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Classic literature, you can't just pass by
Wang Zengqi, a native of Gaoyou, Jiangsu Province, born on March 5, 1920, is a representative figure of contemporary Chinese writers, essayists, dramatists and Writers of the Beijing School. He was hailed as "a lyrical humanitarian, the last pure literati in China, and the last scholar in China." Wang Zengqi is quite successful in the creation of short stories, and has also studied drama and folk art in depth. His works include "Ordination", "Supper Flower Collection", "Passing Water", "Evening Cuiwen Talk" and so on.
There is no better relationship between children and parents than "friends". Share the joys and sorrows and spend the whole year together. Children are independent individuals, and their present and future should be designed by themselves, not bound by the ideal model of their parents.
My father was a very easy-going person, and I rarely saw him lose his temper and treat his children with no ill will. He loves children, loves children, loves to play with children, plays with children. My aunt called him "Child Head."
In the spring, before dawn, he led a group of children to fly kites in the wheat fields. He put his own paste of centipedes, which were dyed with silk paste.
The line of flying the kite is the old string of the huqin. The old strings are strong and light, so that the kite can fly straight up without a "belly". Flying a kite with huqin strings, I have not yet met a second person.
He used a diamond knife to cut the glass into small pieces of different shapes, and then tease them one by one, and glue was used at the seams to make small bridges, small pavilions, and octagonal crystal balls.
The bridge, pavilion, and ball are hollow, and there are golden bells in them. From the outside, you can see the golden bell crawling freely inside, flapping its wings and chirping.
He would make all kinds of lights. A textile lady was pierced with light green transparent "fish scale paper", which came to life. Dyed with magenta, dark and shallow, grass to make petals, made a heavy petal lotus lamp, it is really beautiful.
We lit candles in these lights, walked through the streets, and the children of the neighbors came to see them, very envious.
Smoke together, always help your son light it first
My father was concerned about my studies, but he did not insist on it.
When I was a child, my Chinese language score was always the first in the class. When my compositions were well evaluated, he took them out and showed them everywhere. My math wasn't good, and he didn't blame me, as long as I could pass.
He painted, and I loved to draw when I was a kid, but he never pointed me out. When he was painting, I watched from the sidelines, and the rest of the time I was rummaging through the sheets and smearing them.
When I was in junior high school, I loved to sing opera and sing green clothes, and my voice was very good, bright and sweet. At home, he played the huqin and I sang. My classmates had a few who could sing, and the school held a concert, and he went to the school to accompany him at my invitation. Someone the size of a father spent an afternoon playing with a few children, and he was very happy.
I had my first love at the age of seventeen, and during the summer vacation, I was writing love letters at home, and he was blindly making up his mind.
I learned to smoke and drink as a teenager. He drank and poured me a drink too. Smoke, two at a time, he's one for me. He always lit a fire on me first.
This relationship of ours may be blamed on others. The father said, "We have been brothers and sons for many years. ”
Designing your child's future is stupid and hateful
My relationship with my son is also good.
For my son's several relationships, my attitude was "smell without asking". Understand, but do not interfere.
My kids sometimes call me "Dad" and sometimes I call me "Old Man"! Even my granddaughter called along. My own mother said that the child was "no big or small."
I feel that a modern, humane family must first be "no big, no small". Parents are awe-inspiring, and children are "straight", which is the least interesting.
Children are their own. Their present, and their future, should be designed by themselves.
A father who wants to mold his children in his own ideal model is stupid, and, disgusting!
In addition, as a father, you should try to keep a little childlike.
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