Everyone is equal before the law, don't misunderstand the meaning of this sentence
Every child is excellent and every child has endless possibilities.
Today's adults like to say this kind of crazy nonsense.
How can children be excellent?
To put it cruelly, a stupid child is a stupid child. Children who can't run fast are not fast, you are such as baseball, no matter how much you like it, no matter how hard you practice, a child who can't play well is not a good player.
This kind of thing is obviously known to everyone, but some adults, saying "as long as you are serious, as long as you work hard, you will definitely be able to get ahead", they don't even blink their eyes when they say this kind of nonsense.
But the reality is not like this, it can only be said that talented people have put in more effort than ordinary people, and this has finally become a human being. Is it true that if you train like Ichiro, you can play like Ichiro (Ichiro Suzuki (1973-): A famous Japanese baseball player)?
Post-war democracy or something, saying that all people are equal. And this equality, in the final analysis, is only equality under the legal framework, whether you are rich or poor, you are bound by the same laws, you have the most basic human rights, nothing more. To be honest, even this equality is not so reliable, at best it is a high-sounding rhetoric.
However, many people misunderstand and think that everyone is really equal.
Even if everyone is equal before the law, it does not mean that everyone is equal.
People's appearance, height and weight, and the color of goods in their brains are all the same as each person.
Look at this society, from old couples barely feeding by weeds on the side of the road, to rich people who take their own helicopters just to go to a foreign country for a meal.
Even if you think about it, people can't be equal. However, I don't know what the truth is, people like to say things like "people are equal" and "as long as you work hard, you will have results".
It's much crueler than saying "you're an idiot" to a child.
I don't know how many people are in a class in elementary school today, but even if it's a group of twenty to thirty children, each child's ability is very different. However, I heard that at the recent elementary school games, many schools have cancelled the ranking of running competitions for children.
Through a relay race in which the whole class participates, children are trained to work together to accomplish something; By having children run hand in hand, let them understand the meaning of friendship; Statements like that.
It's like a disgusting school drama on TV.
Whether it is the college entrance examination or the competition after entering the society, the obvious and merciless knockout competition that awaits the children in the future.
It is clear that it is necessary to fight in such a living environment, but it says that "everyone has unlimited possibilities", and in the final analysis, no one will show the slightest sympathy for those who have been eliminated by society.
In fact, children should be allowed to win or lose. For children who cry because they lose a game, you can also comfort them with words such as "However, you don't lose to others in mathematics".
If you assume that everyone has unlimited possibilities, then the conclusion can only be that your efforts are not enough.
You lose the game just because you didn't try hard enough. Saying this to children all the time is like whispering in the ears of a young man who has no hope for comic talent, "As long as you work hard, you will become popular one day in the future." There is no concern for you in this statement. No matter how hard you try, what you can't do is what you can't do.
To put it simply, for example, if there are a thousand people who want to enter the entertainment industry, how many of them can rely on this mixed bowl of rice? At most one, if you can't get one, you can't get one. Then the remaining nine hundred and ninety-nine people would have to give up. Even so, do you still want to say "if you work hard, your dreams can come true"? If you answer yes, then you are an incorrigible fool.
Why do you have to force your child to complete an impossible task?
Everything that has not been achieved is said to be insufficient effort, so what about the original difference between everyone? Isn't this unrealistic nonsense?
Today's children under this kind of education simply don't even want to work hard, as long as they dream, they can realize their dreams, and they have become like this.
In this situation, throwing a person into society at once, isn't his brain going to be broken? Anything that fails to achieve your wish is because others are not good. So, the father and mother were not good, so they beat them up; Society is not good, just stay at home. What's more, they will be enthusiastic about new religions full of nonsense.
The same is true for tailgating maniacs. Because my mind is engraved that I can achieve my dreams as long as I work hard, I never give up, and I just stare at the object of my heart. In the end, you may even kill the other party because of love and hate.
There used to be a saying "unattainable", but now no one says that.
All in all, whether squatting at home or tailgating madness, they are people who do not know the truth that "when it is time to give up", what is the difference between their kind of mind and babies who will have milk as long as they cry loudly?
And what about parents, you see them panic to seek the help of the psychological counselor on TV, tears and snot to ask the counselor, "What should I do with the children at home"?
As long as you work hard, there will be results, let's stop saying such false things to children. We should teach our children from an early age to recognize reality. People are not equal, you don't have that talent. This is the reality that parents should tell their children. No matter how hard you try, what you can't do is what you can't do, and this is what daddy must teach children.
Some might say that saying such things can discourage children. But the other way around. If the child's motivation is not discouraged, can a child with little exercise win the Olympic gold medal?
Telling your child that he doesn't have any talent is never cruel. If you feel that you can't stand it, you should help your child acquire some kind of talent that can live in this world.
If your child does not have any talents, then at least you should cultivate a strong heart so that he can still live even if he is messed up by reality and bruised by reality when he enters society in the future.
We should not be afraid to let a child's young mind be hurt. I think it's better to let your child get hurt, make him cornered, and finally have to give up. To get what you want, you have to put in the effort. However, no matter how hard you try, you can't get it, then you can only give up.
This is the reality, and such education should be injected into the marrow of children from an early age.
This is the responsibility of fatherhood.
Testimonial: Our current education is to constantly encourage children, you can, as long as you work hard, you can. The beautiful name is: positive energy, you can't have different opinions, and if you have different opinions, it is negative energy. If you don't do it, you just don't try hard enough. Is this really education? You can read "The Arrogance of the Elite" again