Honest people refer to people who are kind and loyal, conform to the rules, obedient, and obedient to others, in ancient times, honest people are also called "simplicity", is a personality that is easy to believe the lies of others, such people are often always deceived and insulted, even so, honest people will not blame others, will only impose mistakes on themselves. Whether in ancient times or in modern times, because of kindness and no opinion, teachers and people will always suffer losses, so how can honest people avoid losses? Remembering this kind word of oniguzi, you can take many detours.
What kind of person in life can be called an honest person?
1. Foolishness
A person's growth is inevitably inseparable from the workplace, whether it is the same in modern times or in ancient times, the workplace is like an examination room, if one step is wrong, it is likely that every next one is wrong. So in the workplace, how can you avoid your mistakes? Is it that no matter what dissatisfaction there is, it is swallowed up and not said? Is it unconditionally supported no matter what the boss decides? In fact, it is not, such an approach is not necessarily a good thing, it is just a manifestation of foolishness.
In the history of our country, there are also many representative figures of Foolish Loyalty, such as the famous general Meng Tian during the Qin Dynasty. Meng Tian was born into a family, rich and powerful, courageous and strategic, not only by qin shi huang's attention, but also in the military aspect is also a dominant force, which can be seen from the fact that he holds 300,000 military power, but such a general is a very foolish and loyal person. After the death of Qin Shi Huang, Fu Su, who was supposed to inherit the throne, did not hesitate to commit suicide when he saw Zhao Gao's false instructions to let him commit suicide, and although Meng Tian knew that this was Zhao Gao's treacherous plan, he still chose to be loyal to the Qin Dynasty, believing that it was wrong to rebel and finally committing suicide in the army. But suppose that if he is willing to rebel, is there no chance of victory? It can only be said that foolish loyalty is not advisable.
Second, too flexible
There's nothing wrong with being flexible and a good thing, but if flexibility is used in the wrong place, it becomes an honest person. As we all know, Cao Cao was a famous tyrant during the Three Kingdoms period, and he had a subordinate named Yang Xiu, who was very brainy, almost a roundworm in Cao Cao's stomach, but he knew everything that Cao Cao had in mind. But sometimes his ingenuity is not used in the right place, and there is even one thing that has become a negative teaching material for cleverness. One day, a neighbor sent a box of dim sum to Cao Cao, and originally Cao Cao wanted to give the dim sum to the ministers to eat, but because of something, he wrote the three words "Yihe Crisp" on this box of dim sum.
When he came back, he was very annoyed to see Yang Xiu sharing this box of snacks with several ministers, but it was Yang Xiu who said, "Isn't that what you want to give us?" In fact, Cao Cao did mean this, but he didn't want such an ending, he thought of the scene is that the ministers don't eat, and then when he returns, he laughs and distributes the snacks to everyone, explaining the meaning of these three words by the way. But Yang Xiu used this opportunity to highlight his own wisdom. Not long after, Yang Xiu was executed by Cao Cao for a reason.
So how can honest people avoid losses in the workplace? Keeping in mind Oniguzi's phrase "judging the hour and sizing up the situation, making suggestions and suggestions", a wise person can often see the situation clearly and make a correct judgment. As long as you find the weakest point in the whole scene, the place that needs to be improved, and modify it, and tell the boss in a euphemistic way, this is the most perfect way to achieve something in the workplace.