Kitano Takedai Jinhua: Without looking at the dark side of the movie, your child will live in the light?
Dai Jinhua, a professor at Peking University, answered many parents' concerns that "children see social darkness because of movies", and there was no japanese director Takeshi Kitano's rhetorical question.
Professor Dai can also ask parents: If there is no frustration, despair, disillusionment, death, betrayal, death and sacrifice in the movie, your children will not suffer the above pain in their later lives?
Just like Kitano Takeshi's words: There are obviously so many beautiful and tearful movies in this world, but the world has not become peaceful at all, has it?
When my son was in kindergarten, there was a girl in the same class, whose parents were foreigners, who rented a house in a village in the city and spent a lot of money to send her daughter to this private kindergarten.
The female classmate's father said to me: I don't want my daughter to go to the kindergarten in the village, nor do I want her to play with the children in the village, they are too rude.
I understand the father's status gap as a foreigner or a rural person, and he hopes that his daughter can jump out of this class and do her best to give her contact with what he thinks is more civilized and better classmates.
But if I were to change to me, I would not block my child from playing with children from different families, let my child contact partners from different environments from an early age, and enrich his life experience by observing and understanding the differences and diversity of different groups around him.
Don't worry about the child will get into bad habits, he can only fully appreciate what is "good" and right after experiencing the contrast between good and bad.
Like U.S. Justice John Roberts' speech at his son's graduation ceremony, "I wish you misfortune and pain."
Chinese parents want to protect their children and want to give their children an ideal, harmless society. But this father in the United States hopes that his children will soon encounter betrayal, injustice, loneliness... Because whether we like it or not, it will all happen in real life in the future.
The core of film history is the "painful history" of human beings, as long as there are still problems that plague human beings, movies will not stand idly by. In other words, the essence of cinema is life.
To properly appreciate the message conveyed by the suffering of others in the movie or the suffering you have experienced, how do you understand and look at these sufferings and troubles is the key to your future life.