Once, when Jackie Chan held a fan meeting of thousands of people in Japan, a woman slapped him while he was not paying attention. Fortunately, Jackie Chan reacted quickly, grabbed the woman and said, "Why are you again?" You have been beating me for 3 years in a row, who made you come? As a result, the woman said a word, which surprised Jackie Chan.
When it comes to Jackie Chan, everyone knows that he is not only a famous movie star in China, but also very popular throughout Asia.
Jackie Chan's popularity began in 1987 with "Drunken Fist", a movie that made Jackie Chan famous overnight, not only won a high box office in Hong Kong that year, but even made Jackie Chan popular in Japan. Because the Japanese film market was large at that time, Jackie Chan often went there to hold fan meetings to promote his movies.
And the Japanese public's worship of Jackie Chan is also unmatched by other actors, and he has been rated as the "most popular foreign artist" by Japan for six consecutive years. Every time Jackie Chan goes to Japan to attend an event, it is an unprecedented event. Even director Takeshi Kitano said: "Jackie Chan can't get married or fall in love, otherwise Japanese fans will bleed into rivers." ”
Once, Jackie Chan held a fan meeting in Tokyo to promote his upcoming movie. When Jackie Chan interacted with fans, suddenly a Miaoling woman stretched out her right hand, and Jackie Chan just wanted to shake her hand, but the woman slapped Jackie Chan's left cheek, and Jackie Chan was slapped on the spot.
Seeing this, the security guard immediately intervened to subdue the woman. But Jackie Chan saw that she was just a weak woman and did not have the same knowledge as her, so he released her.
The next year, when Jackie Chan went to Japan again to promote the movie, the woman came again. She repeated her old tricks and slapped Jackie Chan again, but this time the woman became smarter, and did not give the security guard time to react, and ran without a trace.
Jackie Chan was very angry, went to the background to call up the monitoring, and then asked the assistant to print out the woman's photo, so that the security guards would remember the woman and directly not allow her to come in next time.
In the third year, Jackie Chan entered Hollywood with "Red Fan District" and made himself famous around the world, and he was ready to hold a fan meeting of 4,000 people in Japan. And this time, the woman used superb makeup skills and actually mixed into the venue again.
As a result, after she hit Jackie Chan this time, she was suddenly grabbed by Jackie Chan's wrist, and Jackie Chan questioned her: "It's been three consecutive years, where did I offend you, why did I hit me?" The woman's wrist was pinched by Jackie Chan painfully, and she could only confess: "Actually, I am your fan, I have no malice in doing this, I just want to attract your attention." ”
Jackie Chan was stunned after listening to her explanation, he had seen gift-giver, roadblockers, and stalkers, but fans who slapped idols were really unheard of.
It is because of the existence of such extreme fans that even if Jackie Chan is married, he does not dare to announce the marriage news.
Later, until Wu Qili became pregnant, Jackie Chan did not make the marriage public, hoping that Wu Qili would quit in spite of the difficulties. But Wu Qili still gave birth to the child regardless of it, and this incident has become the biggest stain on Jackie Chan. Shortly after the incident was exposed, Jackie Chan apologized for his cheating behavior: "I made the mistake that men all over the world make. ”
One stone stirred up a thousand waves, and the male compatriots denied it one after another, believing that Jackie Chan could not represent all men, and his statement was a distortion of the facts. Actual statistics show that the probability of cheating between men and women in marriage is basically the same. But the two cheating methods are very different, men are more likely to cheat physically, and women are more likely to cheat mentally.
Japanese love literature master Junichi Watanabe pointed out in the book "This Thing for Men" that men are more likely to cheat around the age of 30 and 50, because males have the instinct of liking the new and disgusting the old, which makes their enjoyment of the sense of conquest very short-lived, so their extramarital affairs cannot last long and do little harm to the marriage. Women are different, they are more faithful to marriage, but once they change their hearts, their will to divorce is firmer.
In "The Woman This Thing", Watanabe Junichi said: Women are more likely to cheat at the age of 40, because they are fully mature at the age of 40, but the husband's physical function has begun to decline, so it is impossible to meet the needs of the wife, and the wife cannot feel the love of her husband, so it is easy to have the idea of divorce.
In today's society, family relationships are becoming more and more difficult to deal with, and the difference in thinking between men and women is increasing, so it is more and more important to learn some knowledge about the relationship between men and women.
Junichi Watanabe is a writer with many years of experience as a doctor, which makes him more rational than other writers when describing the love psychology of the two Xing. And rich love experience also provides a lot of material for his creation.
"Man This Thing" and "Woman This Thing" are Watanabe Junichi's best-selling "Two Xing Relationship Readers", these two books have unique insights into the relationship between men, women, couples, and couples, especially suitable for people who do not know enough about "two xing relationships" and are curious to read and study.
If you want to get to know men and women in all their aspects, be sure to check out these two books, which will open the door to a new world for you.
The Woman This Thing Written about Gender Relations from the Perspective of Male and Female Sexual Psychology [Leader Bookhouse]
