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There is a British proverb: relatives help relatives, and no relatives come to help people who are sad.
Deeply.
No matter what country you are in, no matter where you are, you will always get along with your relatives.
Family affection is something worth cherishing in human emotions.
However, there are no absolutes in everything, not all emotions, only love and warmth, and sometimes, there will be calculation and jealousy, which is the essence of human nature.
As George Bernard Shaw said, "Home is the only place in the world where human flaws and failures are hidden, and it also hides sweet love." ”
Family affection, like a double-edged sword, sometimes, will make people feel warm, and sometimes, it will also make people feel sad.
When people reach 50 and walk through half a lifetime, they will deeply realize that in this life, there are only a few kinds of relatives worth interacting with.
In this life, few people live smoothly.
In the long river of life, there will always be some difficulties encountered.
One person counts short, two people count long.
When you encounter difficulties, you are also willing to help your relatives, such relatives, must remember to be grateful.
There is a distant relative in the rural hometown, and his father is an uncle and nephew who can't be pulled apart by eight poles.
In the early years, he and the villagers went out to work, met a good year, made some money, bought a house, a car, and married a wife outside.
However, young and crazy, earn easily, and spend fast.
Outside, he socialized with some people with impure minds, fell into the vicious habit of gambling, and deceived him to the point of almost breaking the law.
Originally, there was no family foundation to support him, and the little bit on his hand was only to earn it quickly, and a little blow would break up.
The house was mortgaged, the car was sold, the wife did not say goodbye, and she also carried hundreds of thousands of debts.
After returning to his hometown, he had no relatives and no children, and the family house, or the adobe house when he went out before, was uninhabited for a long time, and had long been broken into a dangerous house and could not live in.
The people of the village more or less listened to his encounters outside, and they were afraid that he would open his mouth to borrow money, so they respected him and stayed away.
When he was alone and helpless, he found the door of my house, and his father took 1,000 yuan out of the family's small savings and lent him, and told him that if he could pay it back, he could not pay it back.
He took 1,000 yuan and set off again to go outside to work.
It was 7 years, and the first two years, he finally returned to his hometown again, driving a small car, with his daughter-in-law and children.
Although it has not returned to its former glory, at least the days will go on.
The first thing I did when I came back was to thank my father, and after that, I would express gifts to my father every New Year's Day.
In this world, people who can not abandon you when they are in trouble, except for their parents, few people will do this to you.
You know, when you are in trouble, no one knows whether you will be able to make a comeback in the future, and the help you will give is equivalent to being prepared for nothing in return.
In such a case, those who can help you must cherish and be grateful.
Maxima is often there, bole is not often there.
Almost everyone has their own strengths and strengths, the reason why they have not made achievements, or feel confused, are often affected by experience and experience, or want too many things, but there is no direction.
At this time, there will be many people around you, some will accuse you of "low eyes and low hands", some will complain that you "think more and do less", and some people will say "the heart is higher than the sky, and the life is thinner than paper".
These words are very reasonable and make you unable to refute them, but you still don't know where the direction is.
At this time, if there is such a person, he will not tire of telling you what to do and where the direction is, such a person deserves our respect.
I've always wanted to do a side hustle to increase the income of my family.
Before, I did a lot of things online, but I didn't make money, and I didn't have any growth help for individuals, but I wasted my time.
I discussed it with my family and didn't know what to do. They always let me go to my current class, live a safe and stable life, and don't be so greedy.
However, I always feel that in this life, there is nothing stable and unchanging at all, and only by taking precautions can it be possible to cope with changes.
At a family gathering, my cousin learned of my status and suggested that I write an article online.
According to her method, I insisted on it for a few months, without any income, and she cheered me up again, told me many methods, and took me step by step to persevere until my side business income stabilized.
A person's life, just a few decades; the things and ideas that a person can experience are always limited.
Three stinky cobblers, worthy of one Zhuge Liang.
Sometimes, trusted relatives, giving a little guidance, is your way of being confused.
However, not everyone has such a state of mind and is willing to help you.
Therefore, when you are confused, those who are willing to take you to growth must be grateful.
Sweet words are good, but it is also easy to make people disappear into the "killing".
However, it is human nature to like to listen to good words, even if they know that there are not many sincere and true ingredients in these words, but they still like to hear such words.
In fact, good medicine is bitter, and advice is against the ear.
The more unpleasant the words, the more they reflect your true situation.
I have a relative who is in the clothing business and likes to talk to me every time he encounters any difficulties.
Once, I asked her, "I speak directly and hard to hear, why are you always willing to ask me?" ”
She said: "Over the years, I have become accustomed to being the boss, making a little money, employees holding me, relatives coaxing me, what I say, everyone says good, but I don't just want to listen to good words, I hope to have good opinions." Every time I talk to you, your words are ugly, but they are also enlightening and give me a lot of help. ”
Seeing people talking about people, talking to ghosts, and talking along the lines of others are the habits of many people in dealing with people.
Because most people don't like to hear bad words, when others say things that are not in their hearts, they will get angry and contradictory.
In fact, the most precious are those who are willing to speak sincerely.
Their words may not sound good, but they are indeed from your point of view, thinking for you, helping you calm and calm, rather than blindly "killing" and making you lose your way.
A hundred years of repair to cross the same boat, a thousand years to repair a sleep together.
It is not easy for people to live a lifetime, it is not easy to be a relative once, if you meet the following 3 kinds of relatives, you must cherish it.
About the author: Wu Yang. Multi-platform contracted author, female inspirational writer. Appreciate the emotions of the world and interpret the changes in the world.