Nietzsche once said, "He who knows what he lives for will survive." In fact, life has no meaning, but different people will have different understandings of the meaning of life. People who understand the true meaning of life will give life a different meaning.
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Fate never stops carving everyone, from birth, we seem to be running desperately, when going to school, than grades, than specialty; after graduation, than work, than appearance; after marriage, than children, than family. Each of us is trying to live, crossing mountains and mountains, not far away, chasing the light in our hearts.
In the eyes of others, it may be unremarkable. But in his own eyes, he was as bright as a star. Therefore, we are willing to do our best to pursue it without hesitation. It's just that with age, the increase in roles and transformations, we seem to have lost the courage of our youth, began to weigh the pros and cons, look forward and backward, and walk carefully.
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#年少VS长大后的爱情 #
When we are young, we like a person and will boldly pursue it. As long as this decision is made, the other party is equally affirmative, others can ignore what they say, and the end of the world can go with him. At that time, the love was very simple, and the love was also very hot.
Perhaps, this is the love of youth, willing to go to a city for a person. Without scruples, they started from 0 and supported each other through the cycle of four seasons. Even if there are no flowers along the way, you can still bloom beautiful flowers in the flow of years.
After entering the society, we like a person, it seems to become complicated. Falling in love with someone, there is no longer the original impulse. Talking about marriage and marriage is even more weighed again and again, paying attention to the right door, equal strength, and the same three views.
Perhaps, this is the only way for us to mature! We have lost the courage we once had, in exchange for the ability to take responsibility for our own choices. There is no right or wrong in this, but later we know more clearly what we are more suitable for!
This suddenly reminded me of the "children only do multiple choice questions, adults of course all want" of the stem, suddenly felt that in real life this sentence is not right, only the child's age, can have no scruples about everything, and adults can only make trade-offs in front of reality. The pain of growing up needs to be endured, and each of us cannot escape!
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#年少VS长大后的我们 #
When we are young, we play very few roles, in addition to studying well and growing up healthy, there is no responsibility to bear. If we were born in a warm and ordinary family, as long as we want, we can spend a happy time without worry.
When we grow up, our roles change and we become employees of the company, husbands/wives of others, fathers/mothers of children. The responsibility of society and the burden of the family cannot tolerate any slackness.
It is said not to be smoothed out by life, we still have poetry and far away. However, the premise of having a poetic life is that you are no longer tired of life. The world is panicked, but the figure shatters silver a few pairs, but this broken silver a few two, can solve the world's thousands of panic, to ensure the health of the old man in his old age, the child into the school, you and I chai rice oil salt grain. But it is also this piece of silver that breaks the childhood thoughts and makes the teenager infected with vicissitudes.
As young as we are, we seem to be braver. But at every point in time, the self is only the self that was once there. Even if we go back in time, we will still make the same choice as we did in the first place!
The lifeline in the palm of each of us, like the map of life, will guide us to different futures. And the lifeline is in the palm of our hands, and the road ahead still needs to be walked by ourselves. I hope that each of us, on the road ahead, can enjoy both prosperity and settle in time!