Some observations on the high marriage of girls

Case: I found that many girls who want to marry high, a big reason for failure is that they do not understand some conventions at the class level of the boy who wants to marry.

That is, if you leave aside the family behind the male and female sides, many young men and women simply communicate and fall in love, often very smoothly.

But once at the level of marriage, if the family background, thinking concept, and regional differences between two people are large, it is easy to have many contradictions.

In particular, girls who want to marry high often deal with the thinking habits of their own origin and family background, and the result is worse and worse.

Because I heard such words: This little girl has no rules, the reason is not understood at all, only knows that it is intimidating, and the external scene cannot be supported at all.

The principles and rules here are indeed not something you can understand by buying a few marriage classes and reading a few books.

And those film and television works are cool plots, but real life is often the opposite, not worth learning.

There is a kind, that is, the descendants of large families in the past, if you add the relationship between green plum bamboo horses, everyone's way of thinking and philosophy are similar, things are clustered, people and groups are divided, it is easier to contact the rich class, and they are married.

There is such an A8 family girl around, with a clean family, married to an A10 family.

This girl is the mother-in-law's favorite, the girl only has a general education, looks like a Wangfu, not a beautiful woman, and has a very white temper.

But the mother-in-law of the family is just in favor, and if she wants to die, she must ask someone to come and propose to her.

The key is that the girl's mother was born in a large family before, and she was a bridesmaid and impeccable to people.

Girls are influenced by their mothers, and this is also the case, knowledgeable, know how to behave in the world, and of course rich families like it.

Regarding the high marriage of girls, I also chatted with a few wealthy parents some time ago, asking about their requirements for girls who want to marry, especially the female owner of the house, these families have an A10, two A9, and several are big A8.

The result was a little different from what I had thought before.

These family marriages are basically the woman in charge of the house to nod to enter the door, that is to say, the girl wants to marry, the mother-in-law's decision is very critical.

And these mothers-in-law have a very unified core requirement for their daughter-in-law, that is, to be in charge.

The explanation is that the woman can afford it inside and out, and does not require the woman to make money, but requires the woman to handle all aspects of the boy's relationship, family, and work.

This can't pass, the mother-in-law is not satisfied, whether she can marry in is not easy to say.

The above is about the high marriage of girls, some of my views, but this is only a representative of a part of the marriage market.

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