The man returned to his room to rest after work at night, and suddenly someone entered his room in the middle of the night and hit him directly. The man turned on the light and saw that this man was actually his stepson who had been raised for seven years.
When Liu Lili was young, she found a storefront in college and became a tailor. Because of his good craftsmanship, he was often too busy to come. Fortunately, there was a male student in the university who always came to help after class, and after a long time, the two became familiar with each other.
At this time, Liu Lili learned that this male student's name was Zeng Qi, and he was a medical student. After that, Zeng Qi began to pursue Liu Lili.
Because the two were not equal in identity, Liu Lili refused. But Zeng Qi did not give up and impressed Liu Lili with his own sincerity.
In this way, the two were together and met both parents. Originally, I planned to wait for Zeng Qi to get married after graduation. However, Zeng Qi's internship place was not local, and Zeng Qi promised Liu Lili that he would come back and marry her when he was stable.
Liu Lili got the promise of Zeng Qi and Zeng Qi's parents, so she closed the tailor shop and returned to her hometown. It was also at this time that she found out that she was pregnant, but Zeng Qi changed her mind.
He got along with a nurse, learned that Liu Lili was pregnant, he proposed to break up, and gave Liu Lili 3,000 yuan to beat up the child.
Liu Lili was very sad, but the man had changed his heart, and she could only admit her fate. At first she agreed to beat the child, but when she thought that it was a small life, she was reluctant to fight.
Thinking that I can also make money, I can give birth to children. In this way, she gave birth to the child alone and raised it alone.
When the child was eight years old, Liu Lili married her current husband Lu Lin under the introduction of others. Lu Lin treated his stepson as if he were his own son, and in order to take care of his stepson, the two did not have any more children.
In this way, the child grew to 15 years old. After Zeng Qi learned that Liu Lili's child was his own child, he came over and said that he wanted to recognize his son.
Liu Lili thought that if the child recognized his biological father, he could also have two fatherly loves, and agreed.
Just because the child's academic performance is not good, Zeng Qi's sister is a teacher, Liu Lili thought of putting the child in Zeng Qi's sister to live together, thinking that she could let the child improve her grades.
The son left Liu Lili to live in the Zeng family for a year and then came back, after which his temperament changed greatly. The original lively and cheerful person became silent and taciturn, and also disliked Lu Lin, believing that he was not as good as his biological father.
Even as long as Lu Lin was at home, he would drive Lu Lin out and not let Lu Lin stay at home.
Lu Lin had to be at home when his stepson was not at home, and if he was at home, he would also be sneaky, so as not to let the stepson find out that he had returned home.
Once, he returned to his room after work, opened the door to see that his stepson was actually in the room, and when he saw Lu Lin return, he directly hit Lu Lin.
Sometimes when I got up in the middle of the night, I would go to Lu Lin's room to find him and fight him directly.
Liu Lili saw that her son was very anxious and said many times that her son was disobedient. She found Zeng Qi and asked him what to do?
Zeng Qi said that his son only reached puberty, which is a very normal performance. Liu Lili did not believe it, she thought that her son was mentally ill, otherwise how could he lose his temper for no reason. So she took it and asked the doctor to prescribe the medicine.
However, my son's condition became more and more serious, and he never got better. Liu Lili believes that this is all Zeng Qi's fault, if he does not want to recognize his son, then his son will not be sick.
But Zeng Qi did not admit that it was his own problem, and since the two sides had their own families, he was reluctant to meet Liu Lili. In the face of Liu Lili asking him to ask for his son's treatment fees, he did not want to come out.
After ten years like this, watching his son never get better, he was still the same as his stepfather, and he did not recognize his efforts.
In desperation, Liu Lili once again wanted to find Zeng Qi and asked him to see her own son.
Zeng Qi refused, and he did not want to see Liu Lili.
Zeng Qi is a bit of a scumbag, obviously said that he would marry Liu Lili, but he changed his heart halfway. But the two at least broke up, and he also gave compensation.
On the contrary, Liu Lili, according to normal thinking, this child should not be the best. However, considering that she herself has reproductive rights, since she chooses to give birth to a child, it is nothing that she has the ability to raise herself.
It's just that since she married someone when the child was eight years old, the child should have understood things at this time. For their own life problems, either make it clear to the child, or don't contact Zeng Qi again.
Instead of telling him the child's origins, he also delusionally thought that the child had double paternal love, and even sent the child to Zeng Qi's sister.
Although nominally the aunt of the child, if she married, his child's name was changed.
If you are worried about your child's grades, you can ask a tutor. In addition, at the middle school stage, children's grades are good or bad, and mental health should be more concerned by parents.
Therefore, the problem of children really cannot be blamed on Zeng Qi. Perhaps it is when leaving Liu Lili to live in the Zeng family, coupled with adolescent sensitivity, which makes it easy for people around him to say some specious things to him. Liu Lili did not visit for another year, and only then did the child drill the tip of the bull's horn and misunderstand that it was the stepfather's fault to separate the biological parents.
From this side, it can also be found that Liu Lili does not care enough about the child, or treats the child as a doll that is easy to break, and does not let the child experience setbacks, so it is impossible to bear to encounter a little thing.
According to the law, her marriage to Lu Lin means that Lu Lin is the father of the child. No matter from which five aspects, this is a perfect family of three, no longer have to think of children with more fatherly love.
This has caused serious consequences for Lu Lin and the child, for Liu Lili, Lu Lin regards the stepson as his own child, then she should also recognize this man in her heart, he is not only her husband, but also the father of the child.
Judging from this incident, it is still recommended that girls get pregnant after the breakup and do not choose to give birth. Unless you decide to bear all the consequences and responses after waiting for a while.
Although it is a life, it can stop the loss in time before it is formed. It's easy to be born, it's not easy to nurture.
Secondly, don't treat the child as a porcelain doll, the child is smart, as long as you give enough love and security, tell him the truth is nothing, but can make the grateful person who raised himself.
Finally, instead of remarrying after divorce, the child does not know the biological parents, do not let him recognize it.
Some people recognize the child, purely just want to recognize it, but it does not mean that the other party is willing to give love to the child.
Fish and bear paws cannot be combined, and living in the moment and grasping what they have is the most correct way to do it.