Oniguzi: It is difficult for people who can't speak to succeed, keeping this rule in mind, life will be either rich or expensive in the future

Speaking is an art, but also a technique. Let's ask Dongfang Shuo to show us his unique skills.

Once Emperor Wudi of Han did not know where to hear the "truth", and said to Dongfang Shuo: "I heard that Ha, the 'middle of the people' under a person's nose lives long, and can live a long life for a hundred years." If the 'middle of the people' is short, they will live short, and their life expectancy will not be long. I don't know if it's true or not. ”

Obviously, Emperor Wudi of Han was dreaming of immortality again. At this time, in general, people have three options:

The first: echo. "Your Highness, what you said is".

The second type: Geng Zhi. "Your Highness, that's nonsense", Sima Qian was executed by the palace.

So is there a third one? some. After Dongfang Shuo listened to the boss's words, a smile appeared at the corner of his mouth, as if he was smiling.

Emperor Wudi of Han said unhappily, "Dongfang, you are bold and fat, and you dare to laugh at yuan." ”

What did Dongfang Shuo say? He said, "Wei Chen dared, Wei Chen just remembered one thing, so how ugly would It be that Peng Zuchang, who had lived for eight hundred years, would be." ”

Emperor Wudi of Han did not understand it and asked, "What is so funny about Peng Zu?" ”

Dongfang Shuo said, "If, as He said to His Highness, Peng Zu's 'middle of the people' is at least eight inches long, isn't his face as long as his face?" ”

After Emperor Wudi of Han listened, he laughed. But after thinking about it, I understood one thing, Dongfang Shuo was actually gently criticizing himself. But it does make a lot of sense.

Two

In general, high-quality expression, at least two or even three layers of meaning, this is the artistry of language.

The so-called talking is to turn when it is time to turn, try not to express it directly, because it is too easy to offend people. This is like the ghost Guzi said, "The way of the saints is yin, and the way of the fools is yang", what does it mean?

Really smart people are good at playing yin, and they never directly pick out the words. Only stupid people will be open and direct

expression.

Sometimes it is said that I have given face to others, and I have a son.