt in relationships", "Very tolerant of other people's opinions"...
Isn't this the counterpart of narcissistic personality (NPD)?!
Although INFPs clearly know where their bottom line is and will be very cautious about relationships, once they encounter an NPD, they will still be selected like a deep quagmire, especially when the emotional experience is still very small.
Also easily chosen by scumbags are THEFJs, who are considered "caregivers" and "guardians."
ISFJs are also empathetic, very good at taking care of other people's feelings, very tolerant, but more helpful and dedicated than INFP (more dangerous). This personality is also the most pessimistic of all, and the girl ISFJ is also considered the best "human wife" choice.
Thinking about it this way, ISFJs are indeed much more dangerous than INFPs and easier to exploit.
Because once brainwashed by narcissistic personalities, is the ISFJ's kindness and willingness to dedicate itself to it.
Having said all this, it can only be said that the above two personalities are more likely to be trapped in the scumbag's trap, and other personalities are not risk-free, so it is more important to identify and prevent "narcissistic personality"! Don't let your guard down just because you're not an INFP or ISFJ!